Ogogo nomkhulu yizo lezozinto okuthi lapho sizalwa zingabantu abadala kodwa zibe yingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yezimpilo zethu. Asazi ukuthi ubukhona babo bunomkhawulo futhi kubalulekile ukuthi sazise umzuzwana ngamunye abawusebenzisayo, basifundisa konke ngokuhlakanipha kwabo kwempilo. Ngakho-ke, Sifuna ukukubonisa eminye imishwana ongayinikezela kogogo nomkhulu ezokujabulisa.
Ogogo nomkhulu baletha inzuzo enkulu kubazukulu babo, bangamanani okufanele abekhona ezimpilweni zezingane kusukela ekuzalweni kwabo ... ngoba uma bengekho, nesikhathi sihamba futhi baba izinkanyezi esibhakabhakeni, ubuhlungu nosizi ngokungabikho kwakhe kujule kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi wazi ngokubaluleka kwayo nendima yayo ebalulekile ngaphakathi kwengqikithi yomndeni. Izibopho ezingokomzwelo ezenziwa phakathi kogogo nomkhulu nabazukulu ziyamangalisa inqobo nje uma zinakekelwa futhi zigcinwa engqondweni kukho konke ukuphila komndeni.
Ogogo nomkhulu empilweni yomndeni
Ukuba nogogo nomkhulu empilweni yethu kusisiza ukuba sibe ngabantu abagcwele. Namuhla kukhona ogogo nomkhulu abanakekela abazukulu babo ngoba izingane zabo ziyasebenza futhi zinamashejuli anzima. Abanye abakwazi ukunakekela abazukulu babo ngezizathu ezihlukile kepha bahlala bekhona ... abanye abakwazi ukuba khona ngokoqobo ngenxa yebanga kodwa zihlala zisuka enhliziyweni.
Ogogo nomkhulu bangabasizi abathembeke kakhulu ezinganeni zakho, abazali babazukulu bakho. Izwi lakhe kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila lisiza izingane zakhe ezimweni eziningi, okuthi, noma sebekhulile, baqhubeke nokufunda empilweni. Bayazwelana nezingane zabo futhi ngale ndlela bayabona ukuthi abazali babo, ogogo nomkhulu bezingane zabo bayohlala bengabalamuli abahamba phambili. nganoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana komndeni noma inkinga. Ukuhlakanipha kwakhe kubiza igolide.
Ogogo nabazukulu
Kepha ngaphezu kwabazali, nabo babalulekile kubazukulu. Labo bantu abangenacala abeza emhlabeni futhi bavuselele ogogo nomkhulu, babanike injongo yokuphila nokuphila kwabo futhi. Labo ogogo nomkhulu ababengabazali abaqinile ngandlela thile, manje bangogogo nomkhulu abavumayo, ngoba indima yabo akusamele bafundise ... uma kungenjalo, ukumane kube, ukuqondisa ... futhi kungani ungakusho? Futhi ukonakala ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi lokho kulungile!
Kubalulekile ukuthi isikhathi abasichitha nabazukulu babo yisikhathi senjabulo ngoba kwabancane, bafana namavithamini okuphila angcono kakhulu abangabanikezwa. Ogogo nomkhulu banezinto ezimbili izingane ezidinga njengokudla, ukulala nokuphefumula: isikhathi nokunakwa. Bangakunika okuningi.
Izingane zizizwa zijabule phakathi kogogo nomkhulu abazithandayo ngaphandle kwemibandela, abazilalelayo futhi bazisekele noma nini lapho bezidinga khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ziyabahola empilweni futhi zigxilise kuzo izindinganiso ezinhle njengothando olungenamibandela, inhlonipho, ukuqinisekiswa noma i uzwela.
Vele, zibalulekile kokubili ebuntwaneni nasezigabeni ezahlukene zempilo lapho zikhona futhi. Umuntu omdala othole inhlanhla yokujabulela ugogo nomkhulu wakhe uzoba namakhono angcono kwezenhlalo nangokomzwelo. Uzozizwa njengomuntu omdala ojwayele kangcono umphakathi kanye nempilo uqobo. Ngoba zingamanani adingekayo ukuze kube khona.
Nabo bayazuza
Vele, bayazuza nokuba neqhaza elibalulekile engxenyeni yomndeni. Bazizwa bewusizo okubalulekile empilweni yomndeni futhi isikhathi sabo siphinde sisetshenziselwe imisebenzi abazikhethele yona. Ngoba vele, isikhathi nabazukulu akufanele kube yisipho kubo, uma kungenjalo into abayikhethayo.
Ogogo nomkhulu abakhona ezimpilweni zabazukulu babo banokuzethemba okungcono kunalabo abangekho noma abangakwazi ukuxhumana nsuku zonke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isibopho esihlobene nomndeni siyaqiniswa, futhi Lokhu kubalulekile enhlalakahleni yawo wonke umuntu ngokomzwelo. Inqobo nje uma ubuhlobo bunakekelwa futhi inhlonipho nothando kugcinwa phakathi kwawo wonke amalungu.
Kukho konke lokhu, futhi ngenxa yokuthi zibaluleke kangakanani ezimpilweni zethu, sifuna ukukunikeza eminye imishwana ozozinikela kuyo, ngoba ikhethekile futhi ifanelwe la mazwi othando nothando. Ngoba izimpilo zabo zinikezelwe ezinganeni zabo nasekugugeni kwabo, ezinganeni zabo nakubazukulu. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, bafanelwe yinhlonipho evela kithi nazo zonke izinto ezinhle esingabanika zona, njengalawa magama amahle.
Imisho yokunikezelwa kogogo nomkhulu
Ungakusho ngokuzwakalayo kubo, ubathumele kubo kuWhatsApp uma bengogogo nomkhulu besimanje, babhale phansi ephepheni, noma yini oyifunayo! Okubalulekile ukuthi bazi ukuthi la mazwi owanikezela kubo avela enhliziyweni yakho.
- “Azikho izinto ezihlanganyele ezimpilweni zethu ezinhle ukudlula umkhulu; kuyena sinobaba, uthisha nomngani ”.
- “Manje njengoba sengikhulile sengiyazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nomngani omkhulu. Futhi ngiyabona ukuthi lowo mngani omkhulu nguwe, mkhulu ”.
- "Ngifuna wazi ukuthi izindaba zakho ngizohlala ngiziphatha njalo enhliziyweni yami futhi ngelinye ilanga ngiyozixoxela abazukulu bami, njengoba ungitshele zona."
- "Mkhulu, ngiyabonga ukungifundisa ukuthi uthando luyisipho esikhulu kunazo zonke isizukulwane esisodwa esingasishiya kwesinye."
- "Akekho ongenzela izingane okwenziwa ogogo nomkhulu: bafafaza uhlobo oluthile lokuqina ezimpilweni zabo."
- “Bengihlale nginenhlanhla yokuba nothisha ongcono kunabo bonke emhlabeni ngaphambi kwami. Mkhulu, ngifunde nawe ukuzicabangela. Ngiyabonga! ".
- "Ngiyabonga ogogo nomkhulu ngoba ungifundisile ukuthi impilo ayihlali ilula ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa njalo kumele uhambe ubhekise ikhanda phezulu ubhekane nezinto njengoba ziza."
- "Umkhulu ungumuntu onesiliva ezinweleni nasegolide enhliziyweni yakhe."
- "Njalo lapho ngingaboni ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe, uyavela, Babomkhulu, endaweni efanele, ngesikhathi esifanele, ukuze uzongisiza lapho ngiyidinga."
- "Uma ngibheka emehlweni akho ngibona ukuhlakanipha, ububele kanye nothando olumsulwa emhlabeni."
Uma unenhlanhla yokuba nogogo nomkhulu wakho eceleni kwakho ... zijabulele! Ngoba isikhathi sabo yisipho esihle kunazo zonke ongazithola.