Ezi zizizathu zam ezili-11 zokuphila

Zininzi izizathu zokuphila, zininzi kakhulu, ukuba kunzima ukudwelisa zonke. Nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ngamanye amaxesha sihambe ngamaxesha apho konke esikufunayo kukuhlala ebhedini ngaphandle kokwenza enye into, sihlala kufuneka sifumane amandla naphi na apho sihamba khona.

Ke ngoko, apha ngezantsi siza kudwelisa uthotho lwezizathu zokuba kutheni kufanelekile ukuhlala, kwaye sonwabile.

Ngaphambi kokudweliswa kwam Izizathu ezili-11 zokuphila, ndiza kukushiya nevidiyo entle enomxholo othi "Kuhlala kukho isizathu sokuphila."

Ezi zizizathu zam ezili-11 zokuphila: https://youtu.be/iKxfhJy43n0

1) Kuba ndiyabathanda abantwana bam kwaye ndifuna ukukhula kunye nabo, ndibakhaphe kumaxesha amnandi namabi. Kuba ndifuna ukonwaba nabo.
2) Kuba ndiyabuthanda ubomi, imiceli mngeni, ndiphila ubomi obunempilo, ndincame ukuyeka ezinye izinto ezimbi (ngakumbi xa ndizincama, ndiziva ndonwabile).
3) Kuba ndiyathanda ukuziphucula, ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezintsha kwaye, ndakube ndiphumelele, ndicebisa iinjongo ezinkulu.
4) Kuba ndiyathanda ukonwabela usapho lwam, ubudlelwane phakathi koluntu kunye nokunceda abantu.
5) Kuba ndifuna ukuba mdala, jonga ukuba yonke into ejikeleze mna itshintshwa njani.
6) Kuba ndifuna ukonwabela izinto ezintsha endizigcinelweyo bubomi. Ngaba baya kwamkeleka?
7) Ngenxa yokuba ndifuna ukuba ngumntu ongcono kwaye ndinyibilikise imiphetho ethile yomlingiswa wam. Ndiyoyika ukuba ndizakudinga ixesha elide.
8) Kuba ndifuna ukukhathalela abazukulwana bam abanethemba lokuba ndiya kuza kwaye babe baninzi.
9) Kuba ndifuna ukufezekisa onke amandla endiziva ukuba ndinayo.
10) Kuba ndifuna ukuguga kunye nomama wabantwana bam.
11) Kuba ndifuna ukubona ukuba ikamva lethu liza kuba njani: ziziphi izinto ezintsha eziza kubakho, ubuchwepheshe obutsha, unyango lwezifo ezininzi ...

Izizathu ezinamandla zokuphila

Emva kokubukela intshayelelo emfutshane enezizathu ezili-11 zokuphila onokukwazi ukuzichonga (okanye hayi), siza kukuxelela ngezinye izizathu zokuphila. Ubomi buhle kakhulu kwaye bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ungacinga ukuba abukho semthethweni okanye ukuba abubalulekanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubonwabele. Mzuzwana ngamnye esiwuphefumlayo kufanele ukuba ube ngumbulelo ongagungqiyo kuba sikulo mhlaba.

Ubomi sisipho esinethamsanqa kuso. Sinethamsanqa ukuba kweli hlabathi kwaye kufuneka silwe ukuze senze obo bomi buxabiseke. Musa ukunikezela kubomi obubi okanye ubomi obungenayo inkululeko okanye amalungelo. Kuba ubomi bakho, njengaye nawuphi na umntu, bubalulekile. Logama uphefumla, likho ithemba lokuphucuka.

Emva koko siza kukufundisa ngezizathu ezinamandla zokuphila, kuba ubomi bakho buyamangalisa kuphela ukuba ufuna ukuba njalo, naxa iimeko ziba nzima.

Ubomi buhlala buqhubeka kwaye buyatshintsha

Unokucinga ukuba okwangoku akukho nto iluncedo, ukuba iimeko zakho zangoku zilusizi, kwaye awufanelanga kuphila kuba akukho nto ibalulekileyo. Ngokwenyani, Ubomi kukuhamba okuqhubekayo kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba ushiywe wedwa ngokwenzeka namhlanje okanye okwenzeke izolo. Ubomi buhlala buqhubela phambili kwaye buyatshintsha.

Xa ufumana ubunzima obukhulu kwaye uziva ngathi awunakuqhubeka, kubonakala ngathi lonke ilizwe liyashukuma kuwe. Abahlobo bakho baya kuqala ngokubonisa uvelwano, kodwa emva kwethutyana baya kuqala ukukutyhala, bethetha izinto ezinje: "Kufuneka ubuye ngeenyawo zakho" kwaye "Uza kuhamba nini?"

Kulula ukusabela ngokudana kolu ngcebiso. Bangayiqonda njani intlungu kunye nelahleko ohlangabezana nayo? Ngokucacileyo abayifumani ... kodwa banyanisile. Imeko yakho inokuziva imbi. Kodwa izakutshintsha. Liyeza ixesha apho kuya kufuneka uqhubeke.

Kunzima ukufumana iingcebiso ebantwini xa uziva ukhathazekile. Imeko yeemvakalelo inefuthe kwindlela esamkela ngayo ingcebiso esiyifumanayo. Ukuxhalaba kwengqondo yakho kunye neemvakalelo kwenza ukuba kube nzima kakhulu ukubona imeko yangoku ngokucacileyo. Nokuba uphulukene nomntu osondeleyo kuwe, ubudlelwane, ikhondo lomsebenzi, okanye enye into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe, useke isizathu sakho sokuhlala kule nto.

Ngokuqinisekileyo uye waphila ngenjongo kunye nomnqweno, kwaye oku kususwe kuwe. Ngoku uziva ulahlekile, ubanjisiwe kwaye udidekile, kuba le nto uyityale kakhulu ihambile. Ingathi imilenze yomibini iyekile ukusebenza kwaye akukho nto yokubambelela ngelixa uwe. Kodwa yile nto kufuneka uyiqonde: Isizathu sakho sokuphila sixhomekeke kuwe.

Isizathu sokuphila kwakho sixhomekeke kuwe

Isenokungabonakali ngathi inje ngoku, kodwa injongo yakho yobomi ayixhomekekanga kuloo mntu, kwikhondo lomsebenzi, okanye kwenye into. Kungenxa yokuba bekuyintsingiselo yobomi bakho ixesha elide akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlale unjalo ubomi bakho bonke.

Kanye njengoko wabele intsingiselo yobomi bakho kuloo mntu okanye kuloo nto, unokuphinda uyabele kwenye into. La mandla unawo. Yindlela onamandla ngayo ngokwenene. Intsingiselo yobomi bakho kunye nesizathu sokuba ufuna ukuqhubela phambili ayisiyongcamango nje. Ifana nenye into ephilayo ekhoyo ngaphakathi kwakho.

Kuyinxalenye yokuba ungubani, umzimba wakho kunye nomphefumlo wakho, kwaye iyahambelana nezinto ocinga nokuziva. Yindawo enzulu kuwe engazi kwaukuqonda ixesha elininzi.

Injongo yakho yobomi inokutshintsha

Kukho abantu abazilahlekayo bekhangela injongo yobomi babo, emva koko bayadana kwaye bagqibela ngokucinga ukuba ubomi abuxabisekanga. Bazama imidyarho emininzi, izinto ezininzi abazenzayo kwaye baphela bedanile kuyo yonke into kuba azange bazive baphantsi ngaphakathi ukuba le nto bayenzayo iyabazalisa okanye iyabanelisa.

Ngokuhamba kwexesha, bayancama, bayeke umbono wokuba babenzelwe ukwenza into okanye ukuba nomntu obalulekileyo, kwaye baphele besiva kakubi. Kodwa ubomi bulula kunokuba ucinga. Iinjongo zakho zibonisa ngezenzo zakho xa uzama ukunceda abanye kunye nawe. Awudingi ukutshintsha umhlaba kufuneka utshintshe umbono wakho: Unganegalelo njani kubomi namhlanje?

Abantu abaninzi abayiqondi le nto kwaye bayagula ngokwenene, bezama nzima ukwenza okungakumbi. Ke ayinamsebenzi ukuba uphuma phi ebomini, kuba ayizukukwanelisa. Ukuthotyelwa kuvela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Kuza ngokusebenza, ukufumana okona kulungileyo kuwe, ogqitha ukuzingca kwakho okusisiseko kunye negalelo kwikhonkco lobomi. Awudingi ukuba ube yingxilimbela. Awudingi ukutshintsha umhlaba. Ufuna nje intliziyo yakho ukuba ifudumale kwaye ibekhona.

Xa uqala ukuphila injongo yakho, ufikelela kwindawo yakho ekhoyo kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ubomi kufanelekile ukuba buphilwe. Uqala ukuqonda ukuba ungowobomi kwaye uyinxalenye yabo esebenzayo. Emva koko ufumana ukwaneliseka, kwaye Ukuba nombulelo kuba yinto yendalo njengomphefumlo wakho.

Ngobubele yonke into ibonakala ingcono

Xa ujonga isizathu sokuphila, kulula ukuba ube yinto ebonakalayo. Uqala ukuhlalutya yonke into eyenzekayo kwaye uba ngumgxeki wakho omubi kakhulu. Ufuna izinto zohluke. Ufuna ubomi bakho bube ngcono. Kukho indlela elula yokusika eli khonkco lokucinga kwaye ubuyele kumkhondo..

Endaweni yokuzama ukuchaza injongo yakho okanye ufumane isizathu sokuphila, qala ukuzifumana ngezenzo zakho. Iqala ngobubele. Ububele kuwe nakwabo bakungqongileyo. Izinto ezincinci, ezilula ezikukhumbuza ukuba uyazihlonipha kwaye uyazithanda hayi wena kuphela kodwa nabanye.

Ngokuqala ngobubele, uba ngumntu onegalelo elibonakalayo kubomi obungqongileyo. Emva koko uqala ukufaka injongo yakho ngezenzo. Ixesha elidlulele, Uyakukwazi ukuchaza izizathu zokuphila ngokubonisa izinto obusoloko uzenza.