Kule blog sele ndibhale ezinye izithuba malunga nantoni yintoni ingqondo kunye inzuzo oko kubandakanya ukwenza kwayo. Nangona kunjalo, umbono wayo awucaci ncam kwaye kukho imibuzo malunga nengqondo ekunokuthi ingakhange icace ngokwaneleyo kuwe.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke ukubona izinto ezili-10 ongazi malunga nokuCamngca, Ndiyakumema ukuba ubone le vidiyo osihloko sithi "Imizuzu eli-10 yoLwazi yanele."
Ividiyo yimizuzu esithoba kuphela ubude. Ndicela imizuzu eli-9 yexesha lakho ukuba umamele le nto isixelelwa yile ndoda. Inokutshintsha ubomi bakho:
1) "Umzuzu wangoku" uhlala malunga nemizuzwana emi-3 okanye emi-4.
Uphando olwenziwe nguDaniel Stern lufumanise ukuba amava ethu "okuphila ngoku" ngamaxesha ahlala phakathi kwemizuzwana e-1 ukuya kweli-10. Ngabacamngca abanamava kuphela abanokwazi ngokupheleleyo kuwo wonke umzuzwana odlulayo.
2) Inkcazo yesayensi yengqondo iqukethe ukuzilawula kunye nokufuna ukwazi.
Nangona kukho iinkcazo ezininzi zokuqwalaselwa, bambalwa abantu abazi ukuba uphando lwezengqondo luhlangene ukuze luze inkcazo esemthethweni yokuqwalasela ukuze kuqondwe kakuhle le nto inomdla. Imvumelwano yayikukuba Ingqwalasela yile:
a) Ukuzilawula. ingqalelo yethu, kunye
b) Isimo sokufuna ukwazi, ukungafihli nto kunye nokwamkelwa.
3) Yonke inkqubo esekwe kukhathalelo okanye umasifundisane ayikho enye into ngaphandle 'kwephedi yokwazisa'.
Zonke izicelo ezisebenzayo zokuqalisa ngentloko kubathathi-nxaxheba ukuqonda okukhulu, ukuphucula, ukuhlala kakuhle kunye namandla engqondo. Kodwa, njengoko iingcali zisitsho, nganye yezi nkqubo ziyimenyu, kodwa hayi ukutya; Bayiimephu, kodwa hayi intsimi.
4) Isinyathelo sokuqala ekufundeni kwengqondo kukubeka "kwi-pilot ezenzekelayo" ngokukhawuleza.
Kukho isincomo kwabo baqala ukufunda malunga nokusebenza kwengqondo: zama ukubeka i-autopilot ngokukhawuleza. Iingqondo zethu zikude lee kunangoku. Inyathelo lokuqala lokuhlakulela inkathalo enkulu yile qaphela ngokukhawuleza ukuba ingqondo yakho ibhadukile. Ngokukhawuleza ukukuqonda oku, ukusetyenziswa kwengqondo okusebenzayo kuya kuba.
5) Ingqondo yethu inokuqhubekeka "iziqwenga" ezili-126 zolwazi rhoqo kwisibini.
Kuninzi kakhulu esinokukujonga kwimeko-bume yethu esingakwenziyo. Ewe, uninzi lwegalelo lweemvakalelo aludingeki kwaye lunokungena endleleni, kodwa oku kufunyenwe ngumphandi uMihaly Csikszentmihalyi kutyhila oko LUYA RHOQO ulwazi oluninzi ngakumbi kunokuba sisazi ngenxa yokungahoywa.
I-6) Ukusukela ekuqaleni kwale millennium, uphando ngqwalaselo lonyuke amaxesha angama-20.
Inzululwazi kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo kuyathandwa. Ukuqonda kuye kwaba yinto ethandwa kakhulu kumaziko onyango, iinkampani, amagumbi okufundela, iindibano zocweyo kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, kwiilebhu zophando kwihlabathi liphela. Le grafu ishwankathela olu dubulo kuphando lwengqondo:
7) Iindlela zokucinga kunye nokuphumla zahluke kakhulu.
Uninzi lweengcali ziyahlangana kwezi ndlela zimbini okanye zisebenzise amagama ngokufanayo. Nangona kunjalo, Injongo yokuqonda ayisiyokuphumla. Injongo yokucinga kukuhlakulela ulwazi.
Abantu bahlala bedidekile ukuba kutheni "Umphumo wecala" oqhelekileyo wokuziqhelanisa nokuzihlaziya kukuphumla.
8) "Ukuhombisa" yenye yeenkcazo ezisisiseko zokuba ukucamngca kusebenza ngokukuko.
Ukuzithoba kwenzeka ngokujonga iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho njengezinto zokwexeshana engqondweni yakho hayi iinyani okanye iinyani malunga nawe. Xa uzikhathaza ngapha nangapha malunga nento embi enokwenzeka, wenza ukuba ingcinga ekhathazayo ibe namandla kwaye uyiqonde njengeyinyani okanye eyinyani.
Kuya kufuneka uhlale uyikhumbula loo nto loo ngcinga ikhathazayo ayikho ngaphezulu kokucinga okudlulayo okudlula engqondweni yakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuba iingcinga zakho ezixhalabisayo zikhawuleze, kuya kufuneka uqhelane nengqondo okwethutyana. Ngokwenyani into oyenzayo ibizwa ngokuba kukususwa.
9) Ingqondo ifumaneka kuzo zonke iinkolo ezinkulu zehlabathi.
UbuBuddha ngokungathandabuzekiyo yindawo yemvelaphi yokuziqhelanisa nengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, iimfihlakalo zobuKristu ezifana noSanta Teresa de Ávila zigqamisa ukubonakaliswa kwendlela njengendlela yokunxibelelana noThixo. Inxalenye yokuqwalaselwa kwengqwalaselo inamagama amaninzi: zikr kwi-Islam, kavana kubuJuda, kunye ne-samadhi kwi-Buddhism nakwi-Hinduism.
10) Akukho mntu oyingcali yengqondo.
Lumkela abo bazithatha njengeengcali engqondweni. Nje ukuba umntu athi yingcali yento ethile, yeka ukuphonononga. Umnqweno wabo wokucotha uyacotha. Nje ukuba uphando kunye nokufuna ukwazi kubune, kunjalo nengqwalaselo. Ukuqwalaselwa, ngokuchaseneyo, kujongwa ngcono njengenkqubo eqhubekayo.