Ungangumntu olungileyo kodwa ndiyakubheja uthanda ukuzonwabisa, akunjalo? Ukwenza oku ngendlela eyahlukileyo neyonwabisayo, namhlanje sidwelisa amanye amaqhinga angenakusilela anokukunceda ulawule ingqondo yakho kubahlobo bakho kwaye ubaphembelele ukuba bathethe into oyifunayo.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba ungayisebenzisa njani le nto? Kulula!
Jonga olu luhlu lungezantsi kwaye utyhile ezona mfihlo ziluncedo ekulawuleni ubuchopho babantu abakungqongileyo:
1) Buza abantu: «Yimalini 1 + 1? 2 + 2? 4 + 4? 8 + 8? ». Emva koko babuze igama lemifuno. Kuvakala ngathi ligeza, kodwa uninzi lwabo luya kuphendula: iminqathe.
2) Xa uxabana nomntu, soloko uzama ukuba noxolo kunomnye umntu. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba omnye umntu athethe into engekho ngqiqweni kwaye uyiphumelele ingxoxo… uzakumenza axolise.
3) Hambisa intloko yakho phezulu nasezantsi xa ubuza umbuzo. Oku kukhuthaza umphulaphuli wakho ukuba avumelane nawe.
4) Xa ingoma ingaphumi entlokweni yakho, cinga ngesiphelo sengoma ukuze uyilahle. Olu hlobo lwento luhlala lusenzeka ngenxa yempembelelo eyenzeka kwingqondo yethu ebizwa UZeigarnik, emfutshane - impendulo yengqondo yethu kwizinto ezingagqitywanga.
5) Xa ufuna ukunyanzela umntu ukuba enze into, mnike umbono wobuxoki wokuba angakhetha ukuba uyafuna okanye cha uyafuna ukwenza lo msebenzi. Umzekelo, ukwenza ukuba umntwana asele ubisi, mbuze ukuba ukhetha ukuba lunikwe kwiglasi enkulu okanye encinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umbuza nje ukuba ufuna ukusela ubisi, impendulo iya kuba nguhayi.
6) Ukuthula kunokuba yinto elungileyo xa uxoxisana nomntu. Kungenxa yokuba ukuthula kuhlala kwenza abantu bangonwabi kwaye bahlala bekwenza oko kuthatha ukuphula.
7) Kulungile ukuba usebenzise nabahlobo bakho: Cela umntu ukuba akujonge emehlweni kwaye umxelele ukuba ngekhe, nangayiphi na indlela, ajonge ecaleni. Emva koko ke mcele ukuba akhumbule ukuba utye ntoni kwezi ntsuku zintathu zidlulileyo. Inokwenzeka ukuba awuyikhumbuli njengoko kunzima kakhulu kuthi ukuba sikhumbule into ngaphandle kokuhambisa amehlo.
8) Ukuhlebela into endlebeni yomntu ngokuqinisekileyo kuqinisekisa ukuba umntu uya kuhlala ehleba.
9) Ngaba ufuna ukwenza umntu akholelwe ibali elixokayo? Phinda ibali kathathu kubantu abafanayo, ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, usoloko usongeza iinkcukacha ezintsha ... kodwa khumbula ezi Izinto ezi-5 ekufuneka uzazi ngokuxoka.
10) Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba wenzeni ukwenza umntu oxelela into ukuba adideke? Yitsho amanani ngendlela ethile, endaweni yokuthetha ngamanani angahleliwe. Ingqondo yomntu iya kuwela kwipateni oyithethayo ngokuvakalayo kwaye baya kuphulukana nokubala kwabo kokuqala. Kuthetha ukuthini, hu?
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11) Ukuba uphethe into enzima okanye awufuni kuyiphatha, kufuneka uthethe nalo mntu usecaleni kwakho ngelixa uhambisa ibhegi kuye. Uya kuyibamba ngokwemvelo.
Ukuba ulithandile eli nqaku, cinga ngokwabelana ngalo nabantu abasondeleyo kuwe. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngenkxaso yakho.[imephu]