Uhlobo kunye nentsingiselo yamaphupha zinokwahluka ngokwamntu onazo. Oku kunokuchatshazelwa zizinto ezinje ngesikhundla olala kuso, ixesha olala ngalo, umphezulu olala kuwo, kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, izinto zendalo yakho kunye nemeko yangoku yobomi bakho. Ngokusekwe koku, amaphupha abanye anokubandakanya abanye abantu ngendlela ebalaseleyo, ngelixa kwezinye ubukho bezilwanyana buya kuba buxhaphake kakhulu.
Esinye sezilwanyana esiqhelekileyo kwi amaphupha yikati, ukutolikwa okufanayo kuya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwindlela yomxholo apho ubonakala khona ephupheni nakwimbono nolwazi olunalo umntu ophuphayo. Kwinqaku elilandelayo uza kufumanisa ukuba ukuphupha malunga neekati kunokuguqulelwa okanye kutolikwe njani.
Ukutolikwa kunye nentsingiselo yokuphupha ngeekati
Amakati, njengezinja, abandakanya enye yezona zilwanyana zifuywayo emhlabeni. Ukuhamba ukusuka kwi-Egypt yamandulo ukuya kwimida yangoku yeLatin America, ezi kati ziya kuba ninzi kuso nasiphi na isixeko kwezi ndawo. Ngenxa yobukho babo obungenakuphikwa kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla, ayothusi into yokuba kukho utyekelo oluthile lokuba bavele emaphupheni ethu. Ukuziqonda ezi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wazi okuncinci ngazo.
Ngokungafaniyo nezinja, umbono wokuba abantu banama-feline kukuthambekela kancinane kubuhle, ubufazi, ubuhle kunye nokuzicingela. Amakati ayanconywa ngenxa yokungakhathali nokuzingca, kuba kubonakala ngathi abanikeli ngqalelo ingako kubaninizo kunezinja. Oku kungakhokelela ekubeni abaninzi bacinge ukuba bahlukile kwizinja kuba azikhuseli, nangona kunjalo, oku kuyathandabuza kwamanye amanqanaba.
Kuqhelekile ukubona uthotho lweTV, i-anime, iimuvi kunye noncwadi ngokubanzi apho iifayile ze- ikati njengeqabane elithembekileyo, ngakumbi abantu abanamandla angaphezu kwendalo. Kwaye kukuba kwicandelo lokomoya, esi silwanyana sithathwa njengomkhuseli, ukuthoba amandla angalunganga okanye iziphumo ezibi zokusebenzisa umlingo. Ukuba oku kuyaziwa, okanye ukuntywiliselwa kwi-subconscious yomntu, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukutolikwa kwephupha lakhe kunokudityaniswa neli nqaku.
Nangona kunjalo, njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, umbono weefining uya kuxhomekeka kumntu ngamnye. Kungenxa yoko le nto, xa uphupha iikati, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wazi kancinci ukuba zithini na intsingiselo yazo, uthathela ingqalelo izinto ezithile zokomfuziselo kwinkcubeko edumileyo, njengale ichazwe apha ngasentla.
Iphupha malunga neekati ezifileyo
Njengoko sele kutshiwo, ezi fonts ngumzekelo ongumzekelo we-ego. Ukuba unamaphupha malunga neekati ezifileyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu uhamba kwimeko enzima echaphazela kakhulu ukuzithemba kwabo. Iya kuba kukubonakaliswa kwe-subconscious xa ujongene nemeko yokudimazeka, ukuphelelwa ngamandla, ukushiywa okanye ukungakhathalelwa kobuntu, okuthathela ingqalelo kakhulu kwaye kukwabonisa ngokufa. Nangona kunjalo, olu hlobo lwephupha lunokuguqulelwa njengesixhobo esithile esiphelisa ukungakhathali okanye ukuzola komntu, kwaye oko akuthethi kuthi ziingxaki ze-ego.
Iphupha leekati ezimhlophe
Umhlophe uyafana nokucoceka nobunono. Kwi phupha malunga neekati Abamhlophe banokuba benze umfanekiso oqinisekileyo ngathi, iziphumo ezinokutolikwa njengezilungileyo okanye ezimbi, ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yephupha elo. Khumbula ukuba ngokuzithemba okuphezulu kakhulu unokuwela kwi-megalomania, esisimo esiphazamisa kakhulu ubudlelwane bethu nabanye. Ukuba nolu hlobo lwamaphupha kunokuba luphawu olufihlakeleyo lokuba siyalwenza, okanye ukuba sivelile singenzakali okanye siphumelele kwimeko ethile. Kwangokunjalo, inokuba kukuzonwabisa komntu esimthathela ingqalelo kakhulu njenge-narcissistic, okanye obalaseleyo kuvelwano lwabo oluncinci.
Ndiphuphe iikati sana
Njengoko sele kugxininisiwe kulo lonke eli nqaku, iikati ziluphawu olukhethekileyo lobuhle kwihlabathi liphela. Ngapha koko, intsingiselo ethile inxulunyaniswa nokuthamba, ngenxa yendlela yabo ekhethekileyo yokunxibelelana nabantu, ngakumbi kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi. Ukuba namaphupha abantwana ababhinqileyo banokuchazwa njengokubonisa isidingo okanye ukubanako ukubonakalisa uthando kunye nokhathalelo. Le ngxelo ithwala ubunzima ngakumbi xa umntu ethathela ingqalelo into yokuba ezi zizilwanyana ezibonakala ngathi ziyakonwabela ukuthathelwa ingqalelo ziinkosi zazo; mhlawumbi umntu esimxabisileyo kwaye oluncedo kuye wazisa amaphupha ethu elmbala.
Ukuphupha iikati zisilwa
Olu hlobo lwamaphupha lunokudityaniswa nomfanekiso wobufazi obumele ezi zilwanyana. Ngendlela yokuhlangana, ukulwa kwekati kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa neengxabano phakathi kwabasetyhini, zihlala zinxulumene nezimvo ezingalunganga okanye ukungathembeki. Ukuphupha iikati zilwa kungangumqondiso wokuba asibathembi abanye abantu basetyhini abasingqongileyo, okanye inokuba yingqikelelo yengxoxo yakutshanje kule ndawo.
Iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo zamaphupha kunye neekati
- Ndiphuphe iikati ezimanzi: Kuyaziwa ukuba iikati zihlala zibaleka emanzini. Ukuba uphuphe iikati ezimanzi, oku kusenokwenzeka ukuba uhamba kwimeko ongayithandiyo kwaphela, okanye enye apho ukuzithemba kwakho kuyonakaliswa okanye kuyehla. Ngokufanayo, unokufuna ingqalelo yomntu ukondla i-ego yakho kwaye uphinde ufumane ukhuseleko, kwaye uzibonakalise umanzi, njengeekati xa ufuna indawo yokuhlala.
- Ukuphupha iikati ezilumayo: Ngendlela efanayo nasemaphupheni ngokulwa kwekati, ezo sibona iikati ziluma zinokuguqulelwa njengoloyiko lokungcatshwa, okanye ulonwabo lwamava apho oku kwenzeke khona. Enye inkcazo inokuba kukuba iikati ziyaziluma, ekusebenziseni ngokupheleleyo amandla ethu okusinda.
- Iikati zokuphupha zitya: Ukuba ukhe wanazo ezi ntlobo zamaphupha kutsha nje, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukwimzuzu olungileyo wobomi bakho, oqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ubandakanya i-ego yakho, isimilo sakho sobufazi, okanye uxolo lwakho. Ikati ingaba nguwe, kunye nokutya kunokuba ngawo onke la mava anyusa ukhuseleko lwakho (iqabane, umsebenzi olungileyo, ukuzanelisa), nangona le ntsingiselo inokwahluka ngokuxhomekeka kwinto etyiwa sisilwanyana, ukuba kuyaphawuleka element ephupheni.
- Iphupha leekati ezimnyama: Iikati ezimnyama, okwangoku, zibonwa ngokukodwa kwinkcubeko ethandwayo njengophawu lwenkolo. Ngapha koko, banxulunyaniswa kakhulu namathamsanqa amabi, ke ukuba le yingcinga egxile ngokunzulu engqondweni yomntu, ukuba nephupha malunga nesilwanyana salo mbala kunokuba kukucaca ngokucacileyo kweenkolelo zabo kunye neenkxalabo zabo. Kunokuthiwa ujongene nomntu ongathandekiyo kwimeko yakhe, oye waqonda kwakhona njengekati elimnyama, okanye ukuzijonga njengomntu onjalo.
Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba ukutolikwa kwamaphupha ayisiyonto ilula, kuba nkqu nezazi ngengqondo azikwazanga ukuqonda isizathu sokubonakala kwazo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyinyani ukuba baphenjelelwa yimo engqongileyo kunye nengqondo yabantu uqobo; Ke ngoko, ulwazi lweesimboli zezinto ezikhoyo kubo lubalulekile ekuziqondeni, njengoko kunjalo ngamaphupha neekati. Siyathemba ukuba eli nqaku amaphupha neekati uyanelisa umdla wakho wokufuna ukwazi ngalo mbandela. Ukuba kunjalo, siyakumema ukuba ushiye uluvo lwakho ngoluvo lwakho.
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