Ukuba nobuntu obuzimeleyo luphawu oluqinisekileyo lokuvuthwa. Kule nqaku siqokelele iimpawu ezili-14 zabantu abazimeleyo. Kodwa ngaphambili, jonga le vidiyo.
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[imephu]Izinto ezili-14 abazenzayo abazenzi:
1) Abaludingi uncedo
Abantu abazimeleyo baqhele ukwenza nantoni na ngaphandle kokucela uncedo nakubani na, ngaphandle kokuba bayibona inyanzelekile. Bayathanda ukuzenzela ezabo izigqibo kwaye babone indlela abanye abantu abaphendula ngayo.
2) Bayabaleka kwixhoba
Kuyinyani ukuba ngamanye amaxesha banokuba namava amabi, kodwa bayayazi indlela yokuqhubeka kwaye abadingi ntuthuzelo yakhe nabani na ukuba aphume omelele kuhlaselo lobomi.
3) Abaziphathi msinya kwiindaba ezimbi
Bayazi ukuba izinto ezimbi azinakuphepheka, ke bazilungiselele iingqondo zabo kwaye baya kusabela ngokuthembeka ngaphandle kokufuna intuthuzelo yomntu.
4) Abakholelwa kuyo yonke into ngokungaboni
Ukuze bathembele kwinto ethile bafuna isizathu. Oku kubandakanya ukuthembela emntwini nakwimeko ethile.
Iinkolelo zabo bazisekela kumava ekuye kwafuneka bazifundele ngokwabo.
5) Abavumeli abantu ababi ukuba bafike kubo
Bayazi ukuba kukho abantu abangafanelekanga, nokuba bayathetha okanye akunjalo, banokugcwalisa iintloko zabo ngeengcinga ezimbi ... nangona kunjalo, bayayazi indlela yokuphepha ezi ntlobo zabalinganiswa.
6) Abagwebi abanye kuba banezimvo ezahlukeneyo
Bafundile ukuba umntu ngamnye unokucinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ayithobe.
7) Kulumkele ukubachaphazela kakubi abanye
Nangona iingqondo zabo ngamanye amaxesha zinokudlala amaqhinga kubo kwaye zibenze bacinge ngokungalunganga, bazama ukufumana indlela yokungayidlulisi kwabanye.
8) Abavumeli mntu ukuba abalawule
Kukho abantu abazama ukulawula okanye ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Bazi kakuhle ukuba iingqondo zaba bantu zisebenza njani kwaye kufuneka benze ntoni ukuthintela ukulawulwa ngumntu. Banokuthetha ukuba benziwe ngobuqhetseba kodwa ezingqondweni zabo bayazi ukuba inyani yahlukile.
9) baphelisa ubudlelwane obubi
Sithanda ukuba kukho ubudlelwane obunetyhefu ebomini babo ngoko ke bagqiba kwelokuba babuphelise kungekabi lixesha. Oku kungabhekisa kubuhlobo, uthando okanye ubudlelwane bosapho.
10) Abayikhathaleli impilo yabo yengqondo kunye nomzimba
Bayayazi into ekufuneka bayenzile ukonwaba, kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha banexesha, bayazama ukuyivelisa kwakhona. Bawukhathalela umzimba wakho kunye nengqondo yakho ukuze uzive ngcono.
11) Abadingi kuvunywa ngabanye
Olu luphawu olubaluleke kakhulu lwabantu abazimeleyo. Abakhathali ukuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni: ukuba bafuna ukwenza into, bayayenza, nokuba abanye abantu abazukuyithatha kakuhle.
12) Abadingi xesha lide lokwenza izigqibo
Oku akuthethi ukuba babathatha "baphambuke" kodwa babe nexesha elininzi lokucinga ngabo kangangokuba, xa ixesha lifika, sele beyazi into amabayenze.
13) Abakholelwa ukuba yonke imibuzo sele iphendulwe.
Bazithanda iimfihlakalo kunye neemfundiso ezintle. Bahlala bekhangela indlela yokugcina iingqondo zabo zisonwabisa. Ukuba ugcina ingqondo yakho ingenzi lutho, unokulibala malunga nokuvunywa kwabanye.
14) Abalindelanga into engekho ngqiqweni
Bayazi ukuba balindele ntoni kwaye yintoni engafanelekanga. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha bothuka, inyani kukuba bahlala benakho konke phantsi kolawulo.