Siphila kuluntu olutyebileyo ngesigama kunye namaqhalo! Iintetho zezo mabinzana okanye izivakalisi ezidlula kwisizukulwana ukuya kwesinye kwaye, ngaphezu koko, zinentsingiselo esinceda siqonde ubomi ngcono kancinane.
Ngapha koko, sinokuthi amaqhalo luhlobo lwentetho edumileyo eyenza inkcubeko yethu ityebe nangakumbi. Bubulumko obudluliselwa phakathi kwabantu. Iintetho zidluliswa ukusuka kutata ukuya kunyana… esetyenziselwa ukucinga ngezinye izinto ebomini kwaye ufunde ukwenza ngokuchanekileyo.
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Ungaphoswa yiyo yonke imizekeliso esiyilungiselele ukuba uyazi:
- Njengoyise NjengoNyana. Eli binzana libhekisela kwisibakala sokuba utata nonyana wakhe okanye umama nentombi yakhe banezinto ezininzi ezifanayo, ngokuqhelekileyo ngokobuntu okanye ngendlela abayiyo.
- Kumazwi obudenge, iindlebe ezingevayo. Kuthetha ukuba izinto abazithetha kuwe ngaphandle kwesizathu okanye krwada, kubhetele ungabamameli.
- Xa ungamboni akekho sengqondweni. Eli binzana lithetha ukuba xa kukho into ongayiboniyo, awusokoli ngenxa yayo.
- Ilifu ngalinye linomgca oshayinayo emacaleni. Eli binzana lidla ngokusetyenziswa xa kusenzeka amava antsonkothileyo, ukubonisa icala elihle lezinto. Sizama ukuba nengcamango enethemba lawona mava anzima. Oko kukuthi, kuyo yonke into embi, unokufunda.
- Akukho mfama imbi ngakumbi kunaleyo ingafuniyo ukubona. Kwanokuba sinenyaniso ecacileyo phambi kwamehlo ethu, ukuba imbono yethu iphazanyiswa yintliziyo asiyi kukwazi ukubona isizathu esisibonisayo. Isenokuba kungenxa yokuba kunzima ukuyibona, ibuhlungu okanye kuba nje singafuni ukuyibona loo nto.
- Ngubani olala kakhulu, ufunda kancinci. Eli binzana lisetyenziselwa abo bantwana balala emva kwexesha, kwaye libhekisela kwinto yokuba ukuba uchitha ubomi bakho ulele, ulahlekelwa lixesha lokuqhubeka ufunda. Nangona inyaniso ikukuba umzimba kufuneka uphumle kwaye ulale iiyure eziyimfuneko ukuze kuqhutywe isifundo esihle, ngoko okubalulekileyo kukukwazi ukulala oko kufunwa ngumzimba.
- Ekhaya, umkhandi wentsimbi, imela yeplanga. Eli binzana lithetha ukuba abantu abasebenza kurhwebo okanye umsebenzi othile, kubomi babo babucala, abayisebenzisi imigaqo okanye iingcebiso abadla ngokuzinikela kwabanye abantu. Umzekelo, umntu ococayo ikhaya lakhe limdaka okanye limdaka, umakhi ongawugqibiyo umsebenzi wendlu yakhe, njl.
- Ongawufuniyo umhluzi unikwa iindebe ezimbini. Lilizwi elithetha ngezinto abantu abazama ukuziphepha kodwa ekugqibeleni, nangona bezama ukuziphepha, iphele yenzeka ngaphezu kokuba bebecinga.
- Ngubani ongabalekiyo ... kungenxa yokuba ibhabha. Le ntetho isoloko isetyenziselwa ukwandisa umdlandla xa kukho uhlobo oluthile lwamathuba okusingqongileyo kwaye singafuni ukuba aphuncuke. Ngoko ke, siyaqonda ukuba ukuba asinguye kuqala, omnye umntu uya kungena endaweni yethu aze ke athabathe elo thuba beliya kuba lelethu.
- Kwimozulu embi, ubuso obuhle. Oku kuthetha ukuba xa kufika amaxesha anzima, sinokujamelana nawo sinesimo sengqondo esihle. Kuba ayizizo izinto ezenzeka kuthi, kodwa kufuneka sizazi izinto esizenzayo ngezinto ezenzeka kuthi. Sisimo sethu sengqondo esinokuphucula okanye senze iimeko zibe mbi ngakumbi.
- Ngubani ohleka okokugqibela, ohleka kakhulu. Le ntetho ibhekisela kwisibakala sokuba iya kuba lixesha elibonisa ukuba ngubani owayenyanisile kumbandela othile, ebhenca umntu ongalunganga kodwa ezimisele ukuba ulungile.
- Nabani na othatha indawo eninzi, kancinci uyaqina. Eli binzana lithetha ukuba abantu abazama ukwenza kunye nokwenza izinto ezininzi ngaxeshanye abayi kugqiba ukwenza nantoni na kakuhle ... nokuba bazama ukubonisa ngenye indlela.
- Imilebe exengaxengayo izikisa iinqanawa. Xa kubhekiselwa kulo eli binzana, lithetha ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi kungcono ukuthi cwaka ungathethi ezinye iingcamango ukuze uphephe iingxabano ezingeyomfuneko.
- Akukho bubi buhlala iminyaka elikhulu, akukho mzimba uxhathisayo. Oku kuthetha ukuba nokuba kufuneka siphile ebugxwayibeni, amaxesha amabi ahlala esenzeka nokuba kunzima kuthi ukuwela indlela. Ixesha kunye nokulinda kuya kusibonisa ukuba siyakwazi ukuxhathisa ... kwaye ukuba azidluli, umzimba awuyi kuxhathisa ngenxa yokuba kuya kufika ixesha apho singasekho kulo mhlaba kwaye asiyi kuqhubeka sibandezeleka. .
- Umphulaphuli olungileyo, amagama ambalwa anele. Eli binzana lithetha ukuba umntu okwaziyo ukuphulaphula ngokuchanekileyo ngamazwi ambalwa asetyenziswa ngomnye umntu xa evakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe uya kuba ngaphezu kokwanela. Ukuba umntu uzichaza ngokucacileyo, lowo umamkeliyo uya kumqonda ngokulula. Akuyomfuneko ukujikeleza amaxesha amaninzi ukuhambisa umyalezo.
- Phakamisa amahlungulu kwaye aya kukukhupha amehlo akho. Ibhekisela kwimfundo enikelwa ngabazali kubantwana babo. Ukuba abanye abazali badlulisela ebantwaneni babo imfundo engafanelekanga okanye umyalelo, ngoko xa abantwana babo bekhulile baya kuphinda ezo zenzo zobubi kwabo bafunde kubo.
- Fumana udumo kwaye ulale. Kubhekiselwa kula mazwi athi naxa umntu ezichaza njengomntu olungileyo okanye ombi, uya kukhunjulwa ngaloo nto. Isimo sengqondo onaso ngobomi siya kuba yinto ehlala ibhaliwe kwinkumbulo yabantu.
- Kungcono ukhuseleke kunokuba uxolo. Kubalulekile ukuba silumke kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okhuseleko ebomini ukuphepha iingxaki okanye ububi obukhulu kwixesha elizayo.
Kungcono ukuthintela kunokunyanga. Intetho efana naleyo yangaphambili enentsingiselo efanayo. - Phosa ilitye ufihle isandla. Abantu abangasoloko beqaphela ukuba benza okubi banokuba nezenzo ezilusizi baze bakugqume oko ukuze abanye abantu bangaziqondi izenzo zabo ezilusizi.
- Isela likholelwa ukuba wonke umntu ukwimeko efanayo. Abantu abenza izinto ezimbi bakholelwa ukuba nabanye baya kwenza ngendlela efanayo. Kwaneziphene abazibonayo nabazibonakalisa kwabanye ziziphene ezibachazayo kodwa bazifihle.
- ebubini babaninzi, intuthuzelo yabo bonke; Eli binzana lithetha ukuba xa kukho ingxaki abantu abaninzi ababandezeleka ngayo, ngokwabelana nabo ngembandezelo, baye bavana ngcono. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, iqhalo latshintshwa kwaye kwathiwa "kubi kakhulu, intuthuzelo yezidenge" njengesalathiso sokuba umntu akufanele athuthuzeleke kububi babanye, kodwa inyaniso yokuba lo mzekeliso oguquliweyo awubhekiseli kwinyani.
Usenokuba sele uyazi ezinye zale mizekeliso okanye ezinye zisenokuba zintsha kuwe, kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, zonke zibonelela ngobutyebi obukhulu benkcubeko!