Imizekelo yemidlalo yokubonisa

Ukudibana nabantu ngemibuzo

Abantu banentlalontle ngokwendalo, bayilelwe ukuba banxibelelane noluntu kunye noontanga babo kunye nokuseka ubudlelwane kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kulula ukuqala incoko nabantu ongabaziyo, nokuba ungatsaleleka kangakanani kubo. Kuba, Imidlalo yokubonisa lukhetho olufanelekileyo.

Nokuba kungenxa yeentloni, ukungazixabisi okanye ukuba nokwahluka okusebenzayo okuchaphazela ubudlelwane nabanye abantu, njengabantu abane-autism, kwabaninzi kunzima ukuqala incoko noontanga babo.

Kukho izixhobo ezahlukeneyo ezinokusetyenziswa xa kusekwa unxibelelwano, kodwa kuhlala kulula xa kuvela kuwe. Izinto ziba nzima xa kuziwa kwindibano yoluntu apho kukho abantu abaninzi, ke kwezo meko indlela elula yokukhuthaza ubudlelwane kukujonga imisebenzi kunye nemidlalo emema abantu ukuba banxibelelane. Ngendlela elula, eyonwabisayo kunye neyonwabisayo, eya kuthi incede wonke umntu oyifunayo qalisa incoko nabanye abantu.

Nazi ezinye zezimvo zokubonisa imidlalo yabantu abadala, nangona zinokuhlengahlengiswa ukuze zisebenze nabantwana kunye nabantu abanezakhono ezahlukeneyo. Iimeko ezinokuba nzima kwaye kwezi ntlobo zemidlalo apho abantu bancedwa ukuba bazazise kwaye baqale incoko, sisixhobo esifanelekileyo, esimnandi nesisebenzayo.

Uyidlala njani imini ngemidlalo yokubonisa

Isigcawu

Lo msebenzi wentetho ubandakanya ukuhlala onke amalungu eqela kwisangqa. Kumdlalo oya kuyidinga ibhola yomsonto, enkulu kwiqela, ibhola iya kuba nkulu. Umdlalo uqala ngokukhetha umntu ongacwangciswanga ukuba abambe ibhola yomsonto.

Umntu onebhola kufuneka enze intetho emfutshane ngaye, imibuzo esisiseko efana negama lakhe, ubudala okanye izinto azithandayo. Imiba enokwahluka ngokuxhomekeka kuhlobo lwentlanganiso. Xa ugqibile, kuya kufuneka ubambe ukuphela kwebhola uyiphose komnye umntu kwiqela.

Umntu ngamnye ofumana ibhola kufuneka ayiphinde le nkqubo, ebambe kwimeko nganye indawo yebhola apho isigcawu siza kwenziwa khona noboya. Logama umdlalo umnandi, ungaqhubeka kaninzi kangangoko uthanda, Ngale ndlela abantu baya kuba nethuba lokongeza ngakumbi malunga nomboniso wakho.

Amakhadi

Kulo mdlalo wentetho amanye amakhadi okanye amaphepha asetyenzisiweyo aya kusiwa phakathi kwabo bonke abazimeleyo. Ngamnye kufuneka afake igama lakhe ngoonobumba abakhulu kwaye phantsi konobumba ngamnye wamagama abo sisichazi esivumayo esiqala ngaloo leta. Amakhadi ashiyeke etafileni kwaye abantu abaseqeleni banokuhamba-hamba ukuze babone ngalinye. 

Emva koko umntu ophethe iqela kufuneka akhethe abantu ababini ngokungahleliwe. Aba bantu kuya kufuneka bazame ukukhumbula ulwazi oluthile olukwikhadi lomnye umntu. Ithuba ligqithiselwa kwabanye abantu ababini de kugqitywe iqela. Indlela emnandi yokuqala ukwazi abanye.

Imidlalo yokubonisa inceda ukudibanisa

Umdlalo webhola

Umdlalo olula kakhulu onokusetyenziswa ngeendlela ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zeqela. Umdlalo webhola ubhetyebhetye kakhulu, kule meko nakwindlela yokubonisa kubandakanya ukuphosa ibhola ngokungacwangciswanga kumntu omnye okwelo qela. Oku kufuneka kuchaze igama lomntu opase ibhola kwaye yiphose ngelinye ilungu leqela. 

Ke omnye umjikelo unokwenziwa ngezinye iinkcukacha, umzekelo, nezinye zezichazi ezivela kumdlalo wekhadi. Umntu ofumana ibhola makatsho isiphawuli abasikhumbulayo kuye nakubani na opasileyo ibhola. 

Ngubani?

Omnye wemidlalo yebhodi eyaziwayo kakhulu yee-90s kwaye uninzi lwangokuhlwa lokudlala lunike izindlu ezininzi. Ngumdlalo ofanelekileyo ukwenza umboniso ngokwamaqela abantu abangazaniyo nokuba sele kufikwa ebantwaneni.

Umdlalo uquka ukuzama ukuqikelela ukuba ngubani ovela kwiinkcukacha ezithile. Umntu ophetheyo kwiqela kufuneka alungiselele amakhadi apho bafaka khona imibuzo enje: Ngubani owazalwa ngenyanga enye nam? Ngubani oneminyaka engaphezulu kwiqela? Ngubani ohambe amazwe angaphezulu nangaphezulu?

Ke amakhadi asasazwa phakathi kwabantu abakwiqela. Umntu ngamnye kuya kufuneka enze udliwanondlebe nabanye esekwe kule mibuzo, ukufumana ulwazi malunga nomnye. Ekugqibeleni, iimpendulo ezifunyenwe nganye zidityanisiwe kwaye idatha ephandiweyo iyagqitywa.

Iikona ezine

Ngalo msebenzi kufuneka unike umntu ngamnye iphepha, kunye nosiba okanye ipensile. Ngamnye kufuneka azobe into embindini ebonisa okanye emele oko. Kwikona nganye kuya kufuneka ubeke ulwazi malunga nawe. Iminyaka yakho iya kuya kwikona esezantsi ekunene. Ngasekhohlo, into ongayithandiyo ngale ndlela uyiyo okanye ubuntu bakho.

Kwikona ephezulu ngasekunene kuya kufuneka babeke elona phupha labo likhulu ebomini, inokuba semsebenzini, kwizifundo okanye kwinqanaba lomntu, kuya kuxhomekeka kuhlobo lwentlanganiso. Ekugqibeleni, kwikona ephezulu ngasekhohlo kufuneka babeke into oyithandayo. Emva koko amaphepha axhonywe eludongeni kwaye ilungu ngalinye likhetha elinye elingelolalo.

Ukudibana nabantu ngemidlalo yokubonisa yindlela enxulumene

Umntu ngamnye unokukhetha into aza kuyibuza malunga noko bakubonayo kwiphepha kwaye umnini kuya kufuneka achaze uphawu, into angayithandiyo ngaye okanye into afuna ukuyibuza. Ke ngoko, umntu ngamnye uya kuzazisa ngendlela engathanga ngqo, esebenzisa abantu abenza eli qela.

Nawuphi na umsebenzi wentetho kufuneka wenziwe ngokuzonwabisa kuba okomzuzu umntu eziva esoyika okanye wophulwe, umdlalo uyeka ukwenza ingqiqo. Ngesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale ukhetha imibuzo emincinci yobuqu, engenakubangela ingozi okanye ukungonwabi ebantwini. Kuba ukuzifumana uphambi kwabantu ongabaziyo kunokuba nzima kwaye kube nzima ukulawula.


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