Abantu abakhohlisayo badla ngokunika umfanekiso ochaseneyo noko bakuko ngokwenene. Bazicingela, baqikelele, babala abantu kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo banokuzithemba okuphantsi abafuna ukukufihla kuzo zonke iindleko ngokubonisa ubuntu obunzima kwaye obunomtsalane. Ukuqhatha amaxhoba abo basebenzisa ukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo, into abayenzayo ngobuchule. ngaphandle kokuba amaxhoba abo aqonde.
Kukho amabinzana anokuthi anike umntu okhohlisayo, ngoko luluvo oluhle ukwazi amanye awo. Ngale ndlela, ukuba une-manipulator phambi kwakho, uya kuba nakho ukuyiqonda ngaphambi kokuba kube kudala kwaye Uwele kumgibe wabo weemvakalelo. Bangabantu abanetyhefu kwaye ukwazi la mabinzana akhohlisayo kuya kwenza kube lula kuwe ukuwatyhila.
Amabinzana abantu abakhohlisayo
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ezi ntlobo zabantu zicinga kuphela ngokwabo kwaye zifuna ukufezekisa iinjongo zomntu kuphela kwabanye. Kuya kukwenza uzive umbi ukuba abaphumeleli kodwa abayi kuva kakubi nokuba uziva udiniwe ngokwasemoyeni, banenjongo enye kuphela: bona ngokwabo.
Sukuphulukana neenkcukacha zayo yonke ingqokelela yamabinzana esilungiselele wona kwaye ke, uya kuba nakho ukuba nesixhobo esinye ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda ukuba lo mntu unetyhefu ngokwenene ngumntu okhohlisayo. Ukuba kunjalo, zibekele imida kwaye uqale ukuzihlonela ungavumeli loo mntu ukuba akuphathe, kuba ngoku uya kuyiqonda!
- Ayizange yenzeke le nto uyithethayo.
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- Ufanele uyazi ukuba ndisabela njani xa uthetha nam ngolo hlobo.
- Ufanele uyazi ukuba andiyithandi loo nto.
- Buza nabani na ofuna, into oyithethayo ayivakali.
- Andikhathali nokuba uvakalelwa ngolo hlobo, awunasizathu sokuba uphosise.
- Awuyiqondi into endifuna ukuxelela yona.
- Awuyiqondi into endikuxelela yona.
- Ingathi awundimameli xa ndithetha nawe.
- Musa ukubaxa kakhulu.
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- Kuyacaca ukuba awuzikhathalelanga iingxaki zam.
- Ungazihluphi, ndizakuzilawula ngokwam, andikudingi.
- Xa ungasakwazi ndizozibulala kuphelele apho.
- Ukuba uyenzile loo nto ndiya kuziva ndibuhlungu kwaye kubonakala ngathi awukhathali.
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- Uxolo, andazi ukuba unokundimela njani… Ndingoyena umbi.
- Andikuxoki, ndishiye inxalenye yolwazi, asikokuxoka!
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- Ukuba andizange ndikuxelele nantoni na ngaloo nto, yayikukukhusela wena.
- Bendidinga ixesha ndedwa, awuqondi?
- Ndenzeni le nto, koba kokokugqibela.
- Udinga ugqirha wengqondo, kuba ayiqhelekanga indlela oziphatha ngayo.
- Andiyithandi into yokuba uthethe nalamntu, ayikufanelanga, awuqondi?
- khange ndikuxelele inyani kuba awudingi kuyazi.
- khange ndikuxelele inyani kuba bendingafuni usokole.
- Ukuba andizange ndithethe nantoni na embi kuye, ubuncinane, akukho nto yayingeyonyani.
- Ngokucacileyo awuyazi into oyithethayo.
- Kufuneka uzazise phambi kokuba uthethe.
- Uyazi ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na ukuba ngaphandle kwam awuyonto.
- Ngaphandle kwam ubuya kutshona ebugxwayibeni.
- Kufuneka ndonwabe.
- Ngubani ofuna iintshaba zibe nabahlobo abafana nawe.
- Kwixesha elizayo xa uthetha nam, zama ukucinga ngale nto uyithethayo.
- Le nto uyithethayo ayinangqondo, le ndikuxelela yona iyinyani.
- Ukuba awundikholelwa, yi google.
- Kucacile ukuba kufuneka uvuke.
- Awunakuze ukwazi ukulinganisa.
- Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yam awuzukwazi ukuyiphumeza.
- Ungakhathazeki, ndiza kuba secaleni kwakho ukukunceda ukuba uyifezekise, kodwa khumbula ukuba ngaphandle kwam, ngewungazange uyifezekise.
- Andikucelanga ukuba ukwenze oko, ukwenze kuba ubufuna.
- Ungazami ukundiqinisekisa ngento engeyonyani, kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wengqondo.
- Yeka ukubandezeleka ngenxa yobuvuvu.
- Awulunganga kuba ufuna njalo.
- Ukuba benithe nandiphulaphula ngakumbi xa ndithetha kuni, aziyi kwenzeka ezi zinto kuni.
- Yekani ukundithandabuza, yivani into endiyithethayo kuni;
Ii-manipulators azitshintshi ukuba abafuni
La ngamanye amabinzana anokusebenzisa umqhathi ngokuchasene nawe ngaphandle kokuba uqonde ukuba ulawula izenzo zakho kunye neengcinga zakho. Iya kuzama ukwenza ukuba "ukhethe" olona khetho lukulungeleyo. A) Ewe, xa usenzela izinto, akusayi kukwazi ukumngcikiva nangantoni na kuba uye walawula ingqondo yakho. ukuze ukholelwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo xa inyaniso ikukuba eso sigqibo kunye nengcamango ifakwe engqondweni yakho nguloo mntu okhohlisayo.
Kuyo yonke le nto, ukuba uqaphela ukuba unomntu okhohlisayo phambi kwakho, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukubeka imida kwaye uzikhusele kuzo zonke iinkohliso zabo ezifihlakeleyo. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ngumntu wosapho lwakho, kwiqela labahlobo bakho okanye umntu osuka emsebenzini. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uzikhusele ukuze olu lwalamano luyityhefu lungakonakalisi ngokweemvakalelo.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uvumele nabani na ukuba athethe nawe ngaloo ndlela kwaye ke, yamkele imeko kwaye ubeke imida ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukulindela ukuba omnye umntu atshintshe, kuba ayifuni. Akacingi ukuba kukho ingxaki, kuba umntu okhohlisayo ekuphela kwengxaki kukunganikezeli kwibango lakhe.
Funda ukuthi hayi ngaphandle kokuvakalelwa kukuba uyamngcatsha, kuba ungowokuqala ebomini bakho. Ukuziphatha kwakho akuyi kuyenza itshintshe, kude nayo. Hlala ukhuselekile kubudlelwane naloo mntu unetyhefu kwaye uzinakekele.