Umdibaniso o Unxibelelwano lolutsha Akusoloko kusenzeka ngendlela elula, ngenxa yeemeko ezahlukeneyo ezibangela uthotho lweemvakalelo, kubandakanya neentloni ezibenza barhoxe kubantu abangabaziyo.
Oku akusoloko kulungile kwinxalenye enkulu, kuba kubangela ukungazithembi, kunokuchaphazela ukuzithemba kwaye kwandise amathuba okuba umntu omncinci ahlalisane kwaye azive amkelwe. Ikwachaphazela ikakhulu xa usenza umsebenzi weqela, nokuba liziko okanye kwenye indawo.
Ke kukho inani le amacebo, ubuchule kunye nemisebenzi ezijolise ikakhulu kumaqela, zijolise kunxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu, kule meko abantu abancinci, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuyeka ngenxa yokungabi nalwazi ngaphambili. Ngapha koko, ukuthatha inxaxheba kunokuba sisenzo esikhokelela kwinkcazo-ntetho.
Ukongeza, ibangela iziphumo ezininzi ezilungileyo, ezinje ngokudala indawo enobuhlobo evumela abantu abancinci ukuba bafune ukuthatha inxaxheba. Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, kuyanceda ukwaphula ezo bhloko kunye nemida yobuqu, ebekwe ngokungazi kunye namandla amakhulu.
Inyani yokuba abantu bafunda ngokubandakanywa, ngamava abo, ayinakushiywa ngaphandle. Ukongeza koku abayi kufunda kuphela kodwa baya kuziva ukubaluleka kokusebenzisana.
Apha ngezantsi, sikhetha ukuguquguquka kweqela labantu abancinci esikholelwa ukuba kuthandwa kakhulu kwaye kuyasebenza. Ungayifumana enye ibonakalisiwe kuxhomekeke kwinto oyifunayo.
Elona qela lihamba kakuhle
Ukunikezelwa
Oku kuhle ngokwaphula umkhenkce kwaye uthathe inyathelo lokuqala lokuzama uphuhliso lonxibelelwano phakathi kwabaselula. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ubenendlela kunye nesicwangciso sobabini xa usenza isindululo kunye nomlinganiso wekhosi yawo. Isizathu kungenxa yokuba inokungonwabi kwabaninzi, ke umntu omncinci kufuneka akhuthazwe ukuba abe yinxalenye yeyona ndlela inobuhlobo, emenza ukuba azithembe kwaye angabeka ihlazo ecaleni.
Enye yeenguqu zeqela labantu abancinci ngokusekwe kwimimangaliso apho kuya kufuneka wenze inkcazo ngokwakho kwamanye amalungu eqela. Kwangokunjalo, umxholo unokwahluka kwaye endaweni yokwenza i-auto-biology unokwenza intetho malunga nezimvo zakho okanye izigqibo zokuzilolonga okanye isihloko sokufunda phambi kwabaphulaphuli esinokuthi siphinde senziwe kwaye sibonwe ngenye indlela kunontanga.
Ukwenza olu hlobo lwento kubalulekile kuba ukongeza kumaxabiso azisa nawo, uya kufunda kuwo umxholo wesicatshulwa kwaye uyazi indlela yokubonisa ngendlela ehambelanayo, oko kukuthi, icacile, imfutshane.
Uyenza njani? Zazise kwabanye uzama ukuphendula le mibuzo (isekelwe kulutsha, kodwa inokuhlengahlengiswa ngokobudala nangokwemeko): ayintoni amava akho angaphambili? Yintoni onokwazi ukuyenza okanye onokuthi ube nakho ukunikela ngayo kwabanye?
Unokongeza idatha yobuqu enje ngegama lakho elipheleleyo, ubudala, indawo ohlala kuyo kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo kwezemfundo, emsebenzini nakwezolonwabo.
Ukulinganisa udliwanondlebe
Lo msebenzi ubandakanya ukuzibeka njengomgqatswa ukuze uzalisekise indima yodliwanondlebe kwimeko ethile edaliweyo, omnye umntu kungudliwanondlebe kunye naye, umlinganiswa ofanelekileyo kwimeko ephinda yenziwe.
Phakathi kwemizekelo esetyenziswa kakhulu yeyokuba umthengisi athethe nomthengi; ikwangumphathi oza kuqesha umqeshwa okanye angadlala utitshala kunye nomfundi. Injongo yalo msebenzi ngokwemiyalelo kukubeka i-hizakhono zokunxibelelana onokuba unayo, ngakumbi kwiimeko ezizifunayo.
Ngaba sele unalo uqeqesho kubalinganiswa bakho kwaye awazi ukuba ubuze ntoni? Ukuthatha ukuba ungoyena uphakamileyo okanye endaweni yoko, udliwanondlebe, eyona mibuzo ilungileyo ekufuneka uyenzile yile: Uzibonakalisa njani? Yeyiphi imibuzo oyibuzayo? Yeyiphi injongo oyifunayo ngemibuzo yakho? Ngaba ubuza imibuzo efanelekileyo? Okanye ezinye ezinjalo.
Kuphuhliso lomdlalo baya kuba nakho ukuqaphela inani leendlela ezinokusetyenziselwa ukuqikelela isimilo, iimpendulo kwaye ke bazi ubuntu beqabane. Ekugqibeleni, injongo njengesiqhulo solu hlobo lwamandla eqela kubantu abancinci, kuxhomekeke kwindima ayidlalayo, kukumisela ukuba awulunganga okanye hayi. Kwaye eyona njongo yayo kukukunceda ujongane neqela elinamandla, ube nethuba lokubonisa amandla kunye nezakhono zakho.
Uvavanyo lokuzivocavoca
Oku kusekwe kwi ukuqhuba uhlalutyo nokuba kukodwa, njengesibini okanye ngokwamaqela amancinci. Isifundo sinokuba yiyo nantoni na, nangona kunjalo, umtsalane unokuba lulwazi oluntsokothileyo olujongana neendaba, imeko yangoku elizweni, iinkolelo kunye neendlela zokucinga (umzekelo, uyavumelana nomthetho osandul 'ukusekwa? Ucinga ngento yenzekile?, phakathi kwabanye).
Nokuba sithini na isihloko, iimfuno: zokuchonga ulwazi olufanelekileyo okanye idatha, ukuba ulwazi lwakhiwe ngendlela enentsingiselo kunye nokuxhasa izigqibo malunga noku kungentla, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo. Kungacelwa kwakhona ukuba ezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zokujonga zichongiwe ukubuza imibuzo.
Ngaba ufuna imizekelo? Olunye lolonwabo oludumileyo nolusetyenzisiweyo kukukholelwa ukuba ukwinkampani apho kwenzeke into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka beyenzile, kodwa kuqala banoluhlu lobuthathaka kunye namandla angenakushiyeka xa ukhetha isigqibo. Yintoni oyithethileyo ichanekile? Kutheni kufanele ukuba yile kwaye ingabi yenye? Ngaba kufuneka ukhokelwe bubuthathaka okanye amandla? Sijongana njani nemeko
Kwaye ukuba kwenzeka malunga nesihloko esithile, imeko yokwenyani okanye iindaba: kwenzeke ntoni? Jonge phambili uku? Ngaba ucinga ukuba yinyani? Ucinga ngantoni? Incoko mayiyeke ukuphakamisa imibuzo emininzi iyodwa.
Iqela elinamandla okanye Ingxoxo
Ngenye yezona zinto zisebenza ngamandla kwiqela labantu abancinci kwaye iyafana naleyo yangaphambili, nangona kunjalo, inento ethile kwaye kukuqaqambisa okanye ukuzisa iingcamango eziphikiswayo ngabantu kwiqela abangenzi yabelana ngokucinga okufanayo.
Kule meko, imeko-yengxaki iyavela ephosa imithombo eyahlukeneyo yokuqonda ukuba iqela lixoxe de bafikelele kwisisombululo esidibeneyo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba, kule mithambo, akukho mpendulo "ichanekileyo" okanye "engachanekanga", kuba ayisiyiyo le nto, nokuba ikho enye ebonakala ngathi; izakuqhubeka nokwabelana ngabanye hayi abanye. Ngokubanzi, ininzi malunga nokuba kwimeko ezintsonkothileyo apho ukunqongophala kolwazi kuvumela ingxoxo phakathi kwabantu ekufuneka befumene isisombululo, kuxhomekeke kwindlela ingxaki okanye umahluko ohlaselwe ngayo.
Imizekelo? Iqela liyadibana ukwenza umsebenzi, kodwa kule kukho imigaqo ethile esebenzayo, njengokusebenzisa izixhobo ezi-4 kuphela kwezili-10, ungakhetha eyiphi? ngoba? Iyafana le ndlela kukho imizekelo engapheliyo kunye nobunzima obukhulu.
Isenokuba kukuveza umxholo olula kodwa onempikiswano, njengobukho bukaThixo, ukwamkelwa kobufanasini kunye nemixholo eyahlukeneyo enokuthi ingakhokeleli kwisiphelo esithile, kodwa ukuba ukukhuthaza ukunyamezelana phakathi kwabantu, kunye nembeko kunye nokuchaneka kwezinye iindlela zokucinga ukongeza kwezi zobuqu.
Ukuzivocavoca "ngebhasikidi"
Kumaqela abantu abatsha asebenziseka kangako. Inokukubonelela ngenani lamaxwebhu onokuwafumana nangaluphi na usuku oluqhelekileyo kubomi bakho bezemfundo, bobungcali okanye bobuqu; Kule meko, ezo zihambelana nomxholo zikhethwe ngakumbi, kwaye kuba bengabantu abancinci, kunokuba ngumsebenzi okanye ukufundwa okufana neeleta, amanqaku angaphakathi, ii-invoyisi, isishwankathelo solwazi lolawulo, amanqaku obuchwephesha nezikhalazo. Ke injongo kukucwangcisa kakuhle yonke into ehanjisiweyo, ngokweekhrayitheriya zakho, ukongeza ekwenzeni ngexesha elimiselweyo.
Umzekelo? Kuya kufuneka u-odole kwimizuzu emibini onke amaxwebhu onawo etafileni uwenza njengoko ukhetha, ukuba nje uhambelana nexesha olinikiweyo. Uyi-oda njani? Zeziphi iindlela ozilandelayo? Uqala ngaphi
Imidlalo yoShishino
Qhubeka nokulinganisa iimeko kunye neemeko, ngeli xesha kukwinto yeshishini kunye neshishini, apho kwiqela okanye ngokobuqu kunye nezigqibo ezilandelelanayo kufuneka zenziwe, oko kukuthi, enye ikhokelela kwenye kude kube kufunyenwe iziphumo. Ngokwesiqhelo unenkxaso yezixhobo zekhompyuter kunye nezixhobo zonxibelelwano ezikhoyo kwindawo yeshishini ezinje ngeekhompyuter, iitafile, umnxeba, ifeksi, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Ngenye yeendlela eziguqukayo zabantu abatsha ezinenjongo yokuseka unxibelelwano lwezinto ezahlukeneyo eza kudlala xa imeko inzima kwaye "iyinyani", yenza inyathelo ngalinye olithathayo likhokelele kwelilandelayo kwaye ngenxa yoko, izigqibo ebezithathiwe kwasekuqaleni, zezona zibeka imeko kwimveliso yokugqibela yomthambo.
Umzekelo? Enye yezona zinto zisetyenziswa kakhulu kukuzinika uthotho lwemisebenzi ukuze ubone ukuba wenza ntoni kuqala. Olona hlobo lokuzonwabisa lusetyenziswayo kwaye lucetyiswayo kukucinga ukuba use-ofisini unazo zonke izixhobo zokusebenza kwaye kuya kufuneka ugcwalise uluhlu lwemisebenzi kwimizuzu engaphantsi kwemibini ebandakanya ukwenza iikopi ezintathu zedosi yentlanganiso eza kuqala. imizuzu, yenza umnxeba ongxamisekileyo, wenze iiprint oza kuzisebenzisa entlanganisweni kwaye uthumele ifeksi kumthengi oneeyure ezilindileyo. Ungazilungiselela njani? Yintoni eya kuqala kuwe? Umthambo onokukuvumela ukuba uxabise izinto malunga nobuntu bakho xa usenza izinto, ukuvumela abanye ukuba babone ubuhle bakho kwaye benze izindululo zokuba uzilungiselele ngokwakho oko ukujonga njengesiphene.
Imidlalo yeqela lokutshintsha
Yonke into ayinakubaluleka okanye ngenjongo yokufunda ukwenza imisebenzi usebenzisa iindlela ezithile ezithi, nangona zintsonkothile, kodwa zibe nomda ekudinisweni.
Kukwakho nemidlalo eyahlukeneyo yolonwabo efuna ukonwabisa nokwenza amaqela eentshukumo kubantu abancinci kwaye iqela likwimeko eyonwabisayo kwaye ngenxa yoko linceda ukuhlangana-ngendlela enganyanzelwanga- phakathi kwabo.
Ibhola ebuzayo
Kuyafana nomdlalo wokubonisa, kulo mdlalo ibhola kufuneka idluliselwe ukusuka kwisandla ukuya kwisandla kwangaxeshanye kuculwa ingoma, kude kube kukhethwe omnye kwiqela (ngamehlo agqunywe) ngulo uphakamisa isandla ukuze ayeke umthambo. Nabani na ofumene ibhola kufuneka achaze igama labo, ubudala, indawo abahlala kuyo kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo. Kwaye qhubeka kude kube uninzi luze ngaphambili; Ngaphandle kokuba ingumntu osele ezazisile kwakhona, iqela linelungelo lokumbuza umbuzo.
Khumbula amagama
Lo mdlalo ubandakanya ukwenza isangqa kunye nemibuzo kwaye inkokeli yeqela kufuneka iqale ngokubiza igama layo, ibize omnye umdlali. Umzekelo, "uMaría ubiza uPedro" kwaye uPedro kufuneka aphendule ngoko nangoko ngokubiza omnye umntu asebenza naye ngegama.
Nabani na ongaphenduliyo ngokukhawuleza okanye owenza impazamo, kufuneka ahlawule isohlwayo, esihlala sixelela isiqhulo, acule okanye enze isisa embindini weqela (kuphephe ukuhlekisa). Iinjongo zale ndlela yokuguqula amandla kukwenza ukuba bazane ngokukhumbula amagama, ubuso, izijekulo okanye indlela abasabela ngayo abanye kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Amazwi
Kwimiba yeqela labantu abancinci injongo yabo kukuboniswa kunye noopopayi, ke kufuneka kwenziwe ngokusebenzisa izixhobo ezinje ngamakhadi awayebhale iziqwenga zangaphambili. Kwenye intetho iqala kwaye kwelinye ikhadi iyaphela.
Izinto eziguqukayo ziya kubandakanya ukusasaza ikhadi eluntwini kwaye, ngelizwi abanalo, kufuneka bafumane amaqabane abo ukuze baligqibe. Emva kwexesha, xa bekunye kwaye babumba isibini, kufuneka bangenise intetho ethi bobabini banayo.
Oku kokwangaNangona eli nqaku linikezelwe kwiqela elinamandla kubantu abancinci, ngumsebenzi olungiselelwe abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Ngumdlalo onokuhlala phakathi kwemizuzu eli-10-15, kuxhomekeke kwinani lamalungu.
Onke amalungu eqela ahlala kwisangqa kwaye aqala ngolandelelwano kwaye nganye nganye, ebuza umntu ohleli ngasekunene kwabo ngokuvakalayo, uyazi ukuba yintoni hug? Umntu ohleli ngasekunene komntu obuza umbuzo kufuneka aphendule ukuba akazi. Emva koko bayangana, aze umntu ophendulileyo aye kumntu ongaphambili aze aphendule, "Andiqondanga, ungakunika enye?"
Emva kwexesha baphinde babambane, umntu obathandayo, ubuza umbuzo ofanayo kwiqabane labo lasekunene, besenza kwa lo msebenzi bebekade bewenza naye ngaphambili njalo njalo de onke amalungu eqela amkelwe. kwaye ndamkele.
Grill yombane
Kule nto kufuneka ubeke iqela ngaphakathi kwesangqa oza kusenza ngentambo kwaye kufuneka umisele umthetho, wokuba mabemke ngaphandle kokuchukumisa intambo, okanye intsimi engabonakaliyo ephakathi komhlaba nentambo.
Sisiphi esona sisombululo sisiso? Yiya ngaphaya kwayo kwaye ukuba awazi ukuba ungayenza njani, cinga kancinci, akukho nzima. Ngalo msebenzi, uya kuba nethuba lokubona nokuvavanya isakhono umntu ngamnye anaso ekusombululeni iingxaki, kunye nokusebenzisana kunye nomdla wokuthatha inxaxheba. Kwaye ukuba yimeko yokuba neengxaki, yenza iingcebiso kwaye ubancede, umkhondo olungileyo iya kuba yeyabantu abadala ukunceda ukuhambisa abancinci.
Umdlalo webhaluni
Ngokuqinisekileyo sele uyayazi into emalunga nayo, kule nto ungaqala ngokwenziwa kwamaqela amabini abantu ababini inye, kwaye isibini ngasinye kufuneka sihambe okanye sihambe ngokukhawuleza kangangoko sinakho, kunye nebhaluni phakathi kwazo ngaphandle kokuba iwele phantsi. tyaba.
Kwaye ukuba bayakwazi ukufikelela kwinjongo, yongeza ilungu elitsha kwesi sibini, kwaye ungeze enye ibhaluni njalo njalo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ibhaluni iya kuhlala iyinto ephakathi komntu ngamnye kwaye kufuneka isondele ngokwaneleyo ukuze kungabikho mabhaluni awe, okanye ukuze angaqhushumbisi.
uyazi! Khetha indlela ekufuneka beyenzile kwaye akukho lula kangako, okanye inde kangangokuba ingadinisi. Kwaye ungalibali ukuba iqela ngalinye kufuneka likhule nelungu elitsha ngalo lonke ixesha.
Le yinto eguqukayo ayonwabisi kuphela, ikwabonelela ngethuba lokufundisa izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kwaye zihlala zishiywa ngasemva, njengexabiso lokulinda ukumanyana kunye nokusebenza njengeqela ukufezekisa injongo.
Tsiba kwindawo engenamsebenzi!
Kukho inani lemidlalo elinceda ukukhuthaza ukuthembana phakathi kwabantu abenza iqela kwaye unxibelelwano luyisiseko. Omnye wemisebenzi edume kakhulu kukuwela ezandleni zeqabane elinomsebenzi wokukuxhasa ukuze ungawi phantsi.
Akufuneki unyanzele nabani na ukuba athathe inxaxheba, zama nje ukukhuthaza kunye nokunyanzelisa ngobuqhetseba de bazive bekulungele kwaye bevuma ukudlala ngokuzikhethela.
Nje ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwaye baphose umva kwaye amaqabane abo ayayixhasa. Uqala ukubuza ngayo yonke into abanamava kuyo, olo loyiko lokuwa, ukufumana into entsha, ukutsiba kwisithuba, bazenzakalise kunye namanye amathandabuzo angawavumeli ukuba aqhubeke.
Emva kwexesha, kuya kufuneka uthethe ngendlela abaziva ngayo xa baziva bekhuselekile ezandleni zabalingane babo, abangabazi ngokupheleleyo.
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kukuzilolonga okunceda kakhulu kunxibelelwano, ukuthembana kunye nezinye iinkqubo zokwenza abantu abancinci banxibelelane nabanye, njengeqela abalilo kwaye lenziwe.