Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba "ungathatha" izinto ezithile.
Wonke umntu ngamanye amaxesha siyazinyamezela izinto esingafanelekanga ukuzenza. Oku kunokwenzeka ngendlela ethile kodwa kunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kule mihla yethu. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlale phantsi, lixesha lokuba ubuyise ubomi bakho. Ndikushiya nezinto ezili-15 ongafanele uzinyamezele:
1) Abantu ababi.
Ubudlelwane nabanye kufuneka buncede, buzise izinto ezintle, iimvakalelo ezilungileyo. Akukho mntu ufanele akwenzakalise. Chitha ixesha lakho nabantu abalungileyo oqhelene nabo.
2) Umsebenzi owuthiyileyo.
Sukulungela umsebenzi wokuqala owufumanayo ukuba awuthandi. Ngokufanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka ujonge kwinto othanda ukuyenza, into edibanisa nezinto onomdla kuzo kunye nezinto ozithandayo. Ukuba uyaphumelela, ubomi bakho buya kuba mnandi.
3) Ukungakhathali kwakho.
Ukuba yonke imihla uvuka kwisimo esibi kwaye ubomi bakho buzele ziingxabano, kuya kufuneka ume kwaye ubonakalise. Konakele phi? Kutheni uziva nje? Ubomi abunyanzelekanga ukuba bube kukukhala, iingxaki, unxunguphalo.
Hlahlela ulwimi lwakho lwangaphakathi. Zinjani iingcinga zakho? Mamela indlela othetha ngayo wedwa. Ukuba le nto uyivayo ayibi, yenza umgudu wokuyitshintsha ngeengcinga ezakhayo okanye ezikhuthazayo. Linyathelo lokuqala eli.
4) ukunqongophala konxibelelwano.
Ngaba uzivalela ngaphandle ngenxa yoloyiko? Awukhululekile na ukunxibelelana ngendlela ofuna ngayo? Ngoba? Thetha izinto ofuna ukuzithetha, ziveze ngokukhululekileyo.
5) Ukungalungelelaniswa.
Eli nqaku liyinto yobuqu ngakumbi kuba andiyinyamezeli isiphithiphithi kakuhle 😉 andiyithandi ingxaki, umzimba nengqondo.
6) Ukukhawuleza.
Bekusoloko kusithiwa ukungxama ngabacebisi abangalunganga, yintsholongwane yoxinzelelo. Ndiyincoma le ntetho nguCarl Honore
7) Uxinzelelo lokukholisa abanye.
Libala malunga nabanye, musa ukulungelelanisa izigqibo kunye nezenzo zakho kwiikhrayitheriya zabantu. Yiba nesigwebo sakho kunye namandla akho ngokwaneleyo ukuze ube noxolo nendlela yakho yobomi.
8) Uloyiko lotshintsho.
Ubomi buhamba kwaye buyatshintsha. Yonke imihla yahlukile, lithuba lokuba kwenzeke into yomlingo, into ethi "cofa" entlokweni yakho kwaye ibenze mnandi ubomi bakho. Ingqondo yakho kufuneka ivuleke.
9) imikhwa eyingozi kwimpilo yakho.
Kungekudala okanye kamva baya kukunika iingxaki, iingxaki ezinzima kunye nokubandezeleka kuwe nakwakho. Akukho nto izisa ulwaneliseko ngaphezu kokuphila ubomi obunempilo.
10) Musa ukudlala.
Kuba umdala akuthethi ukuba awusenakudlala. Ayisiyiyo yonke into ebomini ngumsebenzi noxanduva. Khululeka kwaye udlale umdlalo wentenetya, amakhadi, nantoni na. Yenza into oyithandayo.
11) Iintengiso zobuhle ezikwenza uzive ungalunganga.
Umzimba utsala amehlo. Ubuntu buheha intliziyo. Ukukhathazeka ngokuqeqesha ubuntu bakho.
12) Ukungalali ngokwaneleyo.
Ingqondo ediniweyo lidlelo leemvakalelo ezingalunganga. Inyathelo lokuqala lokonwaba kukulala kamnandi ebusuku.
13) Ukubawa komntu.
Ukubambelela entweni luphawu lokuba sesichengeni.
14) Ngena ematyaleni.
Ukuphila ngaphaya kwamandla akho yimpazamo enkulu. Zama ukuba ngaphantsi kwezinto, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho izinto ongazifuniyo.
15) Ukunganyaniseki.
Ukuba unyanisekile / okanye nawe / okanye uxolo luya kuthatha ingqondo yakho. Yinto engenakuthelekiswa nanto.
Ngaba unokucinga enye into ongafanele uyinyamezele endiyiphosileyo? Shiya uluvo lwakho, ndincede ndigqibe olu luhlu. Enkosi 😉
UKUKHANGELANA, UKUTHWALASHWA KANYE NEENKCAZO ZOKWENZAKALA.
UCarl Honore.
Ndifunde incwadi yakho ethi "In Praise of Slowness" kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo kwaye ndiyayithanda kwaye ndenza izinto ngokuzolileyo, endinokuzenza ngcono.
Khange ndinyamezele ngaphezulu kwemizuzu emi-5 intetho enikwa ngumbhali.
Uthetha ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndiyothuka.
Uyazi yena xa eyiqala, ukuba kufuneka abaleke ukukhuthaza incwadi yakhe.
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Enkosi kakhulu ngokundiphendula kunye nokuvuyisana nebhlog yakho.
Zininzi izinto ekufuneka uzibekele bucala kwaye wonwabele ubomi!
Akufanele ubeke iintlungu zamazinyo okanye iintlungu, ngenxa yokoyika ukuya kugqirha wamazinyo
Sukwenza, nokuba uwedwa, ezo zinto zimbi ukujonga, njengokuluma iinzipho okanye ukukha impumlo. Zizinto ezithatha ukhuseleko lwakho, zehlisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
Ncuma kubunzima ... Njengokuba xa inkunzi yenkomo isuswa kuhlaselo! Enkosi