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Ndiyakuvuyela. Ukuba ufunda eli nqaku, uyakhuthazwa ukuba ube nalo utshintsho ebomini bakho ... Nangona kumgaqo, awazi nokuba uqale ngaphi.
Mhlawumbi oku i vidiyo kusebenza njengenkuthazo yokwenza utshintsho ebomini. Ndikucebisa ukuba uyijonge ngaphambi kokuqhubeka.
Kule vidiyo ndicacisa ukuba naluphi na utshintsho ebomini lubandakanya umzamo omkhulu kwaye yintoni eyimfuneko ukuze ukwazi ukufezekisa utshintsho. Apha ngezantsi ndicacisa uthotho lwemithetho yokutshintsha ubomi bethu:
[Unokuba nomdla kwiMandla eNqondo elungileyo (umzekelo osebenzayo)]
Ngokuqinisekileyo uvile kwiiwebhusayithi ezininzi, amanqaku, iincwadi, iinkomfa, njl utshintsho Kuyimfuneko, kulungile, kunyanzelekile ukuqhubela phambili. Bayakukhuthaza ukuba utshintshe ubomi bakho, imikhwa yakho, amasiko akho ... yonke into ukufezekisa injongo. Yiba nekhonkrithi, njengokuyeka ukutshaya. Okanye ngaphezulu ngokubanzi, indlela yokufezekisa impumelelo, ulonwabo, uxolo ...
Zonke ezi zinto zingasentla zinomdla kakhulu. Ngelishwa, apha ndiza kusombulula iintsomi ezithile malunga "utshintsho". Ngaba ukulungele ukuqala? Le nto uyifundayo ngoku inokudida, iyaphoxa ... okanye kwimeko embi, ikufundise.
Uhlobo lwenene lotshintsho
Utshintsho, eneneni, bububhanxa. Akukho mntu ufuna ukutshintsha. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuvala inqaku, nceda ucinge ngalo: Ungaya kude kangakanani ukutshintsha? Ngaba uya kukulungela okanye uzimisele ukuncama oko unayo? Ngaba ungayeka ukwenza le nto uyithandayo kangaka? Ungashiya ngasemva loo ndawo yokunethezeka ikunike ukhuseleko lonke eli xesha? Kuba masijongane nayo: asinakutshintsha ngokwenza kanye le nto siyenzayo ngoku. Into kufuneka ishiywe ngasemva. Nokuba kuyabiza okanye akunjalo. Yiyo loo nto ndiqinisekisa: Akukho mntu ufuna ukutshintsha, kwaye abo bafuna ngokwenene, kungenxa yokuba abanakukhetha.
Ukuba unyamezele kulo mgca, kukuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo. Ngaba uyafuna ukulinda de ungabinakho ukukhetha, okanye ngaba ukhetha enye indlela?
Uxolo kubo bonke abafundi. Kodwa kuye kwafuneka ukuba akhuphe oku kungxolisa. Ndiyakuthembisa ukuba ukusukela apha, uza kuqala ukubona izinto ngokwahlukileyo. Ngapha koko, siza kusombulula imibuzo eyahlukeneyo.
Ngaba sinokutshintsha ngokwenene, okanye yinto nje engekhoyo?
Ukuba sinyanisekile, utshintsho kuthi kakhulu qhubela phambili. Nokuba yintoni. Asiyi kuqaphela naluphi na utshintsho kwimeko ngaphandle kokuba sijonge emva kwixesha, okanye sixelelwe ngabantu besithathu.
Kulabo abangaqapheliyo ukuqhubela phambili kwethu, baya kuba nembono engakumbi yenguqu. Nangona kunjalo, thina ngokwethu kuloo nkqubela phambili, kunokuba siyibize ngokuba inguquko, ichanekile ngakumbi ukuyibiza indaleko.
Utshintsho kufuneka luhlale ixesha elingakanani?
Utshintsho kufuneka lube ihlala ihambelana. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka yomelele ngokuhamba kwexesha nakwiimeko ezininzi. Mhlawumbi kubonakala ngathi kubuchwephesha kuwe? Kulungile. Thatha "ukuyeka ukutshaya" njengomzekelo. Ngaba singatsho ukuba uyekile ukutshaya ukuba awuchukumisanga umdiza ngeentsuku ezintathu nje? Okanye singatsho ukuba uyekile ukutshaya ukuba utshaya kuphela kumatheko akhethekileyo? Lo ngumgaqo wokuqhubeka nokungaguquguquki. Eminye kukusebenzisa ingqiqo eqhelekileyo.
Yintoni esitshintsha ngayo?
Baza kuba nakho ukuthengisa ukuba ungabutshintsha ubomi bakho. Kodwa xa i-Push isiza kutyhala, uyazi ukuba ayilula njengokuyitsho.
Yonke into esiyenzayo yenziwe yingcinga, imvakalelo, isenzo, okanye zombini ezi ngcinga ngaxeshanye. Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha okwangoku, kuya kufuneka uthathe inyathelo kwi iinkolelo (ukwahluka iingcinga zakho), yakho izimo zengqondo (kwaye ke wenze ngokweemvakalelo zakho), nakwi yakho imikhwa (kunye nayo, lungisa isenzo sakho).
Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, yintoni ekufuneka ndiyitshintshe?
Nokuba kubudlelwane bonyango, kwiseshoni yoqeqesho, okanye ekhayeni lakho wedwa; lonke utshintsho lufuna izinto ezintathu:
- Abanye iinjongo ephawula injongo yakho yokugqibela. Okukhona zizicacisa ngakumbi kwaye zigxadazela, kokukhona kuya kuba lula ukuyazi into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuyithobela.
- Omnye khuthazo ukukugcina uqhubeka. Ungayigcina inkuthazo yakho ngeempikiswano zakho (inkuthazo yangaphakathi), okanye ngomvuzo wangaphandle (inkuthazo engaphandle).
- Okokugqibela, a umvuzo. Oko kukuthi, intsingiselo yokugqibela kuyo yonke inkqubo yotshintsho. Into efanelekileyo ukuhla ngaloo ndlela.
Ndiyazi ukuba nangona kunjalo, ubusafuna okungakumbi. Ndiyazi ukuba ngoku ufuna imikhondo embalwa ukuze wazi enye into oyifunayo ukuze utshintshe ubomi bakho. Ke ngoko ndikucebisa kwakhona ukuba uyibone le nto i vidiyo Ndikubonise ngentla, ukuze ukwazi ukusombulula amathandabuzo osweleyo (ngokuqinisekileyo ushiye okokugqibela).
Ukuba ulithandile eli nqaku, yabelana ngalo nabahlobo bakho bonke. Ukuba nabaphi na kubo benza ingxoxo neziqu zabo ukuze benze utshintsho ebomini babo, kufanelekile ukuba bayazi le mfihlelo njengawe.
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