Unyango lobunzima Yinto ebizayo efuna intando eninzi kwicala lomntu ochaphazelekayo. Kule nqaku uza kubona amanyathelo ama-5 anokunceda abo baziva bengaphantsi.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela esinokusebenzisa ngazo ukungathobeki kwethu ukusinceda sibe ngabantu abangcono:
1) Ukuchongwa kwemvakalelo yokungazithembi.
Ukuba uziva uphantsi komnye umntu, zama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye kanye eqale le mvakalelo. Luluphi uphawu lobuntu bakho olwenza uzive ungazithembanga? Ngoba? Nje ukuba ulwazi kakuhle utshaba lwakho, ungalwa ngokufanelekileyo.
2) Yiba yinxalenye yoluntu.
Khangela abantu abafana nawe, abantu abanomdla, abakhutheleyo, abanokuzonwabisa abanempilo, ababelana ngendlela yakho yokubona ubomi. Olu luvo lobunye sisitshixo sokwenene kwiimvakalelo zonqabiseko nolonwabo.
3) Qala encinci.
Imizamo yokuhlawulela imvakalelo yokujongela phantsi ngenjongo yokuphakama kunabanye yimpazamo enkulu kuphuhliso lweemvakalelo zoluntu.
4) Nciphisa iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu ezinxulumene neemvakalelo zokujongela phantsi.
Kufuneka zincitshiswe ziye kwinqanaba elikhuthaza ukukhula kunye phuhliso lwabantu.
5) Ukukholelwa okuqinisekileyo kumandla akho okudala.
Ukhululekile ukuba uthathe izigqibo kwaye uzilungise xa ubona kufanelekile. Oku kukunika umda wokuzithemba ukuphucula imeko yoyilo lobuntu bakho.
Ndingathanda ukuba undithumelele ulwazi ngendlela yokunyanga ubunzima bam ngokwasengqondweni. Enkosi neeholide ezimnandi
Kusasa, kusasa ekuseni, uncedo lubalulekile ukumisela ngengxaki, abantu bafuna uncedo, kuba badidekile kwaye baphantsi.
Siyavuyisana ngokuqhubeka unceda