Kutshanje, uphononongo lwaseNyakatho Melika luye lwagqiba ukuba isitshixo solonwabo kukuhamba ungathengi izinto. Enye yeenjongo ekufuneka ubenazo kobu bomi kukwazi iindawo ezininzi kangangoko.
Ukuhamba yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokonwaba, ushiye ngasemva ubungakanani bemihla ngemihla kunye nokwandisa ulwazi lwethu. Apha ngezantsi silungiselele uluhlu oluncinci lwazo zonke izibonelelo zokuhamba ezinomzimba wethu.
1) Uyakuqonda ukuba ikhaya lakho lingaphaya kwendawo okhulele kuyo
Njengokuba ulangazelela ikhaya lakho, uyakuqonda ukuba linentsingiselo ekhethekileyo kuwe. Kuyo uhlala zonke iintlobo zeemeko (ezilungileyo nezimbi) kwaye ziyinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho.
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[imephu]2) Uya kufumana iinjongo ezintsha
Uyakwazi ukuphinda uhlaziye izimvo zakho kwaye ufumane iinjongo ezintsha oya kufuna ukufikelela kuzo.
3) Iya kukunceda ukhumbule ikhaya lakho
Ukuba woyisakele ngesiqhelo kwaye ujonge indlela yokubaleka, ukuhamba ungakufumana. Xa ukhe wahamba ithutyana, uyakuqonda ukuba ulikhumbula kangakanani ikhaya lakho kwaye kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuqhubeka nemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla.
4) Uya kufumanisa ukuba kuncinci kangakanani okwaziyo malunga nehlabathi elikungqongileyo.
Okukhona uphuma, kokukhona uya kukwazi kwaye uqaphele yonke into ongayikhathalelanga. Kuya kuba ngathi ingqondo yakho iyanda ukuya kubungakanani obutsha njengoko ufumanisa iinkcubeko ezintsha kunye neendawo ezintle ekufuneka uzindwendwele.
5) Uyakuqonda ukuba sonke sabelana ngeemfuno ezifanayo
Kuyakukunceda uzimanye nabanye abantu kwaye uqonde ukuba sonke siyafana. Uyakwazi ukufunda izinto ezininzi malunga nezinye iinkcubeko kwaye uqaphele ukuba kuncinci kangakanani okwaziyo ngazo zonke. Unokwenza abahlobo abalungileyo ekuhambeni kwakho.
6) Uyakuqonda ukuba kulula kakhulu ukwenza ubuhlobo
Kukho abantu abalungileyo kwihlabathi liphela kwaye uninzi lwabo uya kudibana nabo kuhambo lwakho. Ungoyiki ukuvula intliziyo yakho, uyakubona ukuba ngabahlobo babo njani kwaye bobabo bonke ubomi.
7) Uyakufumana unxibelelwano olukhoyo phakathi kwabantu bonke
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba awuluva ngokupheleleyo ulwimi lwasekhaya ngokugqibeleleyo; Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyifumana indlela yokunxibelelana nabantu bendawo. Uya kuqonda ukuba kukho ulwimi lwendalo yonke olunamandla ngakumbi kunolwimi: uthando kunye nokuqonda.
8) Uya kuhlala amava amatsha
Awunokwazi ukuba indawo oza kuyityelela iza kukuzisela ntoni. Awuzukufumana abahlobo abatsha kuphela, kodwa uya kuphila namava amatsha oya kuba nakho ukuwakhumbula ebomini bakho bonke.
9) Uyakuqonda ukuba ubomi sisipho esihle
Kukho iindawo ezintle kakhulu kangangokuba ziya kukunceda uqonde indlela obuhle ngayo ubomi. Ukuba sihamba ngamaxesha oxinzelelo okanye iingxaki ezifanayo, uhambo lunokunceda ukuphucula imeko yakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi sisipho esihle. Amava am okuhamba aye andenza NDIVULE INGQONDO YAM kwimibono emininzi emitsha, iindawo ezintsha, abantu abatsha, abahlobo abatsha ... konke oku kunye nokulangazelela ikhaya lam, usapho lwam kunye nabahlobo bam ... ngumxube weemvakalelo ezincedayo ndikhula kakhulu. Inye into esoloko siphawula ngayo xa sinohambo kukuba "uyayiqonda into yokuba siyadlula kodwa aba bantu sidlula kubo sihlala apha kwaye ubomi babo bonke bujikeleze esi sixeko?" Ukwanga, uPablo