Uqeqesho lwe-10 lokubandakanya iikhowudi zengqondo ezintsha.
UCesar García-Rincón de Castro (ngo-2013)
Inzululwazi yenza ukuba sikwazi ukuguqula nokulungisa iDNA namhlanje. Inkqubela phambili kwi-neuroscience yenza ukuba kube lula ngakumbi ukutshintsha izimo zengqondo nokulungiswa kwendlela yokuziphatha eyenzakalisa abantu.
Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo into eziphilayo zazibonakala zingenakuguquka kwaye ezinokutshintshwa zezentlalo. Kuyaphikisana ukuba namhlanje i-biological kulula ukuyiguqula nokulungisa, kwaye ezinye iipateni kunye neekhowudi zentlalo ezizuze ilifa kwisizukulwana emva kwesizukulwana, namhlanje ngokucacileyo zingasebenzi kakuhle, ziyaqhubeka zisinda ngamandla.
Enye yezo patheni inento yokwenza nesimo sengqondo emsebenzini nophuhliso lomntu. E-Spain indawo e-ethe-ethe iyaqhubeka ukoyisa xa ucinga ngomsebenzi wexesha elizayo okanye uqeqesho: into ezinzileyo kunye nozinzo, inkcaso kunye nokuphila ezi ntsuku zimbini.
Kodwa eso simo sengqondo asisebenzi nje okwangoku, ngokwenyani asikaze sisebenze. Ukuthuthuzeleka okugqithisileyo kunye nokuphumla kubangela iingxaki ezingakumbi zengqondo kwaye uthathe abantu abaninzi baye kugqirha wezifo zengqondo, uViktor Frankl usixelela "Ukufuna Komntu Ngentsingiselo", oloxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Ukonwaba kungaphaya kweziqithi kunye neparadesi ezisithengisayo, kuhambo lokuhamba, kukhenketho, endleleni, nakwezinye iindawo.
Sifuna oomatiloshe abancinci (ukuzilolonga 1), abaziyo ukumisa kakuhle i-radar yabo (umthambo wesi-2), abatsala kwaye batyhalele abanye ukuba benze (umthambo wesi-3), abakhetha izimvo zabo kakuhle (umthambo wesi-4), abamisa amasela exesha labo (ukuzilolonga 5), bhala isicatshulwa sokuphila kwabo (umthambo 6), bakwenze oko bekwinkampani elungileyo (benze umthambo wesi-7), banxibelelane nemizimba yabo (benze umthambo wesi-8), babe ziinkokeli zenkonzo kwabanye (benze umthambo 9) kwaye oko komeleza iinethiwekhi zonxibelelwano (umthambo 10).
Kuvavanyo ngalunye ndicebisa amanyathelo ama-3:
Inyathelo 1: Ibizwa ngokuba “kukuphonononga imephu kunye nommandla” kwaye kukuhamba kwelona candelo lethambo lomthambo. Ngokusisiseko ziyimfuneko kwaye ziyimfuneko iikhonsepthi zengqondo ukuba zisebenze namhlanje, kodwa zichazwe ngendlela efikelelekayo kubo bonke.
Inyathelo 2: Nje ukuba sazi ukuba ungantoni na, ngoku lixesha lokuba siphonononge ngaphakathi komnye "yintoni le undixelela yona", oko kukuthi, ukuhlola ngaphakathi kulo mbandela, ukhangela amandla kunye nobuthathaka.
Inyathelo 3: Xa sele silwenzile uphando lwangaphakathi nolwangaphandle kwesihloko, lixesha lokuba sizobe "imephu yendlela" kwaye sibeke, ukuze siziqhelanise kwaye siphucule, ukufezekisa iinjongo ezibonakalayo neziphathekayo mihla le.
Ngokuqinisekileyo: amava-ukubonakalisa-isenzo Yindlela yesithathu eyenza ukuba umthambo ngamnye ube yinto enamandla yotshintsho kunye nokuphuculwa komntu. Qhubeka!
Imithambo eli-10 endiyicebisayo kule ncwadi yile ilandelayo:
Umthambo 1. Baleka kwindawo yentuthuzelo. Ukuba ngumatiloshe xa ujongene nemiceli mngeni kunye nemiceli mngeni, ukoyisa ukhenketho okanye isimo sengqondo sokujonga.
Umthambo 2. Misela i-radar yam yokusinda. Isiseko sobukrelekrele bemvakalelo kukusebenza kwethu ebusweni beemvakalelo ezimnandi nezingathandekiyo.
Umthambo 3. Ukuphucula umazibuthe wentlalo. Amandla okutyhala kunye nokutsala ekuhlaleni, indlela yokuziphatha ecacisayo kunye neyamkelekileyo yokufezekisa iinjongo zako konke ukuhlangana kwezentlalo.
Umthambo 4. Khetha ezam izimo zengqondo. Isitshixo lulwazi okanye imeko yokuqonda malunga nesimo sengqondo: ukuba sivumela abanye basixelele ukuba bacinge ntoni, asikhululekanga okanye asizimelanga.
Umthambo 5. Bamba amasela exesha lam. Ukulawulwa kwexesha, ixesha elisemgangathweni, kubalulekile, namhlanje kunanini na ebusweni beemfuno ezininzi ezivela kwimidiya emininzi.
Umthambo 6. Yiba ngumbhali obhaliweyo ngobomi bam. Endaweni yokuba ngumbukeli okanye umdlali weempendulo ezibhalwe ngabanye, yiba ngumbhali wobomi bam, wenze izinto ezintsha kwaye uzobe owam umendo.
Umthambo 7. Hlala kwinkampani elungileyo. Ukwazi indlela yokukhetha abahlobo abalungileyo kunye namaqabane kubalulekile, ukwazi umahluko phakathi kwesibetho sabahlobo kunye nabahlobo bomgquba.
Umthambo 8. Thetha nomzimba wam. Unxibelelwano olungathethi ngomlomo, oko sikuvakalisayo kwingoma yeentsingiselo zentlalo kwimeko nganye, ukufunda ukulawula imbonakalo yakho.
Umthambo 9. Khokela ngokunceda abanye. Iinkokeli ezilungileyo bezisoloko zikhonza kwaye zinceda abanye, ubunkokheli bobuchwephesha xa kuthelekiswa nobunkokeli obunamandla.
Umthambo 10. Sebenza kwiRED. Iindlela zokusebenza njengeqela kunye nokwenza inethiwekhi elungileyo yobudlelwane eyakhayo kwaye yongeze ixabiso, ixesha elitsha le-spiderman xa kuthelekiswa nexesha elidala le-superman.
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