Ukuphulukana nomntu omthandayo kuhlala kungumzuzu wentlungu kunye nentlungu enzulu. Kunzima ukumelana nayo kwaye inkqubo yokulila inokwahluka kuye ngamnye wethu. Iimvakalelo zinzima kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukuziphatha. Ke ngoko, ukuba kuya kufuneka uthuthuzele umntu osondeleyo kuwe, la mabinzana ezililo ukunika amazwi ovelwano aza kukunceda, kuba zizele kukuqonda kunye nokusondela kuloo mntu ufuna ukukhuthazwa kula maxesha anzima.
Kuyinyani ukuba ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo akusoloko kulula, yiyo loo nto ke sifuna ukwenza kube lula kuwe ... ukuze kwimeko apho kukho iimvakalelo ezininzi ube nobuntununtunu kwaye uziphathe ngaxeshanye. Nokuba sisiselo esikrakra, siyimfuneko ... kwaye kufuneka ucinge ngononophelo ngamagama ukuze achaneke kwaye Ngale ndlela unokunika uvelwano olusuka emazantsi entliziyo yakho.
Amabinzana anika amazwi ovelwano ngexesha lokuzila
Ngexesha elithile ebomini bakho kuya kufuneka unikezele amazwi ovelwano komnye umntu, kuba ubomi bunjalo ... abanye bafika abanye bahamba ngonaphakade. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngendlela onokubathuthuzela ngayo abo bantu bakudinga kakhulu. Bayakufuna ukufudumala kwakho kunye nenkxaso yakho kwaye ibinzana elithethwe kakuhle ngokusuka entliziyweni liya kuba kukusondeza kubo.
Ukuba kukho imfuneko, bhala la mabinzana, uwaphrinte okanye uwabhale phantsi kwincwadana ukuze ube nawo xa uwafuna. Le ndlela, Uya kuhlala unamabinzana onokukhetha kuwo kuxhomekeke kwimeko ohlala kuyo.
- Ngamana amazwi am ovelwano angakuthuthuzela kwaye yanga imithandazo yam ingayidambisa intlungu yakho ngale lahleko.
- Amagama kunzima ukuthuthuzelwa ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba eyam ingadlulisela kuwe indlela endizisola ngayo ngokulahleka kwakho.
- Sihlobo, andinamazwi ngalo mzuzu, kuphela zezona zinkumbulo zilungileyo (zegama lomfi) engqondweni nasentliziyweni yam. Ndinithanda kakhulu kwaye ndinithuthuzela.
- Kule mizuzu inzima oyisindayo, khumbula ukuba unenkxaso yosapho lwakho lonke.
- Nokuba amafu esibhakabhakeni okanye ukukhanya kwelanga akukuhle njengememori yakho.
- Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho, ukuba kukho into oyifunayo, unganqikazi ukundibuza.
- Ndilawulwa lusapho lwakho; namhlanje kwaye rhoqo.
- Ndiza kuhlala ndilapha xa undifuna. Wanga umphefumlo wakhe ungaphumla ngoxolo.
- Ndinqwenela ukuphilisa noxolo. Ndivuyisana nam.
- Abo sibathandayo abaze bafe, bahamba nje phambi kwethu.
- Xa kukho uthando, ukufa akunakuhlukanisa ngokupheleleyo abantu ababini kwaye nabani na oshiyekayo uyaqhubeka nokuhlala kwimemori yalowo uhlala esaphila.
- Umama wethu yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kubuso bonke bomhlaba. Akukho mntu kwaye akukho nto inokuvala isithuba esidalwe kukuhamba kwakhe.
- Awulahlekelwanga mntu, oswelekileyo ufike nje phambi kwethu, kuba kulapho siya khona sonke. Okona kulungileyo kuye kusentliziyweni yakho.
- Ndiyazi ukuba kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba akasekho kunye nathi, kodwa khumbula ukuba into esiyigcina iphila ezintliziyweni zethu nasezinkumbulweni zethu ayisokuze ife.
- Intliziyo yam inawe ngamaxesha okulahleka.
- Iyophula intliziyo yam ukukubona unje; Ndiza kuba ecaleni kwakho ngalo lonke ixesha xa undifuna.
- Vumela iinkumbulo zakho zikhukulise ingqondo yakho, zizise ukufudumala kwentliziyo yakho kwaye zikukhokele phambili.
- Emva kokuba iinyembezi zomile kwaye i-goodbyes sele ithethiwe, kufuneka sibambelele kwiinkumbulo ezimnandi esabelana ngazo nabantu esibathandayo abasele bemkile. Yile nto igcina iphila ezingqondweni nasezintliziyweni zethu. Ndivuyisana nam.
- Inokuba isindile emehlweni ethu, kodwa hayi ezintliziyweni zethu.
- Xa siphulukana nomntu esimthandayo apha emhlabeni, sifumana ingelosi ezulwini esijongileyo. Ngamana kungakuthuthuzela ukwazi ukuba ngoku unayo ingelosi ekunyamekelayo.
- Imihla ngemihla ndicinga ngawe, kuwo wonke umzuzu wobomi bam, inkumbulo yakho ikum.
- Ngalo mzuzu kubuhlungu kwaye kunzima ndikuthumelela uvelwano olunyanisekileyo ngale lahleko, ndikwathumela uthando lwam, kwaye ndabelana namandla am nawe ukukunceda woyise lo trance inzima.
- Andinabuganga bokuthi ndiyayiqonda intlungu yakho. Kodwa ndingathanda ukuba kufutshane nawe ukuze ndikunike intuthuzelo nothando lwam.
- Nabani na odlulile ebomini bethu washiya ukukhanya kuyakukhanya emphefumlweni wethu ngonaphakade.
- Lwamkela amazwi am wovelwano ngokusilela kwakho, sihlobo. Apha uya kuba nam nantoni na eyenzekayo.
- Kude kube kutshanje bendingazi ukuba usalam uswelekile. Ngelixa ndisazi ukuba amazwi nje awanakukuthuthuzela, ndifuna ukukwazisa ukuba ndilapha ngenxa yakho, ukuba kukho into oyifunayo. Ndiza kunxibelelana nawe.
- Andazi ukuba ndingakunceda njani upholise iintlungu zakho, kodwa ndingathanda ukwazi. Ndifuna nazi ukuba niyathandaza kwaye ndininqwenelela okuhle.
- Andikucingi ukuba ungaziva njani ngoku, kodwa ndikubizela ukukwazisa ukuba ndimnxeba olungiselelwe yonke into oyifunayo. Uvelwano lwam olunzulu.
- Kukho ukungabikho okunzima kakhulu ukukugcwalisa, kodwa uyazi ukuba unenkxaso yam epheleleyo ukoyisa lo mzuzu unzima.
- Siye sabelana ngezihlandlo ezininzi zobomi kwaye, kwezi ntsuku zinzima, ndifuna wazi ukuba ndabelana nawe ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye ndiza kuba kufutshane ukuba uyandifuna.
- Usizi lwam lukhulu ngokungathi akukho nto ilahlekileyo ishiyekileyo. Ndabelana nawe ngoluvo.
- Ngaphandle kokuphulukana nelungu losapho ngokwasemzimbeni, baya kuhlala bekukhapha ubomi bakho bonke. Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho kwaye ndikunika uxolo olunzulu.
- Ngelixa babekunye babehlala benamaxesha amnandi kwaye nangona namhlanje ulusizi malunga nokuphumla kwakhe okungunaphakade, kufuneka uhlale umkhumbula njengomntu owonwabileyo. Ndikunika amazwi ovelwano.
- Akukho mntu unokutshintsha xa uthando lukhulu kangaka. Khala ukumka kwakhe, kodwa uphinde ubuye nembeko yakhe kwaye uqhubeke nomoya kunye novuyo olubonakalisa wena kwaye ebehlala ekuthanda. UThixo uya kukunceda.
- Andizokwazi ukubulibala ubukho bakhe, ndiza kufunda ukuhlala nememori yakhe.
Ukuba ufuna amabinzana okuvalelisa kuloo mntu ukhethekileyo, cofa apha:
