Uvelwano luyimfuneko kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kwaye ngokubanzi, kulo lonke uluntu. Uvelwano luthetha ukufunda ukuzibeka "ezicathulweni" zomnye umntu. Ziqonde iimvakalelo zakho, uqonde ukuba kutheni ucinga ukuba uzenza njani kwaye wazi ukuba uziva njani ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye kutheni. Oku kunokuququzelela kakhulu ubudlelwane bobuqu kunye, Ukuba bonke abantu bebenovelwano, besiya kuhlala kwihlabathi elingcono.
Uvelwano lwahlukile kuvelwano. Uvelwano lutyekelo olunomdla kwabanye kunye novelwano, njengoko besitshilo apha ngasentla, ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye. Uvelwano luyanceda ukudala ukuzinza okuzinzileyo kunye nokunzulu kweemvakalelo. Uvelwano lunokufundwa kuba sisakhono esifuna ukuthanda kunye noqeqesho.
Amabinzana ovelwano
Okulandelayo siza kukubonisa amanye amabinzana ngovelwano anokukunceda uqonde ngcono ukuba kuthetha ukuthini uvelwano kwaye kutheni kubalulekile ebomini bakho nakubo bonke abantu.
- Xa abantu bethetha, phulaphula ngokupheleleyo. Uninzi lwabantu alusoze luphulaphule--Ernest Hemingway
- Jonga ngamehlo omnye, mamela ngamehlo omnye kwaye uzive ngentliziyo yomnye.-Alfred Adler
- Sineendlebe ezimbini kunye nomlomo wokuva okuphindwe kabini kunoko sithethayo.-Epithet
- Ngokubhekisele kubunzima, ngekhe ubunyamezele ukuba ubungenaye umhlobo ova ubunzima ngenxa yakho ngaphezu kwakho. - Epithet
- Esona sipho sixabisekileyo esinokusinika abanye bubukho bethu. Xa ukukhumbula kwethu kubandakanya abo sibathandayo, ziqhakaza njengeentyatyambo.-Thich Nhat Hanh
- Ndicinga ukuba sonke sinovelwano. Singangabinaso isibindi esaneleyo sokuyibonisa- Maya Angelou
- Uvelwano luphulaphule nje, ukugcina isigwebo, ukunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo, kunye nokunxibelelana nomyalezo ophilisayo omangalisayo awuwedwa. -Ubrene Brown
- Olona hlobo lukhulu lolwazi uvelwano. - UBill Bullard
- Ukuba awunalo uvelwano kunye nolwalamano olusebenzayo lomntu, nokuba ulumke kangakanani, awuyi kude kakhulu. -UDaniel Goleman
- Eyona nto inzima emhlabeni kukwazi iintlungu zomnye umntu. -Upat Barker
- Uxolo alunakugcinwa ngenkani; inokufikelelwa kuphela ngokuqonda. -Albert Einstein
- Rhoqo siwajongela phantsi amandla okuphatha, uncumo, igama elinobubele, indlebe ephulaphulayo, ukuncoma okunyanisekileyo, okanye esona senzo sincinci sokukhathalela, zonke ezinamandla okutshintsha ubomi. -U-Leo Buscaglia
- Uvelwano luthetha ukuqonda abanye ngokwemigaqo yakho kwaye ubazise kumjikelezo wamava akho. -UYakobi A. Belzen
- Ndimbiza ngenkolo ukuba uyakuqonda ukubandezeleka kwabanye. -Umahatma Gandhi
- Kude kube ufundile ukunyamezelana nabantu abangasoloko bevumelana nawe, de ube uhlakulele umkhwa wokuthetha ilizwi elinobubele kwabo ungabathandisiyo, de ube uzenzele umkhwa wokukhangela okuhle kwabanye. endaweni yobubi, ngekhe uphumelele, kwaye ungonwabi. - INapoleon Hill
- Uvelwano bubukho obupheleleyo bento ephilayo komnye umntu okwangoku. -John Cunningham
- Ukuba ukuthetha yisilivere, ukumamela kuyigolide
- Ukufunda ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zomnye umntu, ukubona ngamehlo abo, le yindlela oluqala ngayo uxolo. Kwaye kukuwe ukuba wenze oko kwenzeke. Uvelwano luphawu lomlinganiswa onokutshintsha umhlaba. -Barack Obama
- Uvelwano kukubona ngamehlo omnye, ukumamela ngeendlebe zomnye, kunye nokuziva ngentliziyo yomnye. -Alfred Adler
- Kufuneka sinovelwano. Xa siphulukana novelwano, siphulukana nobuntu bethu. -Goldie Hawn
- Xa umntu olungileyo ehlupheka, wonke umntu ocinga ukuba ulungile kufuneka abandezeleke kunye naye. -Ieuripides
- Uthando yimeko enomona engazi nokuba namona okanye into engento, luvelwano kuphela kunye nomnqweno wokuba mkhulu kunawe. - UThomas More
- Uvelwano luthatha ixesha; Ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo zizinto, hayi ezabantu.-Stephen Covey
- Awunakho ukuqonda omnye umntu kakuhle kwaye wenze enye into ngaxeshanye.- M. UScott peck
- Sonke sinovelwano kwaye mhlawumbi ayinguye wonke umntu onesibindi sokuyibonisa. -Maya Angelou
- Uvelwano kukubeka ezicathulweni zomnye ukuze ufumanise ukuba kanye kanye uziva njani loo mntu okanye kwenzeka ntoni ngalo mzuzu.
- Akukho mntu ukhathalayo malunga nokuba wazi kangakanani, de bazi ukuba ubakhathalele kangakanani--Theodore Roosevelt
- Ukunciphisa umsantsa kwezoqoqosho akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokunciphisa umsantsa kuvelwano.-UDaniel Goleman
- Andimbuzi umntu owonzakeleyo ukuba baziva njani. Ndiba ngumntu owenzakeleyo. -Walt Whitman
- Sizalwe sinamandla okuba novelwano. Isakhono sokuqonda iimvakalelo kwaye esingaphaya kwemidyarho, iinkcubeko, ubuzwe, iiklasi, isini kunye nobudala. -UMary Gordon
- Uvelwano luchasene nokubaluleka kokomoya. Kukukwazi ukuqonda ukuba yonke imfazwe ilahlekile kwaye iphumelele. Kwaye ukuba iintlungu zomnye umntu zibaluleke njengeyakho.-UBarbara Kingsolver
- Andiyithandi loo ndoda. Ndifuna ukumazi ngcono.-Abraham Lincoln
- Uvelwano lusivumela ukuba silibone ilizwe lethu ngendlela entsha kwaye siqhubele phambili. -Marshall Rosenberg
- Kufuneka sinovelwano. Xa siphulukana novelwano, siphulukana nobuntu bethu.-Goldie Hawn
- Ukungahoyi kubulala uvelwano. Inyathelo lokuqala kwimfesane kukuqonda isidingo somnye umntu. Yonke le nto iqala ngesenzo esilula sokunaka.-UDaniel Goleman
- Ukuba ugweba abantu, awunalo ixesha lokubathanda.-Umama Teresa waseCalcutta
- Uvelwano luhlala kwindawo yokukwazi ukubakho ngaphandle koluvo. -Marshall Rosenberg
- Uvelwano lumele isiseko sabo bonke ubuchule obubalulekileyo ekuhlaleni emsebenzini. -Daniel Goleman
- Kukho into ngabantu abayaziyo kuphela-uBen Harper
- Ukusondela komntu oziva ngokweemvakalelo komnye, kokukhona baya kusondela.- Allan Pease
- Awusoze umqonde umntu de ube ujonga izinto ngokwembono yazo, de ungene ezihlangwini zakhe uhambe nazo. -UHarper Lee
- Uvelwano bubukho obupheleleyo bento ephilayo komnye umntu okwangoku. -UJohn Cunningham
- Uhlobo lobuntu, eyona nto ikuyo, kukuziva iintlungu zabanye njengezakho kwaye uziphelise ezo ntlungu. Kukho ubungangamsha ngovelwano, ubuhle ngovelwano, ubabalo ekuxoleleni. -UJohn Connolly
- Ukusweleka kovelwano lomntu yenye yezona mpawu zakuqala kwaye zityhila inkcubeko esecaleni kwenkcenkce. -UHannah Arendt
- Siyakholelwa ukuba siyamamela kodwa kunqabile ukuba simamele ngokuqonda okuyinyaniso, ngovelwano lokwenene. Nangona kunjalo, ukumamela yinto ekhethekileyo, yenye yezona zinto zinamandla zotshintsho endizaziyo. - UCarl Rogers
