Sidinga ukuhlakulela iimvakalelo ezintle kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni ezingqondweni zethu ukufezekisa impilo-ntle enkulu. Oku kufuna umgudu, unyamezelo kunye nokuzimisela. Apha ndikubonisa iimvakalelo ezi-6 eziza kukuzisela ukugcwala ebomini ukuba uyakwazi ukuzenza umkhwa kuzo:
1) Umbulelo.
Xa uvuka rhoqo kusasa, khetha ibinzana elibonisa umbulelo ngokuba uphilile, ngokuba unayo, umzekelo: «Enkosi, ndiyavuya. Namhlanje ndikhetha ukuncuma. » Eli binzana ndiliboleke koogxa bam ababhala kwibhlog Zuza imali kunye nexesha.
2) Umnqweno.
Ukuhlakulela inkanuko kusigcina sinomdla kwaye kusikhuthaza ukuba sive iimvakalelo zobomi esinazo.
Hlakulela uthando ebomini bakho, fumana into ekuthandayo kwaye ujonge uthando. Isenokuba ngumntwana wakho, iqabane lakho, izihlobo zakho, ngokwakho, umsebenzi wakho, eneneni nantoni na onokutyala imali kuyo.
3) Ithemba.
Ukuba awuzithembi ngokwakho kunzima kuwe ukuba ubenakho kwihlabathi elikungqongileyo. Khumbula impumelelo oye wayifumana ebomini bakho ukwandisa ukuzithemba.
Thembela abanye nokuba ngamanye amaxesha bayasilela kuwe, kule vidiyo:
4) Uthando.
Kuya kufuneka uhlakulele uthando kuba lolona luvo lunamandla. Uthando lunokubutshintsha ubomi bakho.
Ividiyo ngothando:
5) Ithemba.
Baninzi abantu abathi ukuba nethemba akusebenzi. Akunangqondo ukulindela ukuba iimvakalelo zokuzithemba zinokuhlala imini yonke, ngakumbi ngeli xesha xa kukho uxinzelelo olukhulu kuye wonke umntu.
Zama ukujonga izinto ezintle ebantwini. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba amaphephandaba kunye neendaba zikamabonwakude zizele ziindaba ezimbi kwaye zibangela uloyiko kunye nokungakhathali, sithetha malunga nokuziva ungonwabanga. Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kunye neemvakalelo ezintle.
Ividiyo enomyalezo wethemba: «Hlanganisa umhlaba»
6) Uburharha.
Bathi uburharha ngamayeza kaThixo, yonke into iyaphilisa. Musa ukubuthatha ubomi ngokubaluleke kakhulu kuba ekugqibeleni awuyi kuphuma uphila.