Inkuthazo yangaphakathi; amandla angaphakathi kuwe

Kungenzeka ukuba uhlala unamandla amakhulu angaphakathi kodwa awazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni okanye ukuba leliphi igama lokwenyani. Amandla angaphakathi angakhuthaza ngaphakathi kwaye aqhele ukwenzeka xa kukho isimilo esiqhutywa yimivuzo yangaphakathi. Inkuthazo iya kwenzeka ekuziphatheni okuvela ngaphakathi komntu kuba kuyanelisa kwinqanaba lomntu. Oku kwahlukile kunkuthazo lwangaphandle, kulapho umntu aziphatha khona kuphela ukunqanda ukohlwaywa okanye ukufumana umvuzo wangaphandle.

Ukuqonda Inkuthazo yangaphakathi

Inkuthazo yangaphakathi yeyona inamandla kunazo zonke. Yeyona nto ikhuthaza abantu ukuba bafezekise iinjongo zabo okanye benze utshintsho. Kwengqondo, Inkuthazo yangaphakathi yahlula phakathi kwembuyekezo yangaphakathi nangaphandle. Inkuthazo yangaphakathi yenzeka xa umntu esenza engakhange acinge ngemivuzo yangaphandle anokuba nayo, wonwabele umsebenzi okanye awubone njengethuba lokuphonononga, ukufunda nokwenza ubuchule babo ngokupheleleyo.

Ngokomzekelo, Ukuba ufunda eli nqaku ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nengqondo kunye nengqondo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyasebenza ngaphakathi. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ufunda eli nqaku kuba ufuna ukufaka igalelo kulwazi lomsebenzi wesikolo kwaye ufuna ukufumana ibakala elifanelekileyo, uya kuthi ke usekwe kukukhuthaza okungaphaya.

Ulwaneliseko lwangaphakathi xa usenza imisebenzi yokonwaba buqu ihlala ikhuthazeka ngaphakathi. Umzekelo, xa ufunda incwadi kuba uyayithanda, xa ubhala ibali, xa udlala umdlalo onomdla ... Yimisebenzi oyenzayo nenkuthazo yangaphakathi kwaye unomvuzo ngandlela thile ngawe. Wenza izinto kuba uzithanda, kuba kuyonwabisa kwaye uziva wonwabile ngako.

Ukuphila ngokwasemoyeni

Inkuthazo yangaphakathi iya kukwenza uzive wanelisekile ngaphakathi kwaye ke ngokonwaba kweemvakalelo. Inkuthazo yakho yokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni ivela ngokupheleleyo ngaphakathi kwaye hayi kumnqweno wohlobo oluthile lomvuzo wangaphandle (njengamabhaso, imali, okanye ukuthandwa kakhulu).

Ewe kunjalo, oko akutsho ukuba indlela yokuziphatha ekhuthazayo ayinayo eyayo imbuyekezo. Le mivuzo ibandakanya ukudala iimvakalelo ezintle ngaphakathi komntu.

Imisebenzi inokuvelisa iimvakalelo ezinjalo xa inika abantu umbono wentsingiselo, njengokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yomanyano. Banokukunika umbono wenkqubela phambili xa ubona ukuba umsebenzi wakho ufezekisa into elungileyo okanye ubuchule xa ufunda into entsha okanye uba nobuchule ngakumbi emsebenzini.

Imbuyekezo yangaphakathi

Ngokwenyani, xa umvuzo wangaphandle okanye ukomelezwa kunikezelwa ukwenza umsebenzi kunokuba nokuvuza ngaphakathi kwaye ngokwawo, kunokwenza umsebenzi ube ngumvuzo omncinci.  Oku kwaziwa njengokuzithethelela okugqithileyo.

Ukonwaba komntu ngaphakathi kwimisebenzi kunika izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokuziphatha kwakhe. Ngokudityaniswa kokuqiniswa okungaphaya, umntu angawubona umsebenzi njengoko ukhutshiwe kwaye ke uzame ukuqonda intshukumisa yakho yokwenyani (i-extrinsic versus intrinsic) yokuthatha inxaxheba kulo msebenzi.

Abantu xa bekhuthazwa ngokwendalo baba ngabantu abadala ngakumbi kwaye oku, kwindawo yokusebenza kuyimfuneko ukwandisa imveliso. Nangona inkuthazo inyuswe ngakumbi emva koko kunye nembuyekezo yangaphandle njengebhonasi kumvuzo. Kodwa enyanisweni, owona mgangatho womsebenzi owenziweyo uphenjelelwa zizinto zangaphakathi kuba umntu wenza into enomvuzo, enomdla nengumngeni ... Ngale ndlela uya kuba nakho ukufumana izimvo ezintsha kunye nezisombululo zoyilo.

Inkuthazo yangaphakathi ekufundeni

Inkuthazo yangaphakathi ingumba obalulekileyo kwezemfundo. Ootitshala kunye nabaqulunqi bokufundisa bazabalazela ukuphuhlisa imeko yokufunda enomvuzo. Ngelishwa, Iiparadigms ezininzi zemveli zicebisa ukuba uninzi lwabafundi lufumane ukukruqula ekufundeni. Ngale ndlela, banokukhuthazwa ngakumbi kwimisebenzi yemfundo.

Izinto ezikhuthazayo ngaphakathi yilezo yenziwa ngabantu kuba bayazi ukuba zilungile kubo ngaphandle kokufumana umvuzo wangaphandle okanye ukunqanda ukohlwaywa. Umfundi ofunda isifundo kuba eyazi ukuba ilungile kwikamva lakhe uya kube esenza ngenkuthazo yangaphakathi.

Kwelinye icala, umfundi ofundela uviwo ukunqanda inqanaba elibi, ukungaphumeleli kwesifundo okanye iziphumo ezibi ekhaya zokufumana amabakala amabi, uya kuyenza ngenxa yenkuthazo engaphandle.

Kwezemfundo, ukuze kubekho inkuthazo engaphakathi kuyakufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ezinye zezitshixo, ezinje:

• Imiceli mngeni
• Umdla
• ulawulo
• Intsebenziswano nokhuphiswano
• Ukuqwalaselwa

Lumkela umvuzo

Iingcali ziqaphele ukuba ukunikela ngembuyekezo engeyomfuneko kunokubuya nomva. Unokucinga ukuba ukubonelela ngemivuzo kuhlala kunyusa inkuthazo yomntu, umdla kunye nokusebenza, oku akusoloko kunjalo. Umzekelo, xa abantwana bevuzwa ngokudlala ngeethoyi esele bonwabele ukudlala ngazo, inkuthazo kunye nokonwaba kwabo iithoyi ziyancipha.

Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba uninzi lwezinto ezinokuchaphazela ukuba ukunyuka kwangaphakathi kuyonyusa okanye kuyancipha ngemivuzo yangaphandle. Ukubaluleka nokubaluleka komsitho ngokwawo uhlala udlala indima ebalulekileyo.

Imbaleki ekhuphisana kumnyhadala wezemidlalo inokulijonga ibhaso lomntu ophumeleleyo njengesiqinisekiso sokuphumelela kunye nokuphumelela kwakhe. Nangona ibhaso lingenalo ixabiso elikhethekileyo lezoqoqosho ngokwalo. Kwelinye icala, ezinye iimbaleki zisenokulijonga eli bhaso njengohlobo lokunyoba okanye lokunyanzela. Indlela umntu abona ngayo ukubaluleka kweempawu ezahlukeneyo ze Umcimbi uchaphazela ukuba ingaba umvuzo uya kuchaphazela inkuthazo yomntu yokuthatha inxaxheba kulo msebenzi.

Emva kokwazi konke oku, usenokuba uye wema ukucinga ngento ekuqhubela phambili yonke imihla ukwenza imisebenzi noxanduva lwakho lwemihla ngemihla; Intrinsic okanye inkuthazo yangaphandle? Nangona kukho yonke into ebomini kwaye inyani kukuba kukulingana okusishukumisela ukuba sizive malunga nendalo, iya kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekhupha onke amandla akho angaphakathi. Ke ungakufezekisa oko ujonge ukukwenza ebomini.

Iinjongo zakho zangaphakathi ziya kuba zezona zinto zenza umahluko ngokwoneliseka kwakho. Umzekelo, ukuba uchitha lonke ixesha lakho. Ngokusebenza ukuze ufumane imali, ungaphulukana neziyolo ezilula ebomini. Ukuqonda ezakho izizathu zangaphakathi kunye nezingaphandle kunye nokuzilinganisela kunokuba lunomvuzo kakhulu… kwaye kubalulekile kwimpilo yakho yeemvakalelo!