Ndenze ntoni ngobomi bam

Baninzi abantu abazifumana ngexesha ebomini babo apho baziva bemile, abangaziyo ukuba bakhethe eyiphi indlela okanye mabenze ntoni ukutshintsha imeko yabo yangoku, enokuthi ingabonelisi ngokwaneleyo ukuba bonwabe. Kukho abantu abalandela 'indlela' yentlalo ebomini babo, Oko kukuthi, into ekufuneka beyenzile ekuhlaleni; funda, fumana umsebenzi, urente okanye uthenge indlu, unabantwana, qhubeka usebenza ...

Kwaye ngequbuliso bayaqonda ukuba lomsebenzi awubonelisi, kwaye bavuka bediniwe kusasa kwaye ubomi babo bungeyiyo into ababephupha ngayo kumashumi eminyaka ngaphambili. Kodwa ubomi buyadlula kwaye kungcono ukuba singachithi ixesha kwizinto ezingasenzi sonwabe.

Ndingenza ntoni ngobomi bam? Lo mbuzo ubuzwa zizigidi zabantu, abantu abaye baqonda ukuba ubomi babo abukho apho bekufanele ukuba bekhona, abazive bebambelele ngokungathi abanakukwazi ukuqhubela phambili, abaziva bengenelisekanga ngobomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba uhlala uzibuza lo mbuzo, naka ingqalelo, kuba xa ugqibile ukufunda eli nqaku uyakuba nombono ocacileyo wokuba ungaya phi.

Chaza into ekuqhubayo

Ukwazi ukuba wenzeni ngobomi bakho kuya kufuneka ucinge ngezinto oya kuthi xa uzenza ubeke uncumo ebusweni bakho. Khangela amathuba okwenza uzive ulungile ngokwenza. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ucinge ngomsebenzi wobomi bakho hayi imali kuphela, kodwa yinto othanda ukuyenza kwaye uyonwabele yonke imihla. Akukho nto imbi njengokuhamba iiyure ezisi-8 (okanye nangaphezulu) yonke imihla emsebenzini ongazisi nto kuwe, kuba ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, uya kuvuka yonke imihla ungafuni nto. Umsebenzi wakho kufuneka ukwenze uzive wonwabile.

Imiceli mngeni eli-10

Cinga, ulichitha njani ixesha lakho lasimahla? Zama le mingeni ili-10 kwiintsuku ezili-10 ukuze ufumane ngokucacileyo ukuba wenzeni ngobomi bakho.

• Imizuzu emi-0 ukuya kwemi-5: Camngca Hlala uthe cwaka amehlo akho evaliwe kwaye ujonge ekuphefumlweni okanye ekuhambeni (akukho mculo) kangangemizuzu emi-5 kusasa okanye ngokuhlwa. Kodwa ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuhamba, yenze ngamehlo akho avulekileyo.
• Imizuzu emi-5 ukuya kweli-10. Phonononga oko unakho engqondweni ngexesha lemizuzu emi-5 yokugqibela emva kokuba ucamngce. Emva koko dwelisa imisebenzi oyonwabileyo kwiiyure ezingama-24 ezidlulileyo.

Akukho kuphela 'enye indlela elungileyo' yokuphila ubomi

Mhlawumbi bakufundise ukuba ulandele indlela yentlalo kwaye ke 'uqinisekise ngekamva'. Kodwa enyanisweni, akukho kuphela kwendlela echanekileyo yokuphila ubomi, kukho ngaphezulu kwesinye kwaye okubalulekileyo kukuba ufumane indlela ekwenza uzive ulungile. Ukuba awufuni ukuphuma ekhaya uye kusebenza yonke imihla kuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabantwana bakho, cinga ngendlela oza kusebenza ngayo ekhaya. Ukuba into oyifunayo ngumsebenzi onceda abanye abantu, jonga uqeqesho oluya kukukhokela kulo ... Cinga ngento ekwenza uzive ulungile kwaye emva koko uqalise ukuhlwayela indlela yakho.

Mhlawumbi xa ufuna ukufunda izinto ezintsha uyayeka uhambe ngenxa yokoyika ukwenza impazamo. Mhlawumbi ukungashiyi indawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kunye nokuphepha iimpazamo kukwenza uzive ukhuseleke ngakumbi kodwa enyanisweni oko kuya kukhokelela kukusilela. Kodwa ukusilela ayikokungaphumeleli ngokwako, kuba ukuba uthe wasilela, iya kuba yindlela yokufunda indlela entsha kwaye uvele. Ukufumanisa into oyithandayo kulula ngakumbi xa ufumanisa into ongayithandiyo naxa ungoyiki ukungalunganga.

Ukuba umzekelo ungathanda ukuthumela kwi-Instagram, kodwa ngaba ungazama ukuba ngumlawuli weendaba ezentlalo? Mhlawumbi uyakuthanda ukupheka, kodwa ngaba ungabuhamba ngenene ubomi bakho ube yincutshe yokupheka? Inye kuphela indlela yokufumanisa, kwaye kukuzama. Thatha inyathelo lokuqala kwaye konke kuya kulandela. Khumbula ukuba akunamsebenzi ukuba uneminyaka engama-20 okanye engama-50 ubudala, ukuba ufuna ukuhlaziya ubomi bakho usoloko ulixesha elifanelekileyo lokwenza oko.

Imiceli mingeni kwimizuzu eli-10

Yenza le mingeni mibini yemizuzu eli-10 kwezi ntsuku zilishumi zilandelayo kwaye uya kuba nakho ukuqonda indlela ofuna ukuyikhetha ngobomi bakho.

• Imizuzu emi-0 ukuya kwemi-10: Cinga malunga nokuba unganjani umsebenzi wakho wephupha, nokuba ucinga awukho, yenza uluhlu lwemisebenzi onokuyithanda kwaye ujonge iinkampani ezinikele kuyo. Kwaye ukuba ayikho ... ungayenza njani?
• Imizuzu emi-0 ukuya kwemi-10: Yenza i-imeyile kwaye uyithumele kwiinkampani ezinikele kwimisebenzi oyithandayo. Basenokungakuphenduli, kodwa sele uthatha inyathelo lokuqala lokufumanisa ukuba uthanda ntoni kwaye ufuna ukuya phi. Ngaba unokucinga ukuba banokukuphendula kwaye bakukhokele ukuze ufikelele usukelo lwakho?

Phuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela

Ukuze wandise iihorizons zakho, kuya kufuneka uzame izinto ezintsha. Zama into owawusoloko uyifuna kodwa ungazange uyifumane, into ofuna ukuyenza kodwa iyakoyikisa kwaye ikwahluke kakhulu kwinto oqhele ukuyenza.

Mhlawumbi awuyazi into ofuna ukuyenza kuba awukazami ukuba wenzeni okwangoku. Kwaye ngekhe uyazi ukuba yinyani na okanye hayi de ube uphume uye apho kwaye uqale ukulawula izinto ngaphandle. Kulula ukungena kwi-rut kwaye uzive ngathi awunazo ezinye iindlela ngaphandle kwale uyenzayo ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, xa uphumela ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela, uyakumangaliswa kukuba uza kuphelela ekuthandeni into ongazange, kwisithuba seminyaka esisigidi, ucinge ukuba ungayithanda.

Khumbula ukuba ukungalunganga kulungile

Kuya kufuneka ukuba ufunde izakhono eziyimfuneko ukufezekisa le nto ufuna ukuyiphumeza. Amaxesha amaninzi iyasilela kwitrayi yokuqala. Ungahlala usilele, ufunde, kwaye ukhula. Inqaku lokugcina engqondweni kukuba eli lixesha lokuba ufunde, ulinge, ukhule, kwaye usilele kungekho monakalo mkhulu.

Yintoni enokuthi ikhubaze kwaye ikumise ebomini bakho kukoyika ukungaphumeleli, nje ukuba woyise, emva koko akuyi kubakho nto okanye nabani na onokukunqanda kwindlela yakho yobomi, ukuba wonwabe kwaye uzive uzalisekisiwe ngento oyenzayo yonke imihla , nokuba yintoni. Nokuba usebenza ekhaya, ukhathalela abantwana bakho, ujonge into ekwenza uzive uzalisekisiwe okanye umsebenzi ongakwenzi ukuba udinga iholide nokuba unayo. Awusoze wazi ukuba yintoni ekonwabisayo ukuba uyalahla yonke into kuba izwakala inzima.