Izitshixo ezili-10 zokuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho

Apha ndikushiya ne- Izitshixo ezili-10 zokuzithemba okungcono:

1) Ukuzithemba kwakho kwenziwa luluhlu lweenkolelo esinazo ngathi. Ukuba sikholelwa ekubeni asixabisekanga, kuyacaca ukuba sizakuziva singalunganga kwaye kungenzeka ukuba sikwazi ukufumana uxinzelelo.

Le ngcinga, inkolelo esinayo kuthi, yiyo eya kuthi igqibe ukuba ingaba sinobomi obonelisayo na okanye hayi. Ayinamsebenzi indlela oziphethe ngayo. Ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba unolwazi, uthembekile, ulungile, ... uya kuzithemba kakhulu kwaye ngale ndlela ubomi bunokuncuma kuwe.

Olu vavanyo luqinisekileyo lokuzithemba kufuneka lwenzeke ngokuzenzekelayo, ngokuzenzekelayo okanye ngokungazi nto.

2) Iithiyori zamva nje malunga nokuzithemba zibonisa ukuba iingxelo zovavanyo umzekelo "Ndiyincutshe kwintenetya" Banceda ekwakheni nasekomelezeni inkolelo elungileyo ngawe.

3) Enye into ephambili ekwakheni ukuzithemba okusempilweni yile ukukwazi komntu ukuhlonipha nokukhusela iimfuno zakhe kunye neemfuno zakhe.

I-4) Abantu abanenqanaba elifanelekileyo lokuzithemba bangene nzulu kuthotho lwe iinqobo ezisemgangathweni kunye nemigaqo kwaye bakulungele ukubakhusela naxa bejamelana nenkcaso kubo.

5) Musa ukugxeka kakhulu okanye ungqwabalala nesiqu sakho.

6) Yazi indlela yokuphatha ngengqondo ukugxekwa kwabanye.

7) Yiba ne Isimo sengqondo sokuzithemba phambi kwabanye.

8) Yala ukugqibelela.

9) thintela ityala kwiingcinga zethu. Ukuziva unetyala yenye yezona mvakalelo zingasebenziyo.

10) Yiba ne sengqondo esifanelekileyo phambi kobomi. Oku akuthethi ukukhanyela ubunyani.