Sinokuba nzima ngokungeyomfuneko kuthi. Ukuzigxeka kunokuba yinto yethu yesibini ukuba asilumkanga. Ndikushiya ne Iingcebiso ezi-4 ezinokukunceda uvavanye amandla akho.
Iividiyo ezi-3 oza kuzifumana kweli nqaku zinenjongo enye kuphela: ukonwabisa.
1) Zazi iitalente zakho.
Sonke silungile kwinto ethile okanye sinento esithanda ngayo. Usenokungakuqondi oko kodwa kwimihla yethu sizinikezela ekuchitheni ixesha lethu lasimahla sisenza into esiyithandayo. Ukuba akunjalo, kukho into engalunganga.
Kuya kufuneka ubekele bucala iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku ukuze wenze into onomdla kuyo, unetalente yakho. Kuya kufuneka kuqala uqaphele into olunge ngayo kwaye uzinikele emzimbeni nasemphefumlweni ukuze ube yeyona nto ilungileyo.
2) Yabelana ngovuyo lwakho.
Ukuba wonwabile kufanele ukuba kungenxa yento oyenze kakuhle ebomini bakho. Ukwabelana ngovuyo lwakho yindlela yokufumana ukwamkelwa ngento oyenze kakuhle.
3) Yazi ukuba ukuthanda kwakho kunegalelo kule nto uyiyo.
"Ewe! Ndiyathanda ukupeyinta kwaye ndibone umsebenzi wam ujinga kwigalari yalapha. " "Kunjalo! Ndonwabile kakhulu ukudlala ibhola kakuhle »« Ndingumpheki ogqwesileyo ». Zonke izinto ozithandayo ziyinxalenye yobuntu bakho.
4) Khumbula izinto owenze kakuhle xa ujongene nengxaki.
Oku kuyakwandisa ukomelela kwethu kwangaphakathi kwaye sijongane neengxaki ezinje ngemimoya evuselelweyo.