Ngaphambi kokubona le mikhwa ili-9 yokucinga ngokukhula kwakho, ndiyakumema ukuba ubone le mizuzu mi-4 ikhuthazayo ngokuqinisekileyo eya kukukhuthaza.
Le vidiyo iklasi yevidiyo ezikhuthazayo kwaye sele uyibonile ngamanye amaxesha; nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukuyikhumbula amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Yividiyo yamaMartian athatha isigqibo sokuhamba emhlabeni ukuze azazise. Akukho mntu ubakhathaleleyo, kodwa abayeki:
[Unokuba nomdla kwi: «Imibuzo engama-20 eya kukwenza ucinge«]
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwethu buqu yile funda ukucinga kakuhle ukuze sifezekise iinjongo zethu.
Uninzi lokucinga kwethu luyazenzekelayo kwaye sihlala singazi malunga nesaqhwithi seengcinga ezikhukula iingqondo zethu.
Kulungile ukuzama lawula kancinci into esiyicingayo nokumilisela imikhwa emitsha yokucinga ukuze ubomi bethu butshintshe bube ngcono.
Imikhwa eli-9 yokucinga eya kukunceda ekukhuleni kwakho
1) Sebenzisa umcangcilo kwaye udale
Esinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo sinobuchule bokuyila kunye nokucinga. Ngelishwa ubomi esinabo buyazicima ezi mpawu. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka ujonge umsetyenzana okunceda ukuba uvuse le mimangaliso mibini sinayo.
Unganikezela ixesha kwimisebenzi yobugcisa enjengokupeyinta, umculo, ukubhala, ... Kubalulekile kulonwabo lwakho ukuba ufumane oko kukuzalisekisayo, yintoni ekwenza ulahlekelwe ngumkhondo wexesha kwaye inyanzela ukuba usebenzise ukucinga kwakho ukwenza izinto ezintle.
2) Hlalutya indlela yokucinga yakho
Ukuqaphela, okanye ukucinga malunga nokucinga, kusivumela ukuba sifumane eyethu iipateni zokucinga nendlela ezi nefuthe ngayo kuthi iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha.
Xa siqala ukuba nolwazi ngeengcinga zethu singaqala ukuphinda sihlengahlengise iingcinga zokukhuthaza iingcinga.
3) Fundisa ingcinga enomdla
Okukhona ndifunda kokukhona ndiyaqonda ukuba kuncinci kangakanani esikwaziyo. Ubomi buzele ngamava alithuba fumana ubuchule obuninzi ukuba siyayazi indlela yokukhupha zonke iijusi kuzo.
Fumana izihloko ezitsha ezinomdla kwaye ufunde izakhono ezitsha.
4) Cinga nge-flexible
Enye yeendlela zokucinga eziyingozi kukuzigxeka kakhulu thina nabanye.
5) Fumana uburharha
Ukuhlekisa kunokuba luncedo kwiimeko ezininzi ezenza lula umthwalo weemvakalelo kwaye zivuselele ukucinga okusebenzayo.
6) Yiba nokuqonda kunye novelwano
Ukukhula njengomntu onovelwano kufuneka sibanqwenelele okuhle abanye. Ayisiyonto ifezekisiweyo ngokukhawuleza. Ifuna ekuqaleni kwe- umzamo wemihla ngemihla ukuze kancinci kancinci ithathe ingcambu kubuntu bethu.
7) Cinga ngokuzimela
Funda ukubuza izinto endaweni yokujoyina umhlambi. Ngexesha elizayo xa ungavumelani nento, musa ukoyika ukuyithetha. Ukukhula kwethu buqu kubalulekile ukuba sicinge ngaphaya kweembono eziqhelekileyo.
8) Hlakulela ukuthandwa kunye nokuzibuza
Ezingqondweni zethu kuhlala kukho indawo yokumangaliswa yiyo yonke into esijikelezileyo. Kufuneka nje jonga kakuhle iinkcukacha, yamkela umbono omtsha, okonwabisayo kunye nokucinga ngezinto. Le yindlela esibufumana ngayo ubuhle nakwezona zingabalulekanga kwaye singamangaliswa.
9) Camngca kwaye uthandaze
Ezi zinto zifuna ukugqitha zinika uxolo olukhulu. Basinceda ukuba sazi ngakumbi ukuba sicinga ntoni kwaye basinika a bulumko esinokuzibandakanya ekuthathweni kwezigqibo zethu.
Ndikushiya nevidiyo ekhuthazayo:
Siyathemba uyayithanda!