Ukuba ungumntu onovalo ngokuthetha nentombazana, ngoko uya kuyithanda yonke into esiza kukuxelela yona. Akukhathaliseki nokuba uyindoda okanye ibhinqa, ngamanye amaxesha xa kufuneka uqalise incoko nesini sowasetyhini imithambo-luvo inokubangela amaqhinga.
Ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili uya kukwazi ukuba nalo lonke olo kuzithemba ubucinga ukuba uphulukene nalo kwaye uqonde ukuba akukho lula kuphela, kukuba ungumntu onje ngawe kwaye akufanele uphinde uve olo loyiko lukukhubazayo. Fumana indlela yokuthetha nentombazana.
Izihloko ezihlala zisebenza
Kukho izihloko ezihlala zisebenza ukuthetha nentombazana kwaye ziphule umkhenkce. Le mibandela ifanelekile ingakumbi ukuba akumthembi kangako loo mntu okanye akumazi. Izihloko zezi:
- Iifilimu
- umculo
- Iincwadi
- Iinjongo
- Sueños
- Usapho (kodwa ngokuphandle)
- Uhambo
- Umsebenzi okanye izifundo
- ukuzenza
Zizihloko ezingathathi hlangothi onokuthi uzibandakanye kwincoko yokuqala kwaye oko kuya kukunceda ukuba uqaphele ukuba unezinto ezifanayo naloo mntu okanye wahluke ngokupheleleyo. Xa sele uqalile ukuthetha, ungenza nzulu kwaye uphuhlise ngakumbi incoko ukusuka apho. Ukuba ukhe waphelelwa zizinto ozithethayo, nasiphi na kwezi zihloko zilungile ukuqalisa incoko.
Beka imithambo-luvo yakho ecaleni
Kwabanye abantu, uvalo lunokubangela ukuba uvaleleke ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ungathethi, kwaye kunokuba kubi ngakumbi ukuba uneemvakalelo ngalo mntu. Ngamanye amaxesha kusenokuba ngenxa yokoyika ukwaliwa, kuba ukucinga ukuba awunelanga kuye, ngenxa yokuba uziva uxhalabile, njl.
Ukubeka ecaleni imithambo-luvo, gcina ezi zitshixo engqondweni:
- Gxila kwintombazana endaweni yakho. Gxininisa kwinto ethethwa yintombazana, ivakalelwa okanye iyifunayo. Mbuze imibuzo ngokuba nomdla kwiingcamango zakhe. Ngale ndlela iintloni zakho kunye nemithambo-luvo yakho ziya kushiyelwa ecaleni kuba uya kuba nomdla onyanisekileyo kuye kwaye oko kuya kuphawulwa, nobabini niya kuzola.
- Ukuba nemithambo-luvo encinci yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo. Nangona ingcamango yokubeka i-nerve yakho ecaleni, uya kuhlala ushiye ezimbalwa kwaye oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ayisiyonto imbi. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba uziva imithambo-luvo ethile, kusenokuba ngenxa yokuba kukho chemistry ethile phakathi kwakho, kwaye luphawu elungileyo!
- Nokuba unovalo, yenza ngokuzenzekelayo. Ukuba imithambo-luvo ayihambi, ungakhathazeki, kufuneka uzame ukwenza ngokuqhelekileyo kodwa ngaphandle kokuzenza izinto ongeyiyo. Ukuba ilizwi lakho liyangcangcazela, lungisa umqala wakho kwaye uqhubeke uthetha. Okubalulekileyo kukoyisa olo loyiko kwaye uya kubona ukuba ukhula njani njengomntu.
- Thetha nentombazana njengokuba uthetha nomhlobo wakho. Eli licebiso elihle kuba uya kukwazi ukuthetha ngokwemvelo nangokuzithemba. Kuya kuba xa umtsalane wakho uya kubonakala ngaphandle kokuba uqaphele. Ukuba uthetha naye ngokungathi ungumhlobo, uya kukhululeka ngakumbi kwaye kuya kubonakala ekuhambeni kwencoko.
gcina intandabuzo
Ukuba ufuna ukuba acinge ngawe xa ungekho, ngoko wandise umtsalane ngokugcina ukukrokra. Oku kuthetha ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba umncome ngalo lonke ixesha okanye umnike ingqwalasela yakho epheleleyo.
Ukuba umnika ingqalelo eyaneleyo kunye nendumiso yokuvusa umdla wakhe, uya kukrokrela ukuba unomdla kuye, kodwa akayi kuqiniseka. Oku kuya kumenza acinge ngawe ngakumbi kuba ingqondo yomntu ifuna ukucaca.
Musa ukuzinyanzela, yiba ngokwemvelo
Awufuni ukuphuma kwindlela yakho ukuze uhlekise kakhulu okanye ubonakale unomdla ngakumbi kunokuba unjalo. Ukuba unokuba nencoko eqhelekileyo eyenza azive ekhululekile kwaye ekhululekile kunye nawe, sele uphakathi ... kodwa awudingi ukunyanzela izinto ongeyiyo.
Ungazami ukuba yimfihlelo okanye ube nomdla kakhulu. Sukuxelisa indlela yokuziphatha engabufanelanga ubuntu bakho bokwenyani, okanye uya kubonakala njengomntu ongeyonyani nonganyanisekanga. Loo nto igxotha nabani na ecaleni kwakho.
Indlela yokuthatha inyathelo elilandelayo xa uthetha nentombazana
Uqinisekisa njani ukuba incoko yakho ikhokelela kwenye indawo? Unokuxinga okanye ungabi nabuganga bokuthetha naye okwesibini, kodwa akufuneki ulinde nantoni na. Ukuba ufuna ukuyenza, yenza nje. Ziyeke uhambe nethuku lakho, thabatha inyathelo lokuqala uze umbuze ngenye imini. Ukuba uthi ewe, mkhulu ... Kwaye ukuba uthe hayi, kulungile naloo nto kuba ngaloo ndlela uya kwazi ukuba akufanele uchithe amandla akho kumntu ongenamdla kuwe njengoko wawunawo kuye.
Kakade ke, xa ufuna ukucela kuye okanye ukumisela olunye usuku ukuze akubone, yenze ngokuzenzekelayo. Musa ukwenza kubonakale kunyanzelekile okanye uphelelwe lithemba, kwaye ukuba uthi hayi, musa ukuziva umbi okanye uzithathele ngokwakho, eneneni ukwenzela inceba.
Loyisa uloyiko lokungafunwa
Mhlawumbi nawe ungomnye wabo bantu baziva bethile ukoyika ukwaliwa, ukuba kunjalo, awuwedwa, kodwa unokukoyisa, njani? Ukuba bayakwala, kufuneka ucinge ukuba abakufanelanga, ixesha. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokulahlwa, kuya kubakho abantu ebomini bakho abakwamkeleyo kwaye bakuthande ngendlela oyiyo, nabanye abangayi. Kwaye akukho nto eyenzekayo, yonke into ilungile. Akukho mfuneko yokuyila idrama kuloo nto. Yamkele kwaye wonwabe ubomi kunye nabantu onabo kuyo.
Yeyiphi eyona frequency yokunxibelelana yokuthetha nentombazana
Ukuba loo ntombazana izimisele ukuhlala inxibelelana nawe, sesiphi esona sihlandlo silungileyo ukuze ingakhubeki okanye icinge ukuba uyacaphukisa? Kukho imigaqo emibini ephambili ekufuneka uyilungelelanise xa umisela ukuba ufanele unxibelelane kangaphi naye.
Umgaqo wokuqala kukubetha ngelixa intsimbi ishushu. Musa ukulinda ukuba aqale ukulibala ngawe okanye aqonde ukuba akanamdla. Kuya kufuneka uvumele inkumbulo yakho ukuba iqaqambe kwaye icace kwaye icinge ngawe.
Okwesibini kukuba nawe awunaxhala, thetha naye ngendlela obuya kwenza ngayo kumhlobo wakho. Kanye rhoqo, hayi ngaphezulu, hayi ngaphantsi. Ukhumbule ukuba xa umnika ixesha lokuba alinde aze acinge ngawe, uya kuqalisa ukujonga phambili kwixesha elizayo xa umbhalela okanye umfowunela.
Ngala macebiso uya kubona ukuba ukuqala ukuthetha nentombazana kulula kunokuba ucinga kwaye ugcina umdla wakhe kuwe, kulula kunokuba ulindele!