Amazwi obomi ahlala ehamba nathi kwaye eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kukuba asixelela okungaphezulu kunokuba sinokucinga. Zintetho ezinokwenza ukuba ubonakalise imeko ethile ukuze ukuqonde ngcono okwenzekayo. Ziyinxalenye yenkcubeko yethu kuba yindlela yokudlulisa ubulumko obudumileyo ngomlomo.
Iintetho zisetyenzisiwe kumakhulu eminyaka, okanye kumawaka eminyaka! Ziintetho ezidluliselwa zisuka kubazali ziye ebantwaneni, zisuka kootatomkhulu noomakhulu ziye kubazukulwana ... ukusuka kwisizukulwana kuye kwesinye. Yindlela elula yokunxibelelana nabantu esibathandayo ngokungena kwimixholo ebalulekileyo ngaphandle kokuchaza kakhulu.
Zisetyenziselwa ukuhambisa ulwazi olusebenzayo ngobomi kwaye funda izifundo malunga neemeko ezithile kwaye ufunde kubo, wenza ngobulumko.
Amazwi amahle obomi
Kungenzeka ukuba ezinye zeentetho esiza kukuxelela zona sele uyazi okanye ukhe waweva. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uvile kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba zithetha ntoni ... masikubonise ezinye iintetho kodwa siza kuchaza intsingiselo yazo ukuze uzisebenzise kwimeko efanelekileyo xa uyidinga.
Ulwazi alwenzeki
Akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuba ufunde okanye umdala kakhulu ukuba ufumane iiprojekthi. Ukuba ucebisa ngento ebomini, nokuba buqu okanye bubungcali ... ukufunda luxanduva kwaye akukaze kube buhlungu ukwenza njalo. Ukwala ukufunda kuthintela ukukhula kwaye ndinezixhobo ezaneleyo zokuya phambili ebomini. Ulwazi lunamandla angenakuthelekiswa nanto.
Ukuziqhelanisa kwenza inkosi
Kuyinyani ukuba ekuqaleni, xa ubuchule bungekenziwa kakuhle, kubonakala ngathi kunzima kakhulu. Sinokude sicinge ukuba asinakuze sikwazi ukuyenza. Ngokwenyani, sinokufezekisa nantoni na esibeka kuyo iingqondo zethu ukuba sifumana izakhono ezaneleyo zokukwenza (ngaphakathi kwamandla ethu). Kuthatha kuphela iiyure zokuziqhelanisa kunye namandla okufika apho.
Thunga ucule, yonke into iyaqala
Kuyafana nakwintetho edlulileyo, kukho amaxesha apho abantu bangoyiki ukwenza into becinga ukuba kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa xa inyathelo lokuqala lithathwa ukuqala, elona linzima sele liphumelele. Xa uqala iprojekthi, umsebenzi okanye nawuphi na omnye umsebenzi, singaya phambili okoko sizimisele ukuqala.
Ukwenza nokulungisa kukufunda
Akukho mntu uzalwa esazi kwaye iimpazamo ziyinxalenye yobomi. Ngale ndlela, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba xa usenza into ongalunganga ngayo, kodwa ngokubuyela umva kwaye uqale kwakhona uza kufunda ukuba ngcono kweso sakhono kwixesha elizayo. Amava ngootitshala bobomi, kwaye zikhatshwa ziimpazamo ... ezizezona zifundo bazithandayo. Impazamo kwaye uqale ngaphezulu, kubalulekile ukuqhubela phambili.
Njengoyise njengoNyana
Le ntetho isetyenziswa kakhulu kwiintsapho, xa unyana efana noyise okanye intombi ifana nonina. Ihlala isetyenziselwa ukungqinelana kunye nokubi. Kodwa intsingiselo iyafana, leyo abantwana bafana nabazali kwiinkalo ezithile.
Ayizizo zonke izinto ezikhazimlayo zegolide.
Into enokubonakala ngathi sisigqibo esihle okanye esemgangathweni. Kodwa eli lizwi lithetha ukuba awukwazi ukuthabatheka yimbonakalo, kuba kumaxesha amaninzi ukudana kunokuba kukhulu kakhulu. Kufuneka ulumke ebomini kuzo zonke iinkalo kwaye ungahambi kuphela ngokubonakala kugqibelele.
Kungcono ukuthintela kunokunyanga
Eli lizwi liyathandwa, kwaye ngokusisiseko lijolise kwinto yokuba kungcono ukuba ngumntu olumkileyo kunokuba uzisole kamva ngemiphumo yokungathathi manyathelo kancinci. Kuba, ukuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko kuhlala kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokuphepha ukubandezeleka.
Ndinxibe kancinci ndingxamile
Ukukhawuleza kuhlala kubacebisi ababi kunye nabahlobo, kuba abasivumeli ukuba sicinge kakuhle kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi banokusenza ukuba sithathe izigqibo ezingalunganga ezisizisela iziphumo ezibi.
Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuba wenze izinto ngokuzolileyo kwaye ucinge ngokucacileyo ngaphambi kokwenza izigqibo. Ngokukhawuleza, iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo zinokungahoywa ethi kamva isenze siphulukane nexesha elininzi lokulungisa iimpazamo ezenziwe kukungxama.
Ungumnini wokuthula kwakho kodwa ulikhoboka lamazwi akho
Akukho mntu unokuyazi ukuba ucinga ntoni ngaphandle kokuba uyibeke ngamazwi. Engqondweni yakho ungathetha yonke into oyifunayo ... kodwa amagama ayaviwa ngabanye kwaye xa sele ephume emlonyeni wakho akusekho kubuya mva. Xa umntu ethetha kakhulu okanye ehleba, ziya kuhlala zikhona iziphumo koku kungakhathali kubudlelwane boluntu. Kungcono ukuba nobulumko, ube nolawulo lweemvakalelo kunye nokuthetha kwaye uyazi ukuba akusoloko kufuneka uthethe yonke into efika engqondweni yakho.
Ukuba uvuna imimoya, uza kuba neenkqwithela
Le ntetho ithetha ukuba xa umntu esenza okungalunganga kwaye esenza ngokuchasene nabanye abantu abasondeleyo, ekugqibeleni, baya kuthi ekugqibeleni bafumane ubunzima ngenxa yoko. Uya kuba neentshaba aze aphelelwe ngabantu abamthembayo kwikamva. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuba nomntu owenzakalisa ngeenxa zonke kodwa ukuba uyibangela, ungawuphinda kabini umonakalo owenziwe.
Emva koqhwithela kuza ukuzola
Ubomi abukho ibhedi yeeroses, kodwa akukho nto ihlala ngonaphakade ... ayilunganga kwaye ayilunganga. Xa sijamelene nemeko ebonakala ngathi inengxaki kakhulu okanye inzima, kufuneka sazi ukuba iingxaki zihlala zisenzeka, kwaye amaxesha oxolo noxolo ayafika. Nangona ngomzuzwana othile kunokubonakala ngathi yinto ekude kakhulu, ihlala ifika. Ngumcimbi wokulinda ukuba kudlule isaqhwithi.
Ucinga ntoni ngala mazwi ali-11 obomi? Kungenzeka ukuba ukhe uve enye yazo kusapho okanye kubahlobo. Okanye kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhe wazitsho ngelinye ixesha ebomini bakho. Nangeyiphi ndlela, ngoku sikubonelele ngeentsingiselo ke unokuzisebenzisa ukwazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba nganye yazo ithetha ntoni.