Ukukhulelwa linqanaba elihle kakhulu kubomi bomfazi. Lixesha lokuba ubomi bomfazi butshintshe ngokupheleleyo, akukho nto iya kufana naphambi kokukhulelwa ukuya ekuzalweni kwakhe. Kwaye ngelixa, ngezo nyanga zisi-9, lixesha lokuba sonwabe Nangona kungasayi kuhlala kulula. Siza kukunika amanye amabinzana ukuba uwafunde xa ukhulelwe.
Ngale ndlela, nokuba ukhulelwe okanye uyazi umntu okhulelweyo, ungonwabela amagama anokukwenza uzive ulungile. Uyakonwabela eli nqanaba lihle kwaye nangona kunokubakho iingxaki, amandla akho okuba ngumama sele evukile kwaye Uya kulwa nento efunekayo ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle.
Njengoko abantu abaninzi besazi, siyile nto siyicingayo, ke iingcinga zethu ziyayilungisa imihla yethu. Kubalulekile ukuyondla ngamagama alungileyo ukuze ngale ndlela ube nokufumana umbono ochanekileyo ngakumbi okanye ubuncinci obuhle benyani yakho entsha.
Amagama anefuthe elikhulu kuwe
Ngala mabinzana siza kukunika wona, uyakuqonda ukubanakho kwabo kwaye kweli nqanaba lihle ulifunayo. Uyakwazi ukufunda ukulawula ingqondo yakho kwaye ungakhetha ezo ngcinga zikwenza uzive ulungile.
Kungenxa yoko, ungathandabuzi ukufunda ezi zivakalisi ngalo lonke ixesha uphulula isisu sakho, Kwaye xelela omncinci wakho yonke into oyithandayo, uyazi ukuba usempilweni kwaye ulungiselela ukumnika obona bomi bumnandi, ngaphandle kokuphosa eyona nto ibalulekileyo: lonke uthando lwakho.
Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive ungaqinisekanga kwaye usoyike, kodwa awunako ukuvumela uloyiko lukuoyise, kufuneka ulawule ingqondo yakho ukuba izive ilungile! Nokuba ukukhulelwa kwakho ayisiyonto ilungileyo, umngcipheko omkhulu okanye kukho ingxaki ... ungaze ulahle ithemba. Lawula ingqondo yakho ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle.
Ukukhulelwa yindlela yendalo yokudala kunye nokunika ubomi, kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu, kuyamangalisa ngalo lonke ixesha kusenzeka. Kuya kufuneka uyonwabele le nqanaba ngoxolo lwengqondo kwaye ngeemvakalelo ezilungileyo ezikugcwalisa impilo-ntle ngokweemvakalelo.
Sele udityaniswe nosana lwakho
Ukuba ukhulelwe, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba uqhagamshelene nosana lwakho ukusukela ngalaa xesha wafumanisa ukuba kwiinyanga ezimbalwa uya kuba ngumama. Ke ngoko, la mabinzana abhekisele kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Kuba uziva njani, naye uziva. Yintoni egqithisile, xa lifikile ixesha lokuba ukuva kwakhe kuphuhle, uya kuba nakho ukuliva ilizwi lakho Kwaye ke, ungamfundela la magama ngokuvakalayo ukuze wandise unxibelelwano lwakho.
Ngandlela thile uya kwazi ukuba usecaleni lakhe, kwaye yonke into oyenzayo, nokuba ujonge ezakho iingcinga, zezakhe. Ungathandabuzi ukumbonisa yonke le ntle ngaphakathi, kwaye sinokuqinisekisa ukuba, iya kubonakala xa sele unayo ezandleni zakho kwaye iqala ukukhula.
Amabinzana abasetyhini abakhulelweyo
Kuko konke oku, ungaphoswa ngala mabinzana oza kuwafunda xa ukhulelwe, kuba aya kukwenza uzive ulungile kwaye unxibelelane ngakumbi nawe, ngobomi bakho nangaphezulu kwako konke, nosana oza kulinika ubomi. Bhala phantsi kwaye ufunde xa ufuna, awuyi kuzisola!
- Ngokukhulelwa isisu sam siqaqambile njengentliziyo yam.
- Xa usoyika okanye ulusizi, cinga ukuba uya konwaba njani ukubona ubuso bosana lwakho, lonke uloyiko lwakho luya kushiyeka ngasemva.
- Ulusu lwam loluleka luthambe ngokupheleleyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngaloo ndlela ligcina bonke ubuhle balo.
- Ukuziva utyebile kuhlala iinyanga ezilithoba, kodwa uvuyo lokuba ngumama luhlala ngonaphakade.
- Siyavuyisana nawe mama, olona lonwabo lukhulu ebomini bakho seluqalile, kwaye ndiyavuyisana nawe, sithandwa sam, uzive unethamsanqa kuba ungoyena mama ubalaseleyo emhlabeni.
- Akukho ndlela yokuba ngumama ogqibeleleyo, kodwa kukho iindlela ezizigidi zokuba ngumama olungileyo.
- Umntwana wakho ukhula ngaphakathi kwaye uyenza njengomntu, ukusukela ngoku uya kulibona ilizwe ngamehlo ahlukeneyo.
- Cinga ngamanqaku oluleko lokukhulelwa njengamanqaku obomi.
- Umama unefuthe lomntu. Konke kuza kwizinto eziyimfuneko.
- Ummangaliso wenzeka kuwe, iqhekeza lezulu liyakhula ngaphakathi kwakho, lihoye kuba liyakuba kukulawula ukubonisa ulonwabo nothando.
- Ukuzisa umntwana omlindeleyo emhlabeni akufuneki kube yenye yezona zinto zoyikisayo kodwa kuyeyona mpumelelo yakho intle.
- Zimbalwa izinto ezaziwa kakhulu ebomini balo naliphi na ibhinqa kunokukhulelwa.
- Ayisoze ebomini uyokufumana okungcono kunye nokungathandeki ngakumbi kunonyoko.
- Akukho lwimi lunokuchaza amandla, ubuhle, nobugorha bothando lukamama.
- Ukuba ngumama kungaphezulu nje kokubeleka, kukucinga kuqala ngomntwana wakho emva koko malunga nawe, ukuvuyela, umama omtsha!
- Konwabele ukusukela ngoku ukuya kummangaliso omncinci oza emhlabeni ukukunika olona lonwabo lukhulu.
- Konwabele ukukhulelwa kwakho yonke imihla, mfazi, kwaye xa ujonga ngasemva, khumbula ngoncumo ummangaliso wendalo.
- Ngawaphi amandla anokuthi afakwe esiswini sakho iinyanga ezilithoba kwaye ubuguqule ubomi bakho ujonge phantsi, ugqithe nakuphi na ukulindela.
- Ubomi obuzelwe esibelekweni sikamama bubomi obudibene ngonaphakade.
- Intliziyo yomama yinzonzobila enzulu emazantsi apho uya kuhlala ufumana uxolelo.
- Iintsana zihlala zizisa iingxaki ezingaphezulu kuzo kunokuba ubucinga ... kodwa ziyamangalisa ngakumbi kunokuba ubucinga.
- Ukwenza isigqibo sokuba nomntwana kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuthatha isigqibo sokuba intliziyo yakho iphume emzimbeni wakho ngonaphakade.
- Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umfazi uthwala umntu oya kuba yeyona nto ajolise kuyo kuthando kunye nokuzinikezela ubomi bakhe bonke.
- Ukuba ngumama ayingomsebenzi. Kwaye ayingomsebenzi, kude kuwo. Ililungelo elinye phakathi kwabanye abaninzi.
- Uthwala umntwana esiswini sakho iinyanga ezisithoba, ezingalweni zakho iminyaka emithathu, kwaye entliziyweni yakho ubomi bakho bonke.