Akukho lula ukufumana umntu onokuziva naye into enkulu kwaye emangalisayo njengothando. Emva kokuba efunyenwe loo mntu, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukufuna ukuchitha ubomi bakho bonke kunye naye. Nangona kunjalo, baninzi abantu abanamaqabane kwaye abagqibi ukuyazi kakuhle.
Yiyo loo nto kufanelekile ukubuza isithandwa sakho imibuzo ethile ukuze umazi ngcono kwaye ukwazi ukuvana ngcono kunye naye. Ukukwazi ukuya nzulu ngokusebenzisa imibuzo ethile yinto enceda ukuphucula ubudlelwane kakhulu ngakumbi. kwinqaku elilandelayo Siphakamisa uthotho lwemibuzo onokuthi uyibuze isoka lakho.
Imibuzo yokubuza isoka lakho kwaye umazi ngcono
Kukho inani lemibuzo onokuyibuza isoka lakho ukuze umazi ngcono kwaye Yomeleza ubudlelwane besi sibini ngolu hlobo:
- Ukuba ubunokwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe, ubungenza ntoni? Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba atshintshe ubuso bakhe ngalo mbuzo, nangona kunomdla ukwazi impendulo yakhe.
- Ngaba unogcino okanye unenkululeko kubudlelwane bakho obusondeleyo? Lo ngumbuzo onzima, ngakumbi ukuba ubuzwa ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, le yinto efanelekileyo ukwazi ngaphambi kokuba ulale naye.
- Ukuqhubeka kulo mbuzo wokugqibela, ngaba unayo nayiphi na iminqweno? Yindlela entle kakhulu kunye nendlela yokwazi izinto ozithandayo kwinqanaba lezesondo.
- Luya kuba njani usuku olugqibeleleyo kuwe? Izinto azithandayo kunye nezinto azithandayo akufuneki zihambelane nobudlelwane. Wonke umntu kufuneka abe nenkululeko ethile ngokunxulumene noko akuthandayo nangakuthandiyo.
- Ngaba unawo nawaphi na amaphupha ebomini? Eyiphi? Lo mbuzo ufanelekile xa kufikelelwa ekwazini iinjongo isibini esinokuba nazo.
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe kubudlelwane? Umntu ngamnye ukhululekile xa kuziwa ekubeni nothotho lwezimvo okanye iingcinga malunga nobudlelwane.
- Ngaba uziva ukhululekile ngomzimba wakho? Ngokuxhomekeke kwimpendulo ayinikayo, unokwazi ukuba isoka lakho linokuzithemba okuphezulu okanye ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, akazithembanga kangako.
- Ulindele ntoni kum? Ngalo mbuzo uya kuyazi ukuba isoka lakho likubona njani, lithathela ingqalelo ubuhle kunye neziphene.
- Ukuba ubunokutshintsha amakhaya, ungaya phi? Enkosi kulo mbuzo uya kuzazi ezo ndawo apho isoka lakho liya kuvuya.
- Ngaba ucinga ngokuba nabantwana? Zingaphi onazo engqondweni? Lo ngumbuzo obaluleke ngokwenene, ngakumbi kwimeko apho ubudlelwane buhamba kakuhle kwaye ucinga ngekamva.
- Yintoni oyithanda kakhulu ebhedini? Ukwabelana ngesondo yinto ebalulekileyo nasiphi na isibini. Kuya kufuneka ubeke ecaleni i-taboos malunga nehlabathi kwaye uthethe ngokuphandle neqabane lakho.
- Kwaye uthanda ukwenza ntoni okanye wenze ntoni kuwe? Indlela ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo yokusondelana nesibini kunye nokukwazi ukwazi imiba esondeleyo ezuzisa ubudlelwane ngokwalo.
- Unika ukubaluleka kangakanani kumzimba? Kukho abantu ababeka kuqala emzimbeni kubudlelwane kunye nabanye abantu abaxabisa ezinye izinto ezinje ngendlela yokucinga okanye imilinganiselo ethile okanye iingcinga ngobomi.
- Ukuba ubunesibane somlingo ezandleni zakho, yeyiphi iminqweno emithathu obuya kuyenza? Enkosi kulo mbuzo uya kuba nako ukwazi ezinye iinjongo okanye iinjongo isoka lakho.
- Sushi okanye ipasta? Lo ngumbuzo onokubuzwa ekuqaleni kobudlelwane ukuqhekeza umkhenkce. Ngale ndlela unokwazi izinto ezithandwa yi-gastronomic zesithandwa sakho.
- Sesiphi isilo-qabane osithandayo? Lo ngumbuzo ofunekayo xa kuziwa ekwazini ukuba isoka lakho lithanda izilwanyana.
- Uqhuba nini ngakumbi: kusasa okanye ebusuku? Kuhle ukwazi ukuba isoka lakho lisebenza ngakumbi kusasa okanye kamva ngokuhlwa.
- Ngaba ukhetha uhlobo luni lomculo? Ngomnye wemibuzo ekufuneka uyibuze kumfana wakho. Kuhle ukwazi uhlobo lomculo owuthandayo ukwazi ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo kuhlobo lomculo.
- Ndikunika lento uyifuna entombini? Lo ngumbuzo obaluleke kakhulu kunye nonomdla. Le yindlela elungileyo yokufumanisa ukuba uyahlangabezana na nolindelo kunye nokufumana ulwazi oluthile ukuze ubudlelwane buqhubeke.
- Ngaba unalo naluphi na uloyiko ebomini? Wonke umntu unamaxhala athile kunye noloyiko ebomini. Ukwazi olu loyiko lungundoqo xa ujongene neengxaki ezahlukeneyo ezinokuthi zenzeke kulo lonke ubudlelwane.
- Ngaba kukho into ocinga ukuba ungathanda ndiyive? Yindlela yokuvelana neqabane lakho kunye nokuvakalisa ukuba zeziphi ezona mvakalelo zabo zisenyongweni.
- Ngaba kukho into ongathanda ukuyitshintsha ngawe? Yintoni i? Ngalo mbuzo isoka lakho linokunyaniseka kuwe kwaye lifumane yonke inkxaso yakho.
- Ngaba ungatshintsha nantoni na ngobudlelwane bethu? Kuhle ukwazi kuqala ukuba yintoni engalunganga kulwalamano lwesibini. Ufunda kwiimpazamo kwaye yonke into iza ngokufanelekileyo ukuze uphucule ubudlelwane bakho.
- Ngubani obengoyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho? Lo mbuzo uya kukuvumela ukuba wazi amaxabiso akhoyo kumfanekiso wesithandwa sakho kunye nokuba yeyiphi imbono anayo ngobomi.
- Ngowuphi owona mzuzu unzima oye waphila kuwo? Ukukwazi ukuvula kunye nawe kwaye unyaniseke ngokupheleleyo kunokwenza ubudlelwane bomelele ngakumbi.
Ngamafutshane, uninzi lwezibini zanamhlanje azifiki kwimpumelelo, ngenxa yokunqongophala kolwazi kunye nonxibelelwano oluncinci olukhoyo phakathi kwamaqela. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokubuza lowo umthandayo kunye nokuphucula unxibelelwano phakathi kwesibini. Enkosi kule mibuzo ye-25 uya kuba nethuba lokwazi isoka lakho ngcono kakhulu, into eya kuba nefuthe elihle kwi-bond eyenziwe.