Amabinzana angama-49 egocentric aya kukwenza ucinge

Xa sithetha ngokuzingca, sithetha ngabantu abacinga ukuba bangaphezulu kwabanye abantu, bakholelwa ukuba izimvo zabo kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo zibaluleke kakhulu kunezabanye abantu. Umntu ozimeleyo ucinga ukuba indalo iphela ijikeleze bona, ukuba bangcono kunabanye ...

Ukuba ujonga amabinzana achaza into ecekethekiswa kukucinga okanye ufuna ukufumanisa ukuba ubuncinci uyiqonde ingqondo yomntu o-egocentric, qhubeka ufunda kuba uyoyika ukuthanda into esiza kukubonisa yona.

Amabinzana e-egocentric

Ukuba ungumntu ozithandayo, mhlawumbi la mabinzana aqhelekile kuwe kuba ziingcinga oqhele ukuba nazo ... Okanye ukuba uyazi umntu ozicingela kakhulu, uya kuyiqonda ngcono ingqondo yakhe. Kodwa siza kufaka amanye amabinzana anokuhambelana nokuqonda ubungqongqo.

1. Zimbini kuphela iintlobo zabantu: abo bathanda, kwaye nabo abandaziyo.
2. Ndiligugu, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile.
3. Andigugi, ndiya kwiidiliya.
4. Ungalibali ukuthandana nawe kuqala.
5. Andikhathali nokuba ucinga ntoni ngam, ngaphandle kokuba ucinga ndipholile. Ke, uchanekile.
6. Andoyiki ukuphulukana nabahlobo abanjengoYudas… bayazixhoma!
7. Abanye bafuna italente, abanye sibakhathalele ukuba yenzeke!
8. Xa ndibona ubukhulu bam, ndizibuza ukuba ingaba uThixo ushiyele abanye into.
9. Ayisiyo yokubonisa kodwa eneneni ndiyimfezeko.
10. Andixakekanga, ndinomda omncinci.
11. Ubunzima bam obuphezulu bungcono kunobakho…
12. Ndizithanda kakhulu kangangokuba akukho gumbi kum lomnye umntu.
13. Namhlanje ndiyithandile ngaphezu kwezolo ... kodwa ngaphantsi komso.
14. Into ebalulekileyo ayisiyiyo impumelelo kodwa kukwenza enye ilahlekelwe.
15. Zonke izinto eziphilayo ziyaphila ngenxa yokuzingca.
16. I-egocentricity kukuqaphela ukuba zonke izinto eziphilayo zibona umhlaba ngendlela enye.
17. Abantu abazicingela bodwa abonakalisi ubudlelwane, kodwa bayazitshabalalisa.
18. Eyona nto intle malunga nokuzicingela kukuba uzikhathalele ngakumbi, nangona kusiza indawo apho abanye balibaleyo ukukukhathalela.
19. I-egocentric ayinguye umntu ongakhathaliyo ngabanye, ngumntu ongacingi ngqo ngabanye.
20. Xa umntu esithi igama elithi "mna" ngaphezulu kwamaxesha ama-5 ngaphantsi komzuzu, banethuba elihle lokuba yi-egocentric enkulu.
21. Ayisiyo-egocentric kuphela engajonganga abanye, kodwa ikwajonga abanye ukuba babasebenzise.
22. Xa ubona i-egocentric, baleka ngokungathi ubone ingonyama iphuma kwikheji.
23. Bonke abantu abangaqolanga banenqanaba elithile lokuzingca kwaye umntu oqolileyo, ngokwenkcazo, akanako ukuzimela.
24. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu uye acinge ngesiqu sakhe ade acinge ukuba iintlungu azibangelayo azinamphumo zizakumphendulela.
25. Ukuzicingela yenye yezona mpawu zibi, kuba kungekudala uza kurhoxa kakhulu ebantwini kangangokuba awuyi kuba nalo ixesha lokubuya.
26. Umntu ongaboniyo nonobubele unamehlo ngakumbi kunomntu ozicingela yedwa ongabakhathaleliyo abanye.
27. I-egocentric ayifani nokuzingca. I-egocentric inokunika izinto kamva ukuba zixhamle abanye, i-egoist ayiniki nto ngokuthe ngqo.
28. Omnye umntu egocentric uhamba yedwa ebumnyameni besizungu esingunaphakade.
29. Ndikhetha i-egocentric endaweni ekrwada. Ayingabo bonke abantu abaziphethe kakubi abonzakeleyo, kodwa umntu ongenasimilo kunye nokrwada unokutshabalalisa umntu obuthathaka kwimizuzwana embalwa.
30. Khulisa i-egocentric kwaye kungekudala uya kuzifumana kwintlango engapheliyo.
31. Igazethi inendlela enye yokubona umhlaba, ukuze yonke into yenzeke kuye nayo yonke into kufuneka izuze kuye.
32. I-egocentric ihlala ikhalaza xa ingamnikeli ngqalelo, emva kokuchitha iminyaka ngaphandle kokuhoya abanye.
33. Ndingathanda ukuhlala kunye noyena mntu ungcolileyo emhlabeni kunokuhlala egazethi. Eyokuqala ingcolile kodwa uyaqonda ukuba iyacaphukisa, okwesibini kunokucoceka kodwa banokumcaphukisa.
34. Xa uthetha nomntu ozithandayo, zilungiselele ukwenza njengengcali yeengqondo; I-90% yexesha oza kuthetha ngalo ngobomi bakhe kunye ne-10% malunga neengxaki zakhe.
35. Nangona ibiyeyona mini ibalulekileyo ebomini bakho, nge-egocentric iya kuba yeyona ixhaphakileyo kubo bonke, kuba into onayo ngesidlo sakusasa ngaloo mini iya kuba sisihloko esiphambili kwincoko.
36. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu, i-egocentricity short-circuits, buthathaka amandla ovakalelo, kunye nokuthintela ukuvela kwengqondo.
37. Kubugcisa, njengasebomini, ukoneliseka kukhetha ukuzicingela ngokwakho.
38. Esona sizathu sokuba i-egocentric iye enyangeni iya kuba kukubona ukuba umhlaba unokuba njani ngaphandle kwakhe.
39. Ukuthetha nomntu ongakwaziyo ukugxeka kufana nokufuna ukonga ngokufaka imali kwingxowa ekrazukileyo.
40. Kukho abantu abazicingela bodwa abacinga ukuba uThixo ukhona ngokomfanekiselo wabo nangokufana naye.
41. Nokuba bangathi bakubambe kangakanani, umntu ozicingelayo akanakuze ayimamele into oyithethayo.
42. I-egocentrics ngabo bantu bazimisele ukuncama ubomi babo babucala, ezona foto zabo zisenyongweni, konke okomzuzwana wodumo.
43. I-egocentric iya kuhlala icinga ukuba yonke into oyenzayo okanye oyithethayo sisiphumo sezenzo zabo.
44. Kuphela zii-egocentric ezitshonayo kwiintlungu eziziva zodwa zingazi ukuba akukho mntu unokubathuthuzela.
45. Ukuzixakekisa nokuzimisela kwabantu kokufuna ukufikelela kwelona liphezulu, kubenze bawele kweyona iphantsi.
46. Ukuba yi-egocentric ayikho enye into ngaphandle kwesiphumo sokuhlawulwa ngokugqithileyo kobunzima obuphantsi. Emtshatweni, i-egocentric kufuneka ibe ngumtshakazi! Emngcwabeni, i-egocentric kufuneka ibe ngulowo ufileyo! Yonke into ijikeleze kuye.
47. Akukho mntu usokola ngakumbi kukuzingca komntu, kunaye loo mntu xa ejonga esipilini ngasese.
48. Ukuzithemba komntu, akuba ekhule ngokwaneleyo, uyamsebezela endlebeni nanini na xa enako: awuyidingi, ungcono
49. Eyona nto imbi eyenziwa ngabantu abazithandayo kukususa amandla abo okuthi "ndiyaxolisa."