Sonke kufuneka sijongane neemvakalelo zokungaphumeleli, ukuba nesizungu, ukukhathazeka, njl. Ngamanye amaxesha sisilela kugxilwe, sizolile, okanye sinethemba.
Emva koko ndiza kukubeka kwizifundo ezi-4 ze-TED ezithuthuzelayo nezikhuthazayo. Iithethi zeTED zikhuthaza umbukeli ukuba athathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo okwenza utshintsho ebomini babo.
Kumaxesha anzima, sinokudideka malunga nendlela yokuqhubeka. Thatha ixesha lokujonga ezinye zeeNtetho zeTed.
1. Ukuba uziva ukhathazekile, unokuzuza ngokusebenzisa le ndlela ibizwa ngokuba "Imizuzu eli-10 ngosuku".
Le yividiyo enkulu kaAndy Puddicombe echaza isidingo sokugcina ingqondo yakho isempilweni. Inkqubo yakhe elungileyo ibandakanya ukwenza nanye into kangangemizuzu eli-10 suku ngalunye. Elula, huh?
Izibonelelo zikhulu kakhulu. Uya kuba noxolo olukhulu ebomini bakho, ngakumbi ukuba uziva ukoyiswa.
Awunakho ukutshintsha yonke into encinci eyenzekayo kuwe ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, Emva kokumamela uAndy uya kuyazi indlela yokutshintsha indlela ophethe ngayo amava obomi.
2. Ukuba uziva usilele, ungakulungela ukufunda oku kubalulekile ngundoqo kwi mpu melelo.
Kule vidiyo yemizuzu emi-6, U-Angela Duckworth ucacisa ukuba isitshixo sempumelelo akubandakanyi ukuba krelekrele. Ukungaphumeleli akuyiyo imeko engapheliyo. Kuya kufuneka uqale kwakhona, kodwa ngeli xesha, ngendlela ekhaliphe ngakumbi.
3. Ukuba uziva ulilolo, unokuzama ukucacisa ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
UCandy Chang unikela intetho emfutshane malunga nokuba ubomi buthetha ntoni kuye emva kokuphulukana nomntu amthandayo. Wabeka eli binzana kubantu abaninzi: "Phambi kokuba ndife ndifuna ..." kwaye ndafumana iimpendulo ezixhokonxa iingcinga.
Ngaba ukhe wacinga ngento ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho? Ividiyo ukubonakalisa.
4. Ukuba uziva unamathele kwisiqhelo ungakonwabela ukulandela obu buchule.
Kule ntetho yeTED, Iinkcukacha zikaMatt Cutts ngobuchule bakhe bokuzama into entsha kwiintsuku ezingama-30. Ilungele ukuphuma kumgaqo abantu abaninzi abazifumana bekuwo. UMat ucela umngeni kuthi ukuba senze utshintsho oluncinci oluzinzileyo ebomini bethu. Uya kwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho ngale ndlela.
Iintsuku ezingama-30 lixesha elifanelekileyo lokufezekisa injongo yakho.
Ukuba ulithandile eli nqaku, cinga ngokwabelana ngalo nabantu abasondeleyo kuwe. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngenkxaso yakho.[imephu]
Iintsuku ezingama-30 zokwenza into entsha kunye nemizuzu eyi-10 yokushiya ingqondo yakho ingenanto kwaye sele ndiqalisile, enkosi, ningabantu abalungileyo kunye neentetho ezibalaseleyo.