Sikunikezela amabinzana apholileyo

Ubomi busibeka kuxinzelelo olukhulu kunye noxanduva, ukongeza kwiingxaki ezivela kuwo onke amacala ekufuneka sijongane nawo nobuso ukuzama ukufezekisa ulonwabo. Nangona kunjalo, siya kufuna ukuphuma amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze sizive sihlaziya kwaye sihlaziya iibhetri zethu, kwaye sikuncede sikubonisa ezona binzana zipholileyo esifuna ukukunika ngayo loo Push uyifunayo.

Ukuze wonwabe kufuneka uthathe ixesha ukuzazi

Enye yeengxaki eziphambili esinazo kuluntu lwanamhlanje kukuba siphila ngokukhawuleza kakhulu, ngenxa yoko asichithi xesha laneleyo ukuzazi thina nayo yonke into esijikelezileyo.

Oku kuthetha ukuba sigxila kuphela kubomi bemihla ngemihla, siphilela unamhlanje ngaphandle kokucinga ngengomso, sigxile ekusombululeni iingxaki ezivele mva nje, ekungekho mbono wazo ngekamva, kodwa jolisa kuphela ekuxhaseni nakwezinye izinto ezincinci.

Nangona kunjalo, ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili siza kukukhuthaza ukuba unikezele ixesha lakho ngalunye suku ngalunye ukuze uzifumanise, uhlalutye into nganye ekwenza ukuba ube ngabantu, kwaye ngale ndlela uya kubona ukuba kulula ukujonga kwikamva hayi kuphela ngokuzithemba kodwa nangokhetho oluninzi, kwaye kukuzifumanisa ngokwakho apho sinokufumana kwizizathu kwiindlela zokuphumeza ziguquka njengabantu ekuhlaleni.

Kodwa kunjalo, ukuzibeka ekucamngceni ngaphandle kwesizathu esimiselweyo kunokuba yinkcitha xesha, ke ngoko silungiselele ingqokelela yamabinzana apholileyo esiqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba aya kuba luncedo ukuze sikwazi ukuba nesiqalo sokwenza olwethu uphuhliso.

Ukuqokelelwa kwamabinzana apholileyo

Ngala mabinzana apholileyo siza kuzama ukuba uhlalutyo olulindelekileyo ukuba lwenziwe yonke imihla, ke siyakucebisa ukuba uzifunde kwaye uzikhethele ukuchitha ixesha kulowo nalowo kubo, uzama ukusebenzisa yonke intsingiselo abayigcinayo. kwaye uhlalutye loo ntsingiselo isekwe kubomi bakho, kuba kungoko kuphela apho uya kufezekisa injongo yakho.

• Akukho mntu uswele amandla; okuswelekileyo kukuthanda.
• Ngamanye amaxesha uyaphumelela, ngamanye amaxesha uyafunda.
• Ngamanye amaxesha isitshixo kukunika ixesha nexesha, uya kujongana nokubeka yonke into endaweni yayo.
• Ngamanye amaxesha awuziboni amandla akho de ujongane nobona buthathaka bakho.
• Ekugqibeleni, okubalulekileyo ayisiyiyo iminyaka yobomi, kodwa bubomi beminyaka.
• Ngokuphumelela ngaphandle kwemiqobo, uyoyisa ngaphandle kozuko.
• Injongo yenyanga. Ukuba uyasilela, ungabetha inkwenkwezi.
• Qhubeka nangona wonke umntu elindele ukuba uyeke. Musa ukuvumela isinyithi kuwe.
• Xa ubomi bukunika izizathu zokulila, bonisa ukuba unewaka kunye nesizathu esinye sokuhleka.
• Xa ungakwazi ukutshintsha imeko, ucelwa umngeni wokuba uzitshintshe.
• Xa kuvalwa olunye ucango kuvuleka omnye.
• Kuya kufuneka sikwamkele ukuphoxeka, kodwa singaze siphulukane nethemba elingenasiphelo.
• Yeka ukucinga ngobomi kwaye uzimisele ukubuphila.
• Konwabele ukwaneliseka kokwenza izinto ezincinci kakuhle.
• Uthando kunye nomnqweno ngamaphiko omoya wezenzo ezinkulu.
• Iipesenti ezintlanu zabantu bacinga; Iipesenti ezilishumi zabantu bacinga ukuba bacinga; kwaye amanye amashumi asibhozo anesihlanu eepesenti kungcono afe kunokuba ucinge.
• Isibindi asinawo amandla okuqhubeka; kukuqhubekeka xa ungenamandla.
• Intlungu yexeshana, inokuhlala umzuzu, iyure, usuku, okanye unyaka, kodwa ekugqibeleni iya kuphela kwaye enye into iyakuthatha indawo yayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ndiyayeka loo ntlungu iya kuba ngonaphakade.
• Umzamo ngaphandle kwetalente yimeko yokudakumba, kodwa italente ngaphandle komzamo yintlekele.
• Ixesha elizayo lelabo bakholelwa kubuhle bamaphupha abo.
• Ixesha elizayo linamagama amaninzi. Kuba ababuthathaka abakwazi ukufikelela. Kwaboyikekayo, abangaziwayo. Okomeleleyo lithuba.
• Umntu akaze azi ukuba unokwazi ukwenza ntoni de azame.
• Umntu ugcina ibhalansi yakhe kuphela xa esiya phambili.
• Abangazi bathi, izilumko ziyathandabuza kwaye zibonisa.
• Ithemba lukholo olukhokelela kwimpumelelo. Akukho nto inokwenziwa ngaphandle kwethemba kunye nentembelo.
• Ixesha elidlulileyo alinawo amandla ngoku.
• Imemori kukuphela kweparadesi esingenakugxothwa kuyo.
• Iitalente zitshiphu kunetyuwa. Okwahlula umntu onesiphiwo kwimpumelelo ngumsebenzi onzima.
• Italente iphumelela imidlalo, kodwa ukusebenzisana kunye nobukrelekrele kuphumelela ubuntshatsheli.
• Umhlobo wokwenene ngulowo othi, nangona ezazi ukuba unjani, akuthande.
• Kwilizwe lokwenyani, abantu abakrelekrele ngabantu abenza iimpazamo kwaye bafunda. Esikolweni, abona bantu bakrelekrele abazenzi iimpazamo.
• Ebomini kukho into embi kunokungaphumeleli: ukungazami kwanto.
• Ngaba ukuzama into engenakwenzeka kunokwenzeka kuyenziwa.
• Inokwenzeka into yokuba kufezekiswe iphupha elenza ubomi bube nomdla.
• Ithemba lokugqwesa, cwangcisa okona kubi, kwaye ulungiselele ukumangaliswa.
• Kulungile ukubhiyozela impumelelo, kodwa kubaluleke ngakumbi ukunikela ingqalelo kwizifundo zokungaphumeleli.
• Zimbini iindlela zokufumana ukwanela. Enye yazo kukuqokelela ngakumbi nangakumbi. Enye into kukufuna okuncinci.
• Kukho amandla anamandla ngakumbi kunomphunga, umbane, kunye namandla eathom. Loo mandla yintando.
• Yenza ubomi bakho bube liphupha, kwaye iphupha lakho libe yinyani.
• Ndiphose ngaphezulu kwe-9000 shots kwikhondo lam lomsebenzi. Ndiphulukene nemidlalo ephantse ibe ngama-300. Amaxesha angama-26 andithembile ukuba ndiza kwenza iphumelele kwaye ndiyiphosile. Ndoyisakele kaninzi ebomini bam yiyo loo nto ndiphumelela.
• Nokuba obona busuku bumnyama buyakuphela kwaye ilanga liyakuphuma.
• Zama ukuba ungabi yimpumelelo, kodwa ube yindoda enexabiso.
• Gweba umntu ngemibuzo yakhe, kunokuba uphendule.
• Isimo sengqondo yinto encinci eyenza umahluko omkhulu.
• Ubuhle obutsalayo abufane buhambisane nobuhle obuthandayo.
• Amandla kunye nokuphikelela kunqoba zonke izinto.
• Umona uzibonakalisa ungaphantsi.
• Ukonwaba ayingombandela wobungqongqo, kodwa ulungelelwano kunye nocwangco, isingqisho kunye nemvisiswano.
• Amandla kunye nokukhula kuza kuphela ngokuqhubeka komzamo kunye nomzabalazo.

• Inkuthazo ikhona, kodwa kufuneka ikufumane usebenza.
• Ubukrelekrele bubuchule bokuziqhelanisa notshintsho.
• Obona bomi bulungileyo ayingoyeyona inde, kodwa isityebi kwizenzo ezilungileyo.
• Uxolo luvela ngaphakathi, sukuyikhangela ngaphandle.
• Umahluko kuphela phakathi komhla olungileyo nomhla ombi sisimo sakho sengqondo.
• Uloyiso lunootata abalikhulu kwaye ukoyiswa yinkedama.
• Ubomi abukho ngokuba namakhadi alungileyo, kodwa kukudlala abo onabo kakuhle.
• Ubomi bufana nokukhwela ibhayisekile. Ukugcina ulungelelwano, kufuneka uqhubeke.
• Ubomi ngumdlalo ongakuvumeliyo ukuziqhelisela… Ngoko ke cula, uhleke, udanise, ulile kwaye uphile ngawo wonke umzuzu wobomi bakho ngamandla… Phambi kokuba umkhusane uhle kwaye umdlalo uphele ungaqhwatyelwa izandla.
• Isimo sengqondo esingalunganga asikhokeleli kubomi obulungileyo.
• Ezona zinto zibalaseleyo ebomini azilindelwanga kuba kwakungekho nto yayilindelwe.
• Into ekufuneka itshintshiwe emntwini kukuzazi.
• Imiqobo zizinto ezoyikekayo ozibonayo xa ususa amehlo akho kwinjongo yakho.
• Ilahleko iyayeka xa isilele. Abaphumeleleyo bayasilela de baphumelele.
• Izilumko ngabo bafuna ubulumko; izidenge zicinga ukuba sele ziyifumene.
• Ukuhamba kolutsha kuyinxalenye yemfundo; kubantu abadala yinxalenye yamava.
• Kungcono ukufa ulwela inkululeko kunokuba ube libanjwa yonke imihla yobomi bakho.
• Logama ndinomnqweno, ndinaso isizathu sokuphila. Ukwaneliseka kukufa.
• Ukwazi akwanele, kufuneka sifake isicelo. Ukuthanda akwanele, kufuneka umntu enze njalo.
• Asoyisi intaba, kodwa thina.
• Andizibali zonke iicrunche endizenzayo. Ndiyabala kuphela xa beqala ukuba buhlungu. Kuba ezo zezona zibalulekileyo. Ezindenza ndibe yintshatsheli endiyiyo.
• Ayibobutyebi okanye ubuqaqawuli, kodwa ukuzola kunye nomsebenzi okunika uyolo.
• Musa ukunyuka iintaba ukuze ihlabathi likubone, kodwa ukuze ulibone ihlabathi.
• Andivumelani nento oyithethayo, kodwa ndiza kulikhusela ilungelo lakho lokukutsho ekufeni.
• Andibaleki ndicela umngeni kuba ndiyoyika. Ngokuchasene noko, ndibalekela kumceli mngeni kuba ekuphela kwendlela yokuphepha uloyiko kukubaleka ngeenyawo zakho.
• Ayinamsebenzi indlela ohamba kancinci ngayo ukuba nje awuyeki.
• Ayinamsebenzi nokuba bayakugxeka, bayakungcolisa, bayakuthwesa isithsaba, okanye bakubethelele emnqamlezweni; kuba eyona ntsikelelo inkulu kubukho bakho.
• Andicingi ngamashwa onke, kodwa ngobuhle bonke obuseleyo.
• Awunakho ubomi obulungileyo kunye nengqondo engalunganga.
• Asizizo izidalwa zemeko; singabenzi beemeko.
• Sukuba nobukrakra kukusilela kwakho okanye ukuyihlawulisa komnye umntu, zamkele ngoku okanye uza kuqhubeka ukuzithethelela njengomntwana, khumbula ukuba nawuphina umzuzu lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqalisa kwaye akukho namnye owoyikekayo ukunikezela.
• Sibe sisiqhamo seengcinga zethu.
• Uzuko lwethu olukhulu alusokuze lusilele, kodwa kukuvuka ngalo lonke ixesha sisilela.
• Abanye bayibonile ukuba iyintoni kwaye babuza ukuba kutheni. Ndiyibonile ukuba inokuba yintoni kwaye ndibuze ukuba kutheni kungenjalo.
• Ukuze utshintsho lube nexabiso lokwenyani, kufuneka lungqinelane kwaye lomelele.
• Sinokuphosa amatye, sikhalaze ngawo, siwanyathele okanye sakhe nawo.
• Nokuba ungaya kude kangakanani umoya, awusoze uqhubeke ngaphezu kwentliziyo.
• Lowo ukholelwa ukuba unakho, nalowo ukholwayo ukuba akangekhe. Lo ngumthetho ongenakuphikiswa.
• Ndiyakwamkela ukusilela, wonke umntu uyasilela kwinto ethile. Kodwa andikwazi ukwamkela ukungazami.
• Yenza nganye yezenzo zakho ngokungathi yeyokugqibela ebomini bakho.
• Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula ukuba awunalo nje ilungelo lokuba ngumntu, unoxanduva lokuba ngomnye.
• Zihloniphe kwaye nabanye baya kukuhlonipha.
• Zithobe ukuze uzivume iimpazamo zakho, ulumke ufunde kuzo, kwaye ukhule uzilungisa.
• Ukuba ufuna iziphumo ezahlukeneyo, musa ukwenza okufanayo.
• Ukuba senze zonke izinto esinokukwazi ukuzenza, singamangaliswa ngokoqobo.
• Ukuba uyaphambuka, ayilotyala labazali bakho okanye elabo titshala, ke musa ukukhala ngeempazamo zakho kwaye ufunde kubo.
• Ukuba awuyithandi into oyenzayo, ungayenzi.
• Ukuba unokuba nesibindi sokuqalisa, uya kuba nesibindi sokuphumelela.
• Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha umhlaba, zitshintshe.
• Ukuba uqhele ukubeka imida kwinto oyenzayo, emzimbeni okanye nakweliphi na inqanaba, iya kuthi iphumeze kubomi bakho bonke. Iya kusasazeka emsebenzini wakho, ekuziphatheni kwakho, kubume bakho ngokubanzi. Akukho mida. Kukho izigaba, kodwa akufuneki ubambeke kuzo, kuya kufuneka uzidlule ... Umntu kufuneka aqhubeke edlula amanqanaba abo.
• Kuphela ngabo bavukayo kwaye bajonge iimeko zoloyiso emhlabeni, kwaye bakholelwe ukuba bayazifumanela thina.
• Inye kuphela into eyenza ukuba iphupha lingenzeki: uloyiko lokusilela.
• Sineendlebe ezimbini kunye nomlomo omnye ukuva kabini njengoko sithethayo.
• Wonke umntu uyayibona into obonakala uyiyo, bambalwa abaziva into oyiyo.
• Sonke singabafundi. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu kangangokuba akukho xesha limbi.
• Zama ukuqonda ngaphambi kokuba uqondwe.
• Iqhawe alikhaliphile kunendoda eqhelekileyo, kodwa likhaliphile kangangemizuzu emihlanu.
• Indoda yesimilo inokoyiswa, kodwa ingaze itshatyalaliswe.
• Naphi na apho uya khona, hamba ngentliziyo yakho yonke.
• Phila ngokungathi uza kufa ngomso. Funda ngokungathi uza kuphila ngonaphakade.

Siyathemba ukuba ngale ngqokelela elungileyo yamabinzana apholileyo uya kuba nakho ukwanako ukucamngca kangangeenyanga malunga nokunyaniseka kwakho kunye neenqobo zakho ezisemgangathweni, kunye namathuba onawo kwikamva kwaye, ngokubanzi, indlela ofuna ukuyikhokela ubomi bakho.