Abantu abaninzi bayakoyika ukufa, nangona kunjalo kufanele ukuba kubi kakhulu ukuchitha iminyaka engama-20, 30, 40 okanye engama-50 nomntu ecaleni kwakho vuka ngenye imini ukufumanisa ukuba ngekhe abe secaleni kwakho kwakhona. Le meko yoyikisa abantu abaninzi, ngaphezulu kokufa kwayo.
Xa ujongene nentlungu engathethekiyo, ekuphela kwendlela yokujongana nokuqhubeka kukuqhubela phambili. Akukho luncedo ukulala ebhedini ukulila imihla ngemihla, kufuneka uqhubeke nobomi.
Ndikushiya nobungqina bomntu omdala osifundisa umbono wakhe othile malunga indlela yokujamelana nentlungu:
«Kulungile, nalu uluvo lwam. Sele ndimdala. Oku kuthetha ukuba Ndiye (ukuza kuthi ga ngoku) ndisindile ekuphulukaneni nabantu abaninzi endibaziyo nendibathandayo. Ndilahlekelwe ngabahlobo bam abasenyongweni, endisebenza nabo, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, oomama, ezinye izalamane ezingasondelanga kakhulu, ootitshala, abamelwane kunye nabantu abaninzi endibaziyo.
Andinabo abantwana kwaye andinokwazi nokucinga ngentlungu ekumele ukuba iyivakale xa uswelekelwa ngumntwana, kodwa apha Ndikushiya iisenti zam ezimbini.
Ndinqwenela ukuthi ndingathi uyakuqhela ukubona abantu besifa. Kodwa akunjalo. Akukho mntu unokuqhela into ebuhlungu njengokufa. Kubonakala umngxuma entliziyweni yam ngalo lonke ixesha kusweleke umntu endimthandayo. Amanxeba am abubungqina bothando nolwalamano endandinalo naloo mntu. Ukuba isikhumba sinzulu kakhulu, kungenxa yokuba ubumthanda kakhulu loo mntu.
Amabala bubungqina bobomi ubungqina bokuba ndingamthanda ngokunzulu umntu kwaye ndinokuphilisa ukulahleka kwakhe, ndiqhubeke ndiphila kwaye ndiqhubeke nothando ... kwaye inyama ebomvu inamandla kuneyokuqala.
Ngokuphathelele isohlwayo ... kufana amaza. Xa inqanawa yaphuka, uyatshona kwiindawo ezingqonge wena. Yonke into ejikelezayo ikukhumbuza ngobuhle obabukuloo nqanawa kwaye ingasekho. Ekuphela kwento onokuyenza kukudada. Ufumana inkunkuma kwaye ubambelele kuyo okwethutyana. Mhlawumbi yinto yomzimba, mhlawumbi inkumbulo elungileyo okanye ifoto ... mhlawumbi ngumntu ojikelezayo. Okwexeshana konke onokukwenza kukudada ... hlala uphila.
Ekuqaleni amaza ayephakame kangangeemitha ezingama-20 aze awele kuwe engenanceba. Ziza rhoqo kwimizuzwana eli-10 kwaye Abakuniki nexesha lokubamba umphefumlo wakho. Ekuphela kwento onokuyenza kukujinga kwaye udade. Emva kwethutyana, mhlawumbi iiveki, mhlawumbi iinyanga, ufumanisa ukuba amaza aseseemitha ezingama-20 ubude kodwa aya esanda nangakumbi. Baqhubeka bequbeka kuwe kodwa ungaqhubeka nokuphefumla.
Awusoze wazi ukuba yintoni eya kubangela iintlungu. Isenokuba yingoma, ifoto, indlela enqamlezileyo, ivumba lekomityi yekofu. Inokuba yiyo nantoni na ... Kodwa phakathi kwamaza kukho ubomi.
Ngexesha elithile uya kufumanisa ukuba amaza akwi-10 okanye i-5 yeemitha ukuphakama kwaye nangona eqhubeka eza, ayayenza ngakumbi nangakumbi indawo. Uyababona besiza. Isikhumbuzo, usuku lokuzalwa okanye iKrisimesi. Uyababona beza kwaye uyilungiselele. Xa bekubamba uyazi ukuba uza kuphuma kwelinye icala. Amaza akayeki ukuza kwaye ngandlela thile awufuni ukuba akhe eme. Nangona kunjalo, uyazi ukuba uya kusinda kuhlaselo lwabo.
Amanye amaza aza kuza uphila kwakhona. Ukuba unethamsanqa, Uya kuba neziva ezininzi eziyimveliso yothando oluninzi ... kunye nokophuka kwenqanawa okuninzi. "