Abantwana abasukela kwiminyaka yobudala encinci kufuneka babenoxanduva ekhaya, kufuneka bazi ukuba bayinxalenye yosapho kwaye wonke umntu unoxanduva noxanduva ekufuneka luzalisekisiwe ukuze kulunge kubo bonke. Kunjalo, Abayi kuba zizibophelelo ezifanayo kumntwana oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala nakumntwana oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuze abantwana benze imisebenzi yasekhaya ngokuzithandela, kubalulekile ukuba inkuthazo yokwenza oko ithathelwe ingqalelo. Kufuneka bakhuthazwe ukuba bazenze.
Into ongamele uyilibale
Kukwabalulekile ukuba abazali bangafuni okungaphezulu koko kunokwenziwa ngabantwana. Bamele banikwe imisebenzi abakwaziyo ukuyenza ngokobudala babo kunye nokukhula ngokwamabanga. Ukuba unyanzelisa umntwana ukuba enze umsebenzi angenako ukuwenza, awumfundisi ukuba awenze kwaye okona kubi kakhulu, uyamgweba ngokungawenzi kakuhle ... akazukufuna ukwenza umsebenzi walonto chwetheza okanye efanayo kwakhona. Ngoba? Kuba awufuni kuziva ngathi uhlazekile kwaye Uya kuphuhlisa ukungazithembi kwimisebenzi kunye neemvakalelo zokungafaneleki okuya kujongela phantsi ukuzithemba kwakho.
Ngesi sizathu, kufuneka uqale ufundise abantwana ukwenza imisebenzi, ngokobudala babo, kwaye wakuba ubakhokele ekwenzeni lo msebenzi kuthethwa ngawo, kwaye kuphela xa ubona ukuba bayakwazi ukuwenza ngokwabo, emva koko vumela ukuyenza ngokuzimela, ngokuthe ngcembe ebavumela ukuba bakwazi ukuyenza kwaye bazive umsebenzi wenziwe kakuhle. Ewe abayi kuyenza imisebenzi ngendlela ebuya kwenza ngayo, kodwa oko akufuneki kube sisithintelo kubo ekusebenzisaneni nomsebenzi wasekhaya, kuba ukuze ufunde, uhlala usenza iimpazamo kuqala. Ezi mpazamo, zikhokelwa ngothando nothando, Baza kubenza bafunde ukwenza izinto ngcono kwixesha elizayo.
Sukwenza impazamo yokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo wabantwana bakho xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Kungenxa yokuba emva koko baya kuziva ukuba abanako ukuzenza ngokwabo. Xa ungazi ukuba ungayenza njani into, into oyifunayo sisikhokelo sakho kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, umonde wakho.
Imisebenzi kunye noxanduva olunokwenziwa ngabantwana
Kuxhomekeke kubudala babantwana bakho, baya kuba nakho ukwenza eminye imisebenzi okanye abanye, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba bazive njengezibophelelo ekhaya ngenxa yenkuthazo kunye nolonwabo lokwenza izinto kakuhle. Ke, abantwana banokuba negalelo ekusebenzeni kakuhle kosapho.
Abantwana kufuneka bazive beluncedo, bazi ukuba banako ukuzenzela izinto kakuhle. Ngapha koko, bonke abantu kufuneka bazive ukuba bayanceda kwaye banegalelo. Xa umntu ethatha inxaxheba kwaye esenza umsebenzi okanye enika ixesha kunye neetalente zabo, benza imvakalelo yokuzibandakanya kunye nokuba yeyiphi na iglu ebopha iqela kunye. Ukusukela ukuhlala kwabantu ezidolophini, abantwana baceliwe ukuba benze kancinci nangaphantsi kusapho ... kwaye njengesiqhelo, ukuba abazenzi izinto kwaye abazikhuthazi ukuba bazenze, abazenzi nje.
Ngokuchaseneyo, abantwana abanoxanduva kusapho bakhulisa umbono wokubaluleka kwabo, ukuba ngabakho, kunye nokuzithemba kwabo kukhula njengoko ubuchule babo bukhula. Ke… kufanelekile ukuba nabo bathathe inxaxheba kuxanduva lwasekhaya nakwimisebenzi, nokuba bayaphikisana nayo ekuqaleni.
Emva koko siza kukunika uluhlu oluncinci kunye nemibono ethile ukuze abantwana bakho baqale ukusebenzisana nomsebenzi wasekhaya ngoku. Imisebenzi oyibonayo iya kuqokelelana njengoko bekhula.
Abantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-2 ukuya kweli-3
- Chola izinto zokudlala abangadlali ngazo uzibeke endaweni yazo.
- Gcina iincwadi kunye neemagazini kwiishelufa zokuphakama kwakho.
- Coca iitafile ngelaphu ngaphandle kweemveliso eziyityhefu
- Beka iipleyiti namatye okusika etafileni.
- Coca amabala abangela xa belahla into etafileni okanye phantsi.
- Izigqibo ezilula: ukukhetha isidlo sakusasa phakathi kwezinto ezimbini onokukhetha kuzo
- Ucoceko ngoncedo: ukuxukuxa amazinyo, izandla, ukuxukuxa iinwele, njl.
- Thatha iimpahla ngoncedo, uzibeke endaweni yazo.
- Zilahle kude izinto.
- Gcina iimveliso kwindawo yazo.
Uneminyaka emi-4 ubudala
- Uncedo ukuseta itafile.
- Beka izinto endaweni yazo.
- Uncedo ekuthengeni ukubeka iimveliso kwinqwelo.
- Nceda egadini ngemisebenzi elula.
- Izilwanyana zasekhaya
- Nceda ulungise iibhedi.
- Nceda uzalise i-dishwasher.
- Yenza iisendwitshi ezilula.
- Yenza iidessert ezilula.
- Dlala ngokuzimeleyo ngokubekwa esweni kwabantu abadala, kodwa ngaphandle kokususa ulawulo.
- Gcina izinto zakho kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Abantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-6
- Yenza isidlo sakusasa esilula kwaye ucoce ubumdaka.
- Thela esakho isiselo.
- Lungisa itafile.
- Uncedo kwimisebenzi yokupheka ngokujonga abantu abadala.
- Yendlula.
- Coca igumbi lakho lokulala ngoncedo.
- Coca isinki ngokongamela
- Yahlula iimpahla ezicocekileyo kwezi ndizaziyo. Kufuneka. ukuhlamba.
- Songa iimpahla uzibeke ecaleni.
- Sebenzisa umnxeba ukufowunela amalungu osapho.
- Thenga ngokujonga.
- Thatha udoti phantsi kweliso.
- Yondle izilwanyana zakho kwaye uhlambulule oko kungcolileyo.
Uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala
- Khathalela ibhayisekile yakho ukuba unayo.
- Bhala phantsi imiyalezo ukunxibelelana nabazali.
- Yenza imisebenzi elula.
- Nkcenkceshela ingca.
- Khathalela izinto zakho.
- Hlamba inja okanye ikati.
- Thatha iibhegi zokutya.
- Vuka ngewotshi kwaye unxibe ngokuzimeleyo ukuya esikolweni.
- Funda ixabiso lentlonipho.
- Amandla okuphatha imali yokuhlawula izinto ezincinci, ezinje ngesonka.
- Ucoceko lokuhlamba oluzimeleyo.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-7, abantwana baqala ukuzimela, ke ungabafundisa imisebenzi emininzi yasekhaya njengoko bedibanisa amandla abo okwenza ekhaya. Xa beziva beluncedo kuyakuba lula kubo ukuba baqhubeke nokufunda. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ngaphezulu kwako konke bafuna umonde wakho kunye nalo lonke uthando lwakho ukuze bakwazi ukuqala ukukwenza. Umsebenzi wasekhaya kufuneka ubandakanywe kwiinkqubo zemihla ngemihla.