Buyintoni ubomi? Ngumbuzo omkhulu lowo… ayisiyokuphefumla nje kuphela kwaye ubona ukuba ihamba njani yonke imihla. Ubomi buninzi ngakumbi kwaye ukubuqonda kubalulekile ukuba uqonde amanqanaba obomi athi umntu ngamnye kuthi Sele sidlulile kwaye / okanye siza kudlula kungekudala okanye kamva.
Ubomi ayisiyonto "nje" oyibonayo, inezinto ezininzi ezingafaniyo kwaye ungahamba kuyo ngeendlela ezingenakubalwa ... zininzi kwaye zahlukile njengokuba kukho abantu emhlabeni. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ephawula ubomi bethu ukusuka ebuntwaneni bokuqala luhlobo losapho esizalelwe kulo, imali esinayo, indawo esihlala kuyo, njl.
Ukuhamba kweminyaka, amava abephila kunye nendlela esamkela ngayo kwaye sijongane nobomi ngokuxhomekeke kwimbono esinayo, iya kukwenza ube namava ngendlela eyahlukileyo ... Ukuba nokucinga okwahlukileyo kobomi kuxhomekeke kuzo zonke ezi zinto zangaphandle (nangaphakathi) eziguquguqukayo.
Amanqanaba abalulekileyo
Kuyo yonke imbali yesayikholoji, kukho ababhali abaninzi abaye bawahlula amanqanaba obomi, kunye nezigaba zabo, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo zihlala zibuntwaneni. Zininzi izimvo ezithetha ngamanqanaba obomi kunye nokukhula kwabantu, Ngaphandle kokushiya ecaleni ukuba umntu ngamnye wahlukile kwaye uneempawu zakhe ezingafaniyo.
Yile nto ibubomi ngayo, ukubuphila, ukwahluka kunye nokunyaniseka. Kuba akukho namnye unjengathi nokuba singakhangela kangakanani. Akukho ziqingatha zeorenji ezisenza sonwabe, ulonwabo kunye nembambano zihlala ngaphakathi kuthi kuphela. Sikhetha ukuba sonwabe kwaye siphile ngoku okanye siphila sinomsindo sisoloko sinentloko zethu ngaphambili okanye ngokungaqiniseki kunye noloyiko lokuba ikamva lisibangela.
Ngexesha lobomi sineengxaki zengqondo kwaye asinakukuphepha, Sisipho samava kwaye kufuneka sisamkele njengenxalenye yethu; yintoni esenza sibe yile nto siyiyo namhlanje kwaye sifune ukuba sibe kwixesha elizayo.
Amanqanaba obomi
Kodwa xa sikuthathela ingqalelo konke oku kungentla, asinakukhanyela ukuba ubomi buzele zizigaba, kwaye zonke zibalulekile, kuba njengoko besesikuxelele, zezona zichaza ukuba sinjani kwaye siziphatha njani nabanye. La manqanaba asivumela ukuba siyiqonde inyani ngenye indlela hayi enye.
Imida okanye ukutsiba ukusuka kwelinye inqanaba ukuya kwelinye akuchazwanga kwaye kungade kube, ube nempikiswano ... Kodwa into esingenakukhanyela kukuba ngamanqanaba sonke esihamba kuwo kungekudala okanye kamva. La manqanaba aphawula ubomi bethu.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba zeziphi, qhubeka ufunda.
Inqanaba lokubeleka
Ubomi buqala ungekazalwa kuba linqanaba elibalwayo xa usesesibelekweni sikanyoko. Ifundwa ngeemvakalelo ezikhulayo, Ngezandi, chukumisa kwaye nengqondo yakho iqala ukukhula, indlela yobomi iqala!
Kwasebusaneni
Ubuntwana bokuqala buqala ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya malunga neminyaka emi-4 ... ngelixa ubuntwana be-amnesia buhlala. Inqanaba apho ulwimi kunye nemfundo esisiseko iphuhliswayo ukuze ikwazi ukukhula kwindawo ekufutshane. Ufunda ukuba usebenza njani kwihlabathi.
Xa ulwimi lufunyenwe, iingqondo ezingaqondakaliyo nezintsonkothileyo ziqala ukwenziwa ukuze siqonde imeko-bume esingqongileyo ngendlela enzulu.
Kwasebusaneni
Eli nqanaba lihamba ukusuka kwi-3 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-6 malunga. Kulapho ubume bokuzibamba benziwa khona kunye nokukwazi ukuziqonda wena kunye nabanye. Ithiyori yengqondo iqala ukukhula, esebenza ngokungayeki ukufunda yonke into ekufutshane nayo kwindalo esingqongileyo.
Ubuntwana obuphakathi
Eli nqanaba liqala ukusuka kwi-6 ukuya kwi-11 yeminyaka ubudala kwaye kukho inkqubela phambili yokuqonda okunengqiqo kunye nemathematika. Ubudlelwane nabanye buqala ukubaluleke kakhulu kwaye ukuziva ngaphakathi kweqela kubalulekile. Ukuqonda kwezentlalo kuqala ukuvela ngaphakathi.
Ukufikisa
Ixesha lokufikisa livela kwiminyaka eli-11 ukuya kweli-17. Linqanaba eliphambili ebomini kuba kuxa isazisi sakho simiselwe kancinci kancinci. Ukucinga okubalulekileyo kuqala ukukhula kunye notshintsho lwehomoni luyabonakala engqondweni nasemzimbeni. Ukusebenza ngokweemvakalelo kukwathatha inqanaba leziko. Izangqa zentlalo zinempembelelo enkulu.
Ulutsha
Ulutsha luhlala ukusuka kwi-18 ukuya kwi-35 iminyaka malunga. Ubuhlobo buhlanganisiwe kwaye buhlala bomelele. Ufunda ukuhlala ngokuzimeleyo kwaye ukuxhomekeka kubazali bakho kuhlala kwisitulo esingasemva. Ngapha koko, kule minyaka kulindeleke ukuba umntu omdala aqale ukuba nobakhe ubomi kwaye uyazi indlela yokusebenza ngokuchanekileyo kwihlabathi azifumana ekulo.
Amandla omzimba nawengqondo afikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu kwaye ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-30 aqala ukwehla kancinci ukuba awusebenzi mihla le.
Ukuqola
Inqanaba lokuvuthwa liphakathi kweminyaka engama-36 nama-50 ubudala. Inxalenye yomsebenzi womntu idityanisiwe kwaye imali ifunyenwe ukuba iphile ngokuzimeleyo ngokupheleleyo kumazwe apho kunokufezekiswa khona. Umntu unokuhamba ngeengxaki ezikhoyo ekhangela isazisi ukuba khange bakwazi ukudibanisa kumanqanaba angaphambili. Ukuzinza ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo.
Ubunzima bokuqina
Eli nqanaba lisuka kwiminyaka engama-50 ukuya kwengama-65. Kweli nqanaba, umvuzo uhlanganisiwe kwaye kulindeleke ukuba uphile ngcono kunakwizigaba zangaphambili ngokweemvakalelo nangokwezemali. Nangona kukho ukuqala kokubakho kotshintsho lomzimba ekufuneka kulawulwe. Ufuna uzinzo kuyo yonke imiba.
Abadala
Eli nqanaba lihamba ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-65 ukuya ekufeni. Ubulumko bufunyanwa kuwo onke amava abukhoma kunye nokuzimela ekubeni nakho ukuhambisa uxanduva lomsebenzi. Ngamanye amaxesha isifo sendlala esingenanto senzeka xa abantwana bezimele geqe kunye nokuchaphazeleka kwintlungu rhoqo kunokwenza ukuba umntu azive esesichengeni kunakwizigaba zangaphambili.