Ukuphazamiseka Kobuntu beNarcissistic: Isifo Esinobuthi Osezingeni Eliphezulu

intombazanyana ebuka isibuko

Ingabe kungukuzenzisa noma ukuzethemba okuphezulu? Mhlawumbe uma wazi umuntu onenkani yokuziphatha oke wazibuza lo mbuzo kwesinye isikhathi. Ngisho nabantu abanenkinga yobuntu be-narcissistic bangadideka ... Yize kunezimpawu ezithile ezingenza kube lula ukukukhomba. Imvelo yomuntu inobugovu ngezikhathi ezithile, kepha umuntu othanda ukuthanda izinto angakudlulela ngokweqile.

Abayazisi imizwa nemibono yabanye abantu futhi abazinaki izidingo okungezona ezabo. Uma unesifo sobuntu obuthakathaka, sibhekene nokugula ngengqondo, okuthile okwehlukile ekubeni nesimilo sobuntu, kunalokhu, kungahle kuvame kakhulu emphakathini ... yize umehluko phakathi kwesici sobuntu nokuphazamiseka kobuntu, kuzofanele ihlolwe ngungoti wezempilo yengqondo.

Igama elithi "narcissist" livela enganekwaneni yamaGrikhi lapho uNarcissus, insizwa ebukekayo, ibona ukubonakala kwayo emthonjeni bese iyamthanda. Ubematasa ngokubuka isithombe sakhe wagcina eziphose emanzini. Lapho umzimba wawela khona, kwanda imbali enhle eyanika igama lembali yaseNarcissus ukuhlonipha inkumbulo yale nsizwa.

Yini

Abantu abanale nkinga yobuntu bangathinteka kuzo zonke izindawo zokuphila kwabo. Banohlobo lobuntu obunobuthi futhi banethonya elibi endaweni yabo eseduze. Abakwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo nabanye abantu futhi bangaba nobunzima bokuqhubekela phambili ngoba abakwazi ukuzwelana nabanye noma ukubona ukushiyeka kwabo kanye nokulinganiselwa kwabo. Lesi sifo singelashwa futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imiphumela elimazayo ingelashwa.

indoda ethandwayo ebuka esibukweni

Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-narcissistic kuyindlela ehlala njalo yokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphakathi nokuziphatha okubonakaliswa ukuzicabangela wena wedwa, ukungabi naluzwela, kanye nomuzwa wehaba wokuzibona ubalulekile. Njengakwezinye izinkinga zobuntu, lokhu kuphazamiseka kunendlela yokuziphatha ehlala njalo futhi ephikelelayo ethinta kabi izindawo eziningi ezahlukene zempilo, kufaka phakathi ubudlelwane bezenhlalo, bomndeni nomsebenzi.

Izici zayo eziyinhloko ukuthi laba bantu bazizwa behle phambi kwabanye, abanalo uzwela ngabantu futhi banesidingo esikhulu sokubabazeka njalo. Abantu bangakubona njengomuntu oziqhenyayo, ozicabangela yena yedwa, onobuqili futhi ofuna ngenkani kuwe kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, nabanye. Futhi bangaba nemibono emikhulu futhi bakholelwe ukuthi bafanelwe ukwelashwa okukhethekile kuwo wonke umuntu.

Lesi sifo ngokuvamile siqala eminyakeni yentsha noma ebusheni. Isimo sengqondo siyabonakala kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yomuntu onenkinga yobuntu be-narcissistic. Laba bantu bacabanga ukuthi bakhethekile futhi bangcono kunabanye. Bazama ukuhlikihla abantu abacabanga ukuthi nabo bakhethekile noma bafanelwe ukunakwa ngandlela thile ... abanye abantu, bayabadelela nje.

Ungadidanisi ukuba yiNacisist nokuzethemba okuphezulu

Yize abantu abaningi bekholelwa ekuqaleni ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zabantu zinokuzethemba okuphezulu, kubalulekile ukuthi ungadidanisi lokhu ngoba empeleni ... ukuzethemba kwabo kubuthakathaka impela. Eqinisweni, badinga ukuzwa nokubabazeka kwezifo nokunakekela abanye, ngokuzwa nje (ngendlela enobuthi) ukuthi bayaziswa abanye.

owesifazane othatha isithombe ozishuthe sona

Lapho banezinkinga ngokuzethemba kwabo, bavame ukuba nezinkinga ekwamukeleni ukugxekwa, amaphutha noma ukulahlekelwa. Bazizwa behlazeka lapho lokhu kwenzeka futhi ngokomzwelo bengenalutho. Ngokushesha bazizwe belahlwa abanye, futhi lokhu kuyabacindezela ngokomzwelo noma ngabe bezama ukufakazela okuphambene "phambi kwegalari." Kodwa futhi kukhona amacala abantu abanokuphazamiseka kobuntu kwe-narcissistic lapho banokuzethemba okuphezulu kuzo zonke izici, into ngokungangabazeki engaqhubeka ikhulise izimpawu zesifo.

Futhi lokhu kuphazamiseka akufanele kudidaniswe nokuzethemba okuphezulu. Abantu abanokuzethemba okuphezulu bangaba nozwela futhi bathobeke, ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu onalesi sifo uzobe esenazo lezi zimiso ezinhle.

Izimpawu

I-narcissism yigama elisetshenziselwa ukubhekisa kubantu abazikhathalela bona kuphela hhayi abanye, izidalwa ezinobugovu lapho befika kuqala khona konke. Kuyadingeka ukuhlukanisa, njengoba sibonisile ngenhla ngezimpawu zobuntu nokuphazamiseka kobuntu. Isibonelo, izici zobudlwangudlwangu zingase zivame ngesikhathi sobusha, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi lowo osemusha uzoba nenkinga egcwele ngokuzayo. Ezinye izimpawu zokuphazamiseka kobuntu kwe-narcissistic zifaka:

  • Umqondo wehaba wamakhono nempumelelo yomuntu
  • Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokunakwa, ukuqinisekiswa, nokudunyiswa okuvela kwabanye
  • Ukukholelwa ngaye ukuthi uhlukile futhi ukhethekile emhlabeni
  • Cabanga ukuthi ungaqondana kuphela nabantu "besimo" esifanayo
  • Amaphupho ajwayelekile ngokufeza, impumelelo namandla
  • Ukuxhaphaza, ukukhohlisa nokuxhaphaza abanye abantu ukuze uzizuzele wena kuphela
  • Ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngokuba namandla nempumelelo
  • Unomona ngabanye futhi ukholelwa ukuthi abanye banomona ngawe
  • Ukungabi nozwela kwabanye

umuntu othanda ukucasula

Ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa

Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni kungenziwa kuphela ngochwepheshe oqeqeshiwe wezempilo yengqondo futhi kudinga ukuthi umuntu akhombise ukukhubazeka ekusebenzeni kobuntu ezizindeni ezahlukahlukene, kufaka phakathi ukuthola umuzwa omuhle wokuzibona ebalulekile, kanye nobunzima bokusebenzisana ekufuneni ukunakwa, uzwela nokusondelana.

Ukushoda ekusebenzeni kobuntu nasekuvezeni izici zobuntu nakho kufanele kuzinze ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi ezimeni ezahlukahlukene, akumele kube okujwayelekile ngokwesiko, imvelo noma isigaba sokuthuthuka komuntu, futhi Akufanele kube ngenxa yethonya eliqondile lokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa noma isimo sezempilo esijwayelekile.

Ngokuphathelene nokwelashwa, i-psychotherapy ngayinye ingasetshenziswa yize inqubo ivame ukuba nzima futhi yinde ngenxa yezimpawu zomuntu ngamunye. Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi abantu abanalesi sifo abavamile ukufuna ukwelashwa. Abantu bavame ukuqala ukwelashwa ngokunxenxwa ngamalungu omndeni noma ukwelapha izimpawu ezibangelwa ukugula, njengokucindezeleka.

Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo kuvame ukusebenza ekusizeni abantu abanale nkinga ukuthi bashintshe izindlela ezonakalisayo zokucabanga nokuziphatha. Inhloso yokwelashwa ukuguqula imicabango esontekile nokwenza isithombe sangempela esingokoqobo. Imithi ngokuvamile ayisebenzi ekuguqulweni kwesikhathi eside, kepha Ngezinye izikhathi zisetshenziselwa ukwelapha izimpawu zokukhathazeka noma zokucindezeleka.


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