Kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kufuneka sonke silale kule nto bayibizayo "Umandlalo wokufa." Iya kuba ngamaxesha anzima, okungaqiniseki, mhlawumbi uxinzelelo, okanye iintlungu. Ndiyathemba ukuba ebhedini yam yokufa ndiyakhumbula kwaye ndiziva ndinelunda ngezi ngcinga zili-9. Amanye amaxesha abalulekileyo ebomini bam, ezinye zizigqibo ezibalulekileyo.
Ezinye usenokungaziqondi. Ngokuqinisekileyo uneengcinga zakho. Mhlawumbi ungabelana nabanye babo nam. Ziyinxalenye yobomi bam.
1) Ndilele ebhedini yokufa ndiza kuyicinga loo nto Ukwahlukana kokuhlalisana no "Ex" wam Yayenye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo ezakha zenzeka kum. Hayi kangako kuye kodwa kuye iiacolyte.
2) ndilele ebhedini yokufa hayi Ndiya kuyikhumbula iminyaka endayichitha ebutsheni bam ndisenza ububhanxa obuphezulu kunye nokuchitha ixesha lam kubantu abangafanelekanga.
3) ndilele ebhedini yokufa hayi Ndiya kukhumbula amawaka eeyure ezingenakuvelisa endizichithe ebomini bam.
4) Ndilele ebhedini yam yokufa ndiya kuyikhumbula imini endathi ndenza isigqibo sokuba ndingabuthathi ubomi.
5) ndilele ebhedini yokufa Ndiya kukhumbula amaxesha amnandi ebendinawo ebuntwaneni bam, kubahlobo bam ebuntwaneni, abazala bam, amadolo amdaka, iimpompo zentlabathi, ukwakhiwa kwemijelo yamanzi engengowamanzi emva kwesiphango, ikrashi yam yokuqala, imidlalo yam yebhola ekhatywayo ... bendiya kuqhubeka ngaphandle kokuma kude kube ngesifingo.
6) Ndilele ebhedini yokufa ndiya kuba neqhayiya ngayo uhambe ngokuchasene nomsinga wangoku kwaye ndizikhusele izimvo zam kunye nezimvo zam ngokuchasene nokungaqondi kwesininzi.
7) Ndilele ebhedini yam yokufa ndiya kuyikhumbula loo mizuzu yolonwabo bendinayo xa yenza izinto ezingavumelekanga.
8) Ndilele ebhedini yokufa ndiya kuba neqhayiya ngayo Ungayithandi imali.
9) Ndilele ebhedini yokufa ndiza kujonga emehlweni abantu endibathandayo ndibaxelele a "hamba".