Ngaba uyazi ukuba ingqondo nolwimi zinokuphinda zenziwe ngokutsha? Oku kwenziwa yi Inkqubo ye-NeurolinguisticUkusebenza emzimbeni nasengqondweni yabantu ukuze ukufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu kufezekiswe iinjongo kwiindawo zeshishini, ubudlelwane, iimvakalelo, ezemidlalo, njl. Kungenxa yoko le nto yaziwa ngokuba yisayensi yokugqwesa komntu.
Iqhubile ngoku kumaxesha akutshanje, mhlawumbi ngenxa yomdla wokuziphatha komntu, NLPIsicatshulwa sayo, ayenzelwanga ngokusekwe kwiithiyori, iyasebenza ngokupheleleyo, ibonakalisa indlela yokuziphatha kuzo zonke iinkalo zayo kwaye izama ukucacisa ukuba isebenza njani ingqondo yethu kunye neepateni esinazo, oku kusivumela ukuba sizazi ngokunzulu.
Ngokwazi iindlela zethu zobuchopho kunye neempendulo esizikhupha kwezi meko sinakho, ngeendlela ezithile, sijike esingakuthandiyo okanye esinokuziphucula khonas. Sifunda ukusetyenziswa okufanelekileyo konxibelelwano ukuze sandise ukusebenza kakuhle kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.
Ukusukela oko yaqalayo, inkqubo ye-neurolinguistic isetyenziselwe ukuphatha uluhlu olubanzi lwemicimbi, kubandakanya: uxinzelelo, i-phobias, uxinzelelo lwasemva koxinzelelo, ukoyikeka, iingxaki zonxibelelwano, ubuntu obunemida, ukunqongophala kwengqwalaselo, uxinzelelo, umlutha, ukutyeba kunye nokunyanzelwa.
Olu qeqesho lwaphulwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Inkqubo: kwi-cybernetics nakwimathematika, kuba abaphuhlisi bayo uRichard Bandler (isazinzulu sekhompyuter kunye nonyango lwengqondo) kunye noJohn Grinder (unjingalwazi weyunivesithi yeelwimi) baqinisekisa ukuba sicwangcisiwe ziinkumbulo zethu kunye nokufunda, kunye namava kunye neenkolelo ezivelisa iipateni zokuziphatha.
I-Neuro: yi-neurology, efunda iingqondo kunye nothungelwano lwe-neural, kuba singazenza zingasebenzi ezi nkqubo kwaye sizenze zisebenze nezinye ezilungileyo.
Iilwimi: Ivumela ukumisela kubunzulu bokuba ngubani umntu ngokusebenzisa ulwimi.
Singabaqonda njani ngcono abanye abantu
Maxa wambi kubakho ubunzima kunxibelelwano, oku kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ngakumbi kukungabikho kumgca omnye nomnye umntu. Ukuyiqonda ngcono: nganye yazo ineendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuqonda ulwazi, nangona sisebenzisa zonke izivamvo ukuyifumanisa, kuhlala kukho enye eya koyisa enye, le ibizwa ngokuba iinkqubo zokumelwa:
Ezibonakalayo: kukho iqela labantu elihlawula ngokukodwa iinkcukacha ezibonakalayo apho iinkumbulo zithatha imifanekiso. Aba bantu bafanelwe kukujongwa ngamehlo konxibelelwano lwabo. Bavame ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kwaye bahlala bekhawuleza ukuphuma esihlokweni. Inkqubo yeSetyhula)
Uphicotho-zincwadi: Ngabo bantu bawakhumbula ngcono amagama nezandi, bebona ulwimi lwabo luchatshazelwa yimigaqo yokuva. (Inkqubo yomgama).
Ukutshintsha izinto: Kulapho iqela lingena khona apho iinkumbulo zabo zijolise kwiimvakalelo, nokuba kungokwasemzimbeni, kuyakhuthaza, kuyabanzima, kuyabamba, kulwalamano lwabo nomzimba kubalulekile. (Inkqubo yenethiwekhi).
Ngoku, Ukuba sifuna ukuqonda ngcono abanye abantu, kubalulekile ukuba siqonde ukuba yeyiphi inkqubo yokumelwa abayisebenzisayo, ukuze sikwazi ukuziqhelanisa nolwimi lwakho ukuze yonke into ibe nokutyibilika okukhulu.
Sebenzisa iNeuro-Linguistic Programming ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho
Ungathini xa ekuxelela lonto yonke into oyifunayo ebomini bakho isezandleni zakho? Ewe kunjalo, xa sisebenzisa izixhobo zeNeuro-Linguistic Programming sinokufezekisa utshintsho olukhulu kubomi bethu, oku kunxibelelene ngokusondeleyo noMthetho woMtsalane.
Kukho uthotho lokuzilolonga okunokwenziwa kokubini ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho ezinjengezo zinento yokwenza nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Masiqale ngeziqu zethu kuqala. Enye yemithambo eyenziwayo ibizwa ngokuba: Cofa kwiPatheni, owona msebenzi uphambili kukususa umfanekiso ombi ngengqondo entle.
Cinga okomzuzwana malunga nelo candelo lobomi bakho apho ungenamveliso okanye into ekutyhafisayo, umzekelo ukuya eklasini okanye ekufundeni, jonga umfanekiso oza kwingqondo yakho, ubuvila nokukucekisa kukuhlasela, mhlawumbi Cinga ukuba ulihlwempu iziphumo zovavanyo.
Ngoku engqondweni yakho tshintsha umfanekiso kwaye ucinge ngento ongathanda ukuziva xa usiya eziklasini okanye ufunda, umzekelo, khawuthelekelele uvakalelo lokuya, ukubulisa oogxa kunye nabahlobo, uzibonise ngokwakho kuloo ndawo intle kwaye ucinge nangoko Uziva xa ufumana ibakala elifanelekileyo, yenza oko kumelwa kwengqondo okusemandleni akho. Ukonwaba kukumelwa kwakho, thabatha ikhefu kwaye ubuyele kumfanekiso wokuqala, wokudimazeka, jonga umbono ophakathi okanye kwenye yeekona zawo, loo ndawo imele umfanekiso oqinisekileyo, ngoku ngokukhawuleza kangangoko unako ngesandi Ukuqhekeza kuyayandisa inqaku ide izalise yonke imifanekiso emibi kwaye ithathelwe indawo ngumfanekiso olungileyo.
Yenza lo msebenzi kude kube kungasekho mzamo, kodwa ungalibali ukubuyisela umfanekiso ongalunganga ngokubeka ichaphaza kwaye uwandise de ugcwalise umfanekiso wonke. Lo msebenzi uya kuwutshintsha ngokubonakalayo umfanekiso owawunalo lonke ixesha kufuneka uye eklasini okanye kufundwa. Ungayenza ngenye inkalo yobomi bakho apho unengxaki. Ngale ndlela uhlengahlengisa into exelelwa yingqondo yakho malunga naloo nto.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba injongo yethu kukudala ukuvumelana kunye nonxibelelwano ngexesha lokunxibelelana nomnye umntu, sinokusebenzisa ubudlelwane, ejongene nekhonkco phakathi kwezinto ezimbini okanye ezingaphezulu, ukuya kwitune eqinisekisiweyo ukuze utshintsho lwenzeke nakweyiphi na indawo. Esi sisixhobo, esisekwe ekusetyenzisweni kwemiba enje: izijekulo zomzimba kunye nokuma komzimba, ithoni kunye nesantya selizwi, ukuphefumla, iinkqubo zokumela, phakathi kwabanye, ezinokufikelela kwimpembelelo komnye umntu. Oku kwenziwa ngamanyathelo amabini: ukulinganisa kunye nokuhamba.
Into yokuqala kukulinganisa umzimba, ukulinganisa ukuphefumla kwethu komnye umntu, sithathela ingqalelo imiqondiso yabo kunye nokuma kwabo; Ukongeza, njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, kufuneka sigqibe ukuba yeyiphi na inkqubo emele ukusetyenziswa.
Xa sinolo lwazi, lixesha lokuba sikhawuleze, oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngobuqhetseba, ukujonga iintshukumo kunye nokuziphatha komntu. Usebenzisa eyakhe inkqubo yokumela kwaye embongoza ukuba azilungiselele, ngaphandle kokwazi kwakhe kuthi. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba iyasebenza sinokwenza intshukumo encinci ukubona ukuba omnye umntu uyayenza na.
Ke, ngezi kunye nezinye iindlela ezinikezelwa yi Inkqubo yeNeurolinguistic okanye iNLP Sinokuphucula iinkalo ezithile zobomi bethu, nokuba sele zisekwe ezingqondweni zethu. Khumbula ukuba ingqondo inokuphinda yenziwe kwakhona.