Ukuba nokuzithemba kufanelekile ukuze ube nakho ukonwabela ubomi obunempumelelo kunye nokuba sempilweni ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo. Ukuzithemba kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwiimeko ezihleliyo, abantu abasingqongileyo kunye nokuba umntu ucinga ntoni ngaye. Ukuzithemba kukwazi ukuba abantu bazive bonwabile ngeziqu zabo, xa bonakele, abayi kuziva kamnandi kulusu lwabo.
Umntu ozithemba kakhulu uya kuba nakho ukujongana ngcono neemeko zobomi kunye neenkxwaleko. Kuyimfuneko ukuseka ukuzithemba ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuze ebudaleni ikwazi ukusebenza njengesiseko esizinzileyo kumava ahlala imihla ngemihla. Nangona ngelishwa, ayinguye wonke umntu onokuzithemba okuhle kwaye oku kungathatha ukubola.
Amandla okuzithemba afanelekileyo kuyo yonke iminyaka, nangona kubalulekile ukukhetha amandla afanelekileyo ngokobudala bomntu ekubhekiswa kuye. Nawuphi na umntwana, umntwana ofikisayo okanye umntu omkhulu oziva engakhuselekanga okanye engakholelwa kuye unokuxhamla kubo.
Dynamics yokuzithemba kwabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo
Umdlalo weenkwenkwezi
Kulomdlalo kuya kufuneka unike inkwenkwezi yamaphepha kumntwana ngamnye / kwishumi elivisayo oya kuthi apeyinte ngombala abawuthanda kakhulu, emva koko, baya kubhala igama labo kunye nezinto ezi-3 abathanda ukuzenza. Xa igqityiwe kuya kufuneka uyitshintshe inkwenkwezi kunye neqabane elikufutshane ukuba yenziwe eklasini, nabantakwenu okanye abazali ukuba yenziwe ekhaya.
Ngamnye uya kufunda ngokuvakalayo inkwenkwezi abayifumeneyo kwaye ayiyiyo eyabo kodwa abayi kuba nakho ukulibiza igama. Abanye kuya kufuneka baqashele. Ngumsebenzi obanceda abantwana bacamngce kwiminqweno yabo kwaye bafunde ngokuvakalayo oko abanye abantu bathanda ukukwenza kubanceda bazive behlangene ngakumbi kwiqela labo, bezazi umdla wabanye. Ukongeza, xa besithi le nkwenkwezi ifundwayo yeyakhe, bayaziswa nabo, kubalulekile ukuphucula ukuzithemba.
Umdlalo weemvulophu
Kulo mdlalo umntwana ngamnye okanye umntwana ofikisayo uya kuba nephepha kunye nemvulophu phambi kwakhe. Kuya kufuneka babhale ephepheni iziphene ezintathu abazaziyo kubo okanye izinto abangazithandiyo abanokufuna ukuzitshintsha ngeziqu zabo. Emva koko ubeka elo phepha kwimvulophu aze alivale. Imvulophu kuya kufuneka ibeke igama kwaye idluliselwe kwiqabane xa kunokwenzeka ukuba yenziwe eklasini okanye kumzalwana okanye kubazali kwimeko yokwenza ekhaya.
Umntu ofumana imvulophu kuya kufuneka abhale iimpawu ezintathu okanye iimpawu ezintle abazaziyo kumntu ongumnikazi wemvulophu kwaye uya kuyibhala ngaphandle. Emva koko le mvulophu iya kudluliselwa komnye umntu ukuba enze okufanayo. Umdlalo uphela xa imvulophu ifikelela kwizandla zomnini (umdlalo ungadlalwa kwisangqa, umzekelo).
Injongo yomdlalo kukuba umntu aziqonde kwiziphene zakhe, kodwa unezidima ezininzi ezinokuthi zingaziwa kwaye ingumbono olungileyo kuye ukuba aqonde oko abanye bakucingayo. Umthathi-nxaxheba uya kufumanisa konke okuhle okucingelwa ngabanye ngaye.
Gqamisa izinto ezintle kunye nezinto ezimbi
Njengoko kusaziwa, akukho kugqithisa kulungile, nakweyiphi na imeko yobomi. Bonke abantwana, umzekelo, baneziphene kunye nokuziphatha okuhle, njengabantu abadala. Ziimpawu zobuntu abanye abanokuzithanda ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi. Ukuba abantwana benza izinto ezilungileyo, kuyimfuneko ukubachazela kubo ukuze bazi ukuba siyazi ukuba benze into elungileyo, kubalulekile ukuba bafumane ukuqondwa ngaloo nto.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba benze iimpazamo, musa ukubangxolisa okanye ubaxelele ukuba bayazenza izinto ezingalunganga kwaphela ... kufuneka ubenze babone impazamo abayenzileyo kwaye ubaxelele ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuze sukuvalwa ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye ungaphucula kwixesha elizayo ngenxa yokufunda.
Abantwana kunye nolutsha kufuneka bazi ukuba banokuba nethuba lesibini okanye lesithathu xa kukho imfuneko okanye kubaluleke kakhulu. Xa baneziphumo ezichanekileyo, Kuya kufuneka umenze abone ukuba wakwazi njani ukoyisa ubunzima ngenxa yokunyamezela.
Amandla okuzithemba kwabantu abadala
Ubuso kwixesha elidlulileyo
Ukubhala ileta kuhlala kunxibelelana nesiqu sakho, ukuba singobani kanye kanye. Isivumela ukuba sikhumbule into esiyenzileyo ukufikelela kule ndawo sikuyo, sihlala sigxininisa kokulungileyo kwizenzo nakwizigqibo zethu. Nangona indlela yobomi ingahlali imnandi, kufuneka sifunde kwiimpazamo kwaye siqonde ubuhle esinabo kwaye busincedile ukuba sibe yile nto siyiyo namhlanje. Ngale ndlela, lo msebenzi usinceda ukuba sizibhalele, sizixelele kwangaphambili izinto eziza kusenza sidibane ngokunzulu nathi.
Fumanisa ubuhle bakho
Asinguye wonke umntu owaziyo ngobuhle anabo, ke kuyimfuneko ukuyazi le nto. Ukwazi oku kuya kufuneka ubhale uluhlu lwezakhono kunye nokulunga kwakho, kwenze njengenkcazo yakho kwaye ukwenze ngokungathi uchaza omnye umntu. Ukugxila kwizinto olunge kuzo nakwizinto onqwenela ukuzenza kakuhle okanye onokuba kuzo.
Lo mkhuba ubonakala ulula kodwa unamandla amakhulu kuwe kuba uya kukunceda uqinise ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nenkuthazo. Xa ubhala ezi zinto unokuzibuza ukuba ufuna ukuphucula ntoni kwixesha elizayo ukuze ube nguhlobo lwakho olungcono.
Ukuzithemba ngaphezulu kwako konke malunga nokuzazi wena, kokubini amandla kunye nobuthathaka kunye nokuzithemba ngokwaneleyo ukoyisa imiqobo evela ebomini. Ngale ndlela, abantu, nabuphi na ubudala, baya kubona ukuzithemba kwabo komelezwa kwaye ubomi babo buya kuphucuka kuzo zonke iinkalo. Le yimithambo nje embalwa yokuzomeleza ngaphakathi kunye nokuzilungiselela ngcono imiqobo enokubakho ebomini.
