Ukuba sithetha ngemeko apho umntu azi kakuhle ubuchule kunye namandla abo, ukongeza kwimida yabo, igama elithi intelligence engaphakathi lisetyenziswa rhoqo.
Ngokwabaphandi abanjengoHoward Gardner, umntu ngamnye uneentlobo ezithile zobukrelekrele ezibavumelayo qhubela phambili ebomini, ezenza kube lula kuye ukusombulula iingxaki ezithile kwaye ezimenza akwazi nokuziphatha ngendlela ethile.
Ubukrelekrele bomntu yeyona inako ukubonisa umgangatho wokungena umntu anokuba nazo. Oko kukuthi, ukubanakho komntu ukuba aphengulule isiqu sakhe kunye nengqondo yakhe.
Iimpawu eziphambili
Olunye lweempawu eziphambili zolu hlobo lobukrelekrele kukuba lubonelela ngesakhono sokunxibelelana ngokunzulu nesiqu sakho. Nangona oku kunokubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo kubantu abaninzi, eyona nto ibonakalisa obu bukrelekrele kukuba abantu abanayo baninzi kakhulu banako ukunxibelelana ngokulula nezinto zabo zangaphakathi, kodwa akukho lula kangako kubo ukuba bayenze ngaphandle. Qaphela, abanini bolu hlobo lobukrelekrele njengobukrelekrele babo obuphucukileyo bahlala benentloni kwaye begcinwe, kwaye bathambekele ekubeni bathule xa bekwiqela.
Oku akuthethi ukuba abanakho ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhlala kunye nabanye abantu, kodwa oko akuyi kuba lula njengakubantu abanobuhlakani phakathi kwabantu. kuba ayisiyonto iphambili kuye ebomini. Eyona nto iphambili emntwini onobukrelekrele obungenabuntu kukuseka ubudlelwane obuhlala buhleli kunye obunenkqubela phambili kunye naye.
Oku akuthethi ukuba akanakuba nolunye uhlobo lobukrelekrele, kodwa iya kuba yeyona nto imkhokelayo ngakumbi kwindlela yakhe yokwenza izinto, kuba yeyona iphambili emntwini.
Ngokubanzi, izifundo eziphatha olu hlobo lobukrelekrele zihlala zifuna indlela yokwenza umsebenzi wazo nokusombulula iingxaki zodwa, ngaphandle kokulamla umntu wesithathu, kwaye ngale ndlela bafumana iziphumo ezingcono kunokusebenza kwiqela. Kuyaziwa kwakhona ukuba abo baphatha obu bukrelekrele bathambekele ekunxibelelaneni ngakumbi neemvakalelo zabo, kwaye ukuba ngabantu abanolwazelelelo abayaziyo intlungu nosizi, kodwa oko ngaxeshanye bayakwazi ukuziva bonwabe kakhulu.
Njengoko kusekwe nguGardner, ukuba nobukrelekrele njengeyona nto iphambili kuyinkuthazo ebantwini ukuba bafune imisebenzi ebavumela ukuba baqhubeke nokubonakalisa okungagungqiyo, umzekelo: ifilosofi, isayikholoji, isocialology, i-anthropology, phakathi kwabanye abaninzi.
Abantu abaphatha obu bukrelekrele bazimeleyo kwaye banelungelo lokuzithemba nokuzithemba. Ukongeza banengqondo elungileyo yokubonisa amandla kunye nobuthathaka babo kwaye bacinge nzulu ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kubo.
Abantu abaphuhlisa obu bukrelekrele Baye bathambekele ekuphuhliseni izakhono zabo zolwimi kunye naye, njengoko oku kuyinxalenye yophuhliso lonxibelelwano nesiqu sakho, kwaye unesimilo sobuqu nesangaphakathi. Kwangelo xesha, nangona obu bukrelekrele buhamba phambili kubo, banako ukusebenzisa ezinye iingqondo ukwenza izisombululo kwiingxaki okanye ukubonakalisa nje.
Iimpawu zabantwana abanengqondo yobuntu
Iimpawu ezikhoyo kwaba bantwana abanako ukudala ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabo zibandakanya uqeqesho, ukuqonda kunye nokuzithemba, kwaye banakho ukusukela kwasekuqaleni. abantwana bazenzele ukuqonda okuchanekileyo ngokwabo, ebenza ukuba bakhule ngokukhawuleza.
Oku kungqinwa ngabantwana ababonakalisayo nabaneengcinga ezihlala zichanekile, kwaye ngenxa yoku banokuba ngabacebisi koontanga babo.
Bayazi ukusuka kumncinci amandla abo kunye nobuthathaka bokufezekisa iinjongo zabo. Basinceda ukuba sicingisise ngeemvakalelo zethu neengcinga zabo ngamazwi abo achanekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha asenza ukuba sicinge ukuba abantwana bethu bakrelekrele kunathi. Banobuchule bemvelo bokulawula iingcinga kunye neenkxalabo, kunye noxinzelelo lomntu.
Indlela yokuzazi
Ukuba siya kwithiyori yeengqondo ezininzi, ukuzazi thina kuqala kufuneka samkele repertoire yeengcinga kunye neemvakalelo ezisenzileyo, kunye nohlobo lwezinto ezinokubangela nayiphi na kuzo.
Kukho oko hamba phakathi kweemood ezahlukeneyo kwaye ufumane indlela izenzo zethu ezikhe zangaphakathi kuyo nganye yazo ukwenza iskimu esithembekileyo esivumela ukuba sazane kancinci kancinci; Ngale ndlela singalawula indlela esiziphatha ngayo ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezimiselweyo. Nantsi indlela ubukrelekrele obungaphakathi kuthi buvumela ukuba sifikelele kwiimbombo zengqondo yethu, kwaye silusebenzise olo lwazi kuluncedo lwethu.
Ukuphucula obu bukrelekrele
Ukuba into esiyifunayo kukuphucula olu hlobo lobukrelekrele, nokuba uzelwe okanye awuzange ubonakale njengobukrelekrele obunamandla, kuya kufuneka uzifundele ukuze uphucule kule ndawo. Eyona ndlela yokwenza oko kukusebenzisa ezi ngcebiso:
Cinga ngendlela yokusebenzisa ulwazi lwakho lokufezekisa iinjongo zakho
Ukuba into oyifunayo kukufezekisa injongo ethile, kuya kufuneka uyenze njengomntu ophethe olu hlobo lobukrelekrele. Zazi wena. Kuya kufuneka ungene ngaphakathi kwaye ufumanise yeyiphi yeempawu zakho ezinokukuvumela ukuba uyenze, indlela eyiyo, kwaye yeyiphi kuzo enokwenza ukuba usilele kabuhlungu.
Enye yezinto ezenziwa ngabantu abanengqondo ekrelekrele kuqala kukuhlalutya amandla kunye nobuthathaka babo; ke ukuba awubazi, kubalulekile ukuba uqale ngokwenza njalo.
Yiba nye kwiimvakalelo zakho
Enye yezinto ezakukunceda ukuba ufezekise eyokuqala kukuyeka ukubonakalisa iipateni zakho zeemvakalelo, ukuze ufezekise umthendeleko neemvakalelo zakho, kwaye wazi ngaphantsi yeyiphi inkuthazo onokuyenza. Ngale ndlela uya kuba nakho ukuqaphela ukuba zeziphi iimeko ezibangela imood kuwe kunye nento onokuyenza kwezo meko ezithile ukukunceda uqhubeke.
Vavanya inkqubela esele yenziwe
Ukuba ufuna ukuqhubela phambili kulwazi lwakho, kubalulekile ukuba ugxeke inkqubela phambili yakho, ukuze uzenzele ngokwakho into esebenzayo nengasebenziyo. Ukongeza, ukugxeka inkqubela phambili yethu kubalulekile ukuba asifuni kuba nembono ethembele kakhulu ngento esiyenzayo.
Eminye imisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe
Eminye yemisebenzi enokwenziwa ngaba bantu ukuphucula ubukrelekrele babo yile ilandelayo:
- Cinga ukuba uphi kwaye ufuna ukuya phi.
- Bhala ibali lomntu okanye iphephancwadi.
- Yenza uluhlu lwazo zonke iimpawu onazo kwaye eziluncedo kubo bobabini ukufumana umsebenzi kunye nokubanakho ukuba nolwalamano oluhle noluntu.
- Misela iinjongo zokwenyani ezinokufezekiswa kwixesha elifutshane okanye eliphakathi.
- Bhala olunye uluhlu apho "ukusilela" kusekwa khona kwaye apho ezo zithathwa njengeziphuculiweyo zimiselwa.
Kuphephe ukubhideka
Ubukrelekrele bomntu buhlala budideka nobukrelekrele bemvakalelo; isebe lezengqondo elisebenze kodwa elingakhange livele kwithiyori yeengqondo ezininzi. Nangona, nangona zozibini zijolise kulwazi lobuqu lokulunga kunye nokuhambisa iimvakalelo, ubukrelekrele obungenabuntu ngumxholo obanzi kancinci.
Singayiphambanisa nobukrelekrele bokusebenzisana obucetywe nguGardner.
Okwangoku, ukunxibelelana bubukrelekrele obuvumela ukuba sinxibelelane ngokwanelisayo nabanye, kwaye oko kusinika amandla okuziva sinxulumana nabanye. iimvakalelo zabanye ngovelwano. Ubuntu yindlela esizazi ngayo kwaye siyazi iimvakalelo zethu, esivumela ukuba sincede abanye, ukuba yile nto siyifunayo, ngenkqubo yokubonakalisa