Tsvaga zvese nezvemibvunzo yakavhurika

Kana tichitaura nezvemibvunzo yakavhurika, haina chekuita nemibvunzo yakavharwa. Yakavharwa mibvunzo painobvunzwa, kazhinji ine pfupi, yakasarudzika uye kazhinji izwi rimwe-mhinduro, kureva kuti, mhinduro dzinowanzo "hongu" kana "kwete".

Vhura mibvunzo ine mhinduro yakasiyana zvachose, ndiko kuti, kana mhinduro dzikagadzirwa dzinopfuura izwi rimwe chete uye dzinopa muparidzi mukana wekutanga hurukuro kana kutokwanisa taura zvirinani mazwi aunoda kusarudza kupindura mubvunzo wakavhurika.

Zvakanakira mibvunzo yakavhurika

Vhura mibvunzo ine zvakwakanakira pane yakavharwa mibvunzo sezvo ichikubvumidza iwe kuti utaure zviri nani pfungwa dzako. Iye zvino tava kuenda nyora zvakanakira izvi mhando dzemibvunzo kana uchiongorora vanhu.

Zvimwe zvinhu zvinogona kutaurwa

Mibvunzo yakavhurika inobvumidza vakapindura kusanganisa rumwe ruzivo, kusanganisira manzwiro, maitiro, uye kunzwisisa kwemusoro wenyaya. Izvi zvinobvumidza zvirinani kupinda kune echokwadi manzwiro evanopindura pane imwe nyaya. Mibvunzo yakavharwa, nekuda kwekureruka uye muganhu wemhinduro, inogona kusapa vanopindura sarudzo dzinonyatsoratidza manzwiro avo chaiwo. Yakavharwa mibvunzo kana Vanobvumira anopindura kuti atsanangure kuti havanzwisise mubvunzo kana kuti havana maonero pamusoro wenyaya.

Mhinduro inofungidzirwa zvirinani

Vhura mibvunzo inoderedza mhando mbiri dzekupindura kukanganisa; Vapinduri vangangodaro vasina kukanganwa mhinduro dzavanofanira kusarudza kubva kana vakapiwa mukana wekupindura vakasununguka, uye mibvunzo yakavhurika haingobvumidze vanopindura kuti vafuratire kuverenga mibvunzo uye kungo "zadza." iyo ongororo chero mhinduro (sekuzadza bhokisi re "kwete" pamubvunzo wega wega).

Iwe unowana rumwe ruzivo mune ongororo

Nekuti vanobvumidza rumwe ruzivo kuti riwanikwe kubva kune anopindura, senge ruzivo rwehuwandu hwevanhu (ikozvino basa, zera, murume kana mukadzi, nezvimwewo), ongororo dzinoshandisa mibvunzo yakavhurika dzinogona kushandiswa zvirinani kuongorora kwechipiri nevamwe vaongorori. iyo ongororo iyo isingape ruzivo rwemamiriro ezvinhu nezvehuwandu hwevanhu vakaongororwa.

Mienzaniso yemibvunzo yakavhurika

Tevere tichaenda kukuratidza mimwe mienzaniso uye kuvhura mibvunzo kuti iwe ugone kunyatsonzwisisa zvatiri kureva kana tichitaura nezvemhando idzi dzemibvunzo.

• Ndedzipi dzaive hondo dzakanyanya kukosha dzati dzamborwa?
• Chii chauri kuronga kutenga kuchitoro nhasi?
• Ko kurwa pakati pavaviri venyu kwakatanga sei chaizvo?
• Chii chaunofarira memory yehucheche?
• Uri kuzobatsira sei kambani kana ivo vachikupa iwe kuti ushande nesu?
• Chii chaunoronga kuti uite uchangopedza kudzidza kukoreji?
• Ndeupi rudzi rwekushongedza iwe wauri kuronga kuve nawo kune yako shamwari yekuzvarwa mabiko?
• Wakave sei ruzivo rwako kuchikoro chesekondari?
• Iwe neshamwari yako yepamwoyo makasangana sei?
• Ndeapi nzvimbo aunotarisira kuona pazororo rako?
• Unoita sei nezvekuchengetedza matikiti ekubhururuka?
• Ndeapi akanyanya kukanganiswa neHondo Yenyika II?
• Chii chaunofanirwa kuita kuti utenge imba?
• Zvakaita sei kugara munyika yako?
• Ndeipi inokurumidza nzira yekuenda kuchitoro chechipfuwo mutaundi?
• Sei uchiita seunotsamwa pese pandinotaura newe?
• Ndingazvizivisa sei zvirinani?
• Unozvigona sei kurera vana vako uri wega?
• Chii chinoitika kuvanhu vekirasi iyoyo?
• Iwe uchawana kupi nguva yekunyora iwo ese mavara?
• Sei ndisingakwanise kuenda newe?
• Chii chinoita kuti mashizha achinje ruvara?
• Iwe unonyatsoisa sei iyo skrini kune foni?
• Unofungei nezvangu?
• Iwe ungachinja chimwe chinhu nezve mararamiro ako here?

Kunyangwe mibvunzo yakavhurika ichida mhinduro dzakareba kupfuura mibvunzo yakavharwa, mibvunzo yakavhurika haisi kugara yakaoma zvakanyanya. Semuenzaniso, uchibvunza "Chii chauri kuronga kutenga kuchitoro nhasi?" zvinogona kungoda kuti anopindura averenge kubva pane zvakanyorwa.

Chatisingakwanise kufuratira ndechekuti mibvunzo yakavhurika inotungamira kumhinduro dzakajeka, kutsanangurwa kwakawanda kwekuti ndiani arikutaura uye kuti mhinduro dzinopa ruzivo rwakawanda kupfuura iyo mibvunzo yakavharwa yega inogona kupa.

Uchishandisa mibvunzo yakavhurika: hunhu

Vhura mibvunzo ine hunhu hunotevera:

• Anopindura anofunga nekufungisisa asati apindura
• Pfungwa, pfungwa uye manzwiro anowanikwa
• Anobvunzurudza anova nekutonga kwehurukuro

Izvi zvinogadzira mibvunzo yakavhurika inobatsira mune inotevera mamiriro:

• Sekuenderera mberi kwemibvunzo yakavharwa kusimudzira hurukuro uye kuvhura kune mumwe munhu akavharwa zvakanyanya: Chii chawakaita pazororo rako? Iwe unotarisa sei pabasa rako?
• Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo nezve munhu, zvavanoda, zvavanoda, matambudziko…: Chii chinoita kuti urambe uchinetseka? Sei zvichikosha kwazvo kwauri?
• Kuita kuti vanhu vazive kukura kwematambudziko avo: ndinoshamisika kuti chii chingaitika kana vatengi vako vakanyunyuta nezvezvaunoita.
• Zvekuti vanzwe zvakanaka nezvako uchibvunza nezve hutano hwako kana kuratidza kuva nehanya kwevanhu kune mumwe munhu: Uri kunzwa sei mushure mekuvhiyiwa? Ndiri kukuona uchinetseka zvishoma, chii chakashata newe?

Vhura mibvunzo inowanzo kutanga ne:

• Chii
• Nei
• Sei
• Kana kuratidzwa kunokoka kutsanangura chimwe chinhu

Kushandisa mibvunzo yakavhurika kunogona kunetsa pane dzimwe nguva nekuti zvinoita sekunge urikupa mumwe munhu kutonga. Zvisinei, mibvunzo yakanyatsoiswa zvakanaka inokusiya uchitonga sezvaunotungamira kufarira kwako uye uchivaita uko chaiko kwaunoda.

Kana uchivhura hurukuro, chiyero chakanaka chiri pamibvunzo mitatu yakavharwa kune mumwe mubvunzo wakavhurika. Mibvunzo yakavharwa inogona kutanga hurukuro uye kupfupisa kufambira mberi, nepo mibvunzo yakavhurika ichiita kuti mumwe munhu afunge uye ramba uchikupa ruzivo rwakakosha pamusoro pavo.

Unyengeri hwakanaka kuita kuti vakubvunze mibvunzo yakavhurika. Izvi zvinokupa iwe mukana wekutaura nezve izvo iwe zvaunoda chaizvo. Nzira yekuita izvi ndeyekunyengerera nenyaya kana kutaura pane chimwe chinhu chaunoda kuratidza. Sezvauri kuona, mibvunzo yakavhurika inogara iri sarudzo iri nani pese paunoda kuita hurukuro yakanaka kana unganidza ruzivo rweimwe mhando kunyanya.