Ezi zezingcebiso endinokuthanda umntu ukuba andinike zona ngaphambi kwe-18. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi na ebenokukunceda kwaye ukuba ungafaka isandla ngaphezulu.
1-Ziqhelanise nokwenza iimpazamo ezininzi: iimpazamo zifundisa izifundo ezibalulekileyo. Eyona mpazamo inkulu ayenzi nto kuba woyika kakhulu ukwenza. Awunakuze uqiniseke nge-100% ukuba iyakusebenza, kodwa ungaqiniseka nge-100% ukuba akukho nto uyenzayo ayizukusebenza. Yamkela le nkolelo: nokuba uyaphumelela okanye ufunda into.
2-Zinikele kwinto othanda ukuyenza: Nangona ngoku ndizinikezela kwinto endiyithandayo, ngekhe yaqala kwangoko. Ukuba ulandela iminqweno yakho kunye neenqobo zakho ezilungileyo, uya kufumana impumelelo ngaloo mnqweno. Ngale ndlela awuzukuvuka udiniwe kwaye ungabinalo uluhlu lokuya emsebenzini ongawuthandiyo. Ke xa umdala uzakujonga emva kwaye uzive ukuba ubuphile ubomi obabunqwenela.
3-Gcina ixesha, imali kunye namandla kuwe yonke imihla: kokukhona utyala imali kuwe, kokukhona uya kuba nolawulo ngaphezulu kobomi bakho kwaye inyathelo ngenyathelo uya kuzikhokelela ebomini obufunayo.
4-Soloko usenza izinto ezintsha kwaye ujonge amathuba amatsha: Ubomi yingqokelela yamava amancinci kwaye kokukhona unokubanomdla ngakumbi. Fumana amava amatsha, izinto ezintsha zokwenza kwaye wabelane nabantu bakho.
5-Ndiza kugxilaKungcono ukuqeqesha kwiindawo ezimbini okanye ezintathu kunokuzama ukugubungela uninzi. Iingcali kwindawo ethile zixabiseke kakhulu eluntwini. Umsebenzi onzima ubalulekile nangona ujolise kwicala elinye.
6-yamkela utshintshoIimeko zihlala ziguquka, nokuba zezona zilungileyo okanye ezimbi. Utshintsho lwenzeka ngesizathu esithile kwaye sinokwamkela kuphela.
7-Sukuba nexhala lokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe: ukuzixakekisa ngezinto abazicingayo ngawe kuqhelekile nokuba ayivakali. Kuza kusebenza kuphela ukuba ufuna ukwenza into entle, njengodliwanondlebe lomsebenzi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yindlela oziva ngayo ngesiqu sakho, kuya kuhlala kukho abantu abakuthandayo nabangakuthandiyo.
8-Ukuphucula unxibelelwano: Abantu abazi ukuba ucinga ntoni ukuba awubaxeleli. Ukuba awumxeleli umphathi wakho ukuba ufuna ukunyuselwa okanye ukuphucula umsebenzi, ngekhe benze njalo. Ukuba uyayithanda inkwenkwe okanye intombazana kwaye awuthethi nto kuye, ithuba lakho liya kudlula. Ukuba awuxeleli abantu into ekukhathazayo (ngembeko) baya kuhlala bekuhlupha. Kulula njengokutsho ukuba ucinga ntoni ngokuchanekileyo.
9-Yenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza kwaye wenze-Ukuba awuthathi izigqibo ngokukhawuleza kwaye wenza, omnye umntu uya kuyenza kuqala. Ukuba uhleli kwaye ucinga kakhulu awuzukuqhubela phambili. Ukwazi indlela yokwenza into okanye ukucinga ngokwenza into eyahlukileyo kunokwenza. Ulwazi alunamsebenzi ngaphandle kwentshukumo.
10-Yenza abafowunelwa: kunye noogxa, ootitshala, abaphathi ... Ukongeza kwinto yokuba inkxaso yezentlalo yenye yezona zinto zixhaphakileyo zoxinzelelo, iya kukunceda ukuba unxibelelane nabantu abaqeqeshiweyo.
Phila ngokunyanisekileyo nesiqu sakho kunye nabanyeUkuphila ngokunyaniseka kuya kukunika uxolo lwengqondo.
12-Musa ukuxhomekeka kwabanye: ukuba uxhomekeke emntwini, xa engasekho umhlaba wakho uza kuwa ngaphandle. Kuyimfuneko ukwazi ukuba uphile njani kwaye wonwabe. Ukuthanda abantu kodwa ungabafuni.
13-Cinga imizuzu eli-15 ngosuku: ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na, ukucinga nje, ukubonakalisa, ukuza neeprojekthi ezintsha kunye nokuzama ukuphucula oko sikwenzileyo ngosuku. Ngomsebenzi oqhubekayo kunye nesantya asikwazi ukucinga ngokucacileyo.
14-Musa ukufuna ukuvunywaUkufuna ukuvunywa kukuba ngulomntu abanye bafuna ukuba ubenguye. Ngale ndlela awuphili ubomi bakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlala ungonwabanga. Kuza kubakho abantu abavumelana nento oyenzayo kunye nabanye abangavumelaniyo.
15-Kunqande ukucaphuka: Xa uziva ukuba uzokucaphuka emntwini, cinga ukuba kutheni usenza oko kwaye uzame ukuyihlehlisa kangangemizuzu emi-5. Zama ukuqonda lo mntu kwaye uqaphele ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onokuziqhelanisa noko ukulindeleyo kuye.
Hlala okwangoku: ungacingi kakhulu ngomso okanye kwixesha elidlulileyo kuba into eyonwabileyo ngoku.
Ndikushiya nevidiyo enesihloko esithi «Yintoni amandla akho amakhulu?»:
Ndingongeza: cinga ngemeko yangoku ngokufudukela kwikamva kwaye ujonge ukuba ixesha lihambile awukhange uyenze kwaye njani ukusuka ngoku kunokwenzeka ukulungisa ubuvila kunye nokungabikho kwengcaciso ngokusombulula ukuba ukhetha ukungalunganga kunokuba let ngokwakho uya kuthathwa yi-inertia
Molo corduroy, sithini isiluleko esihle; Ndinayo enye enokuba luncedo: "Xa uziva ngathi ubandezeleka, kuya kufuneka ucinge kwaye wazi ukuba ukubandezeleka yinkcitha-xesha, ke sebenzisa oku, kuba zininzi izinto ezintle zokwenza."
Kwaye uyatsho, ngakumbi ukubonisa kwaye ungaceli ukuvunywa kwabanye zizinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ukuze uphile ngcono nawe!
Yibulela: linqanaba lokwazi okwangoku, apho simenyelwe ukuhlala khona, uvuyo lilitye lefilosofi eliguqula yonke into ibe yigolide.
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