Xa abantwana befunda, kubonakala ngathi umlingo wenzeka ezingqondweni zabo ... ngequbuliso bayayiqonda into abayifundayo kwaye bayigcine ngaphakathi kolo lwazi. Abantwana nolutsha bafunda ngokujonga, ukumamela, ukujonga, ukuvavanya, nokubuza imibuzo. Yiba nomdla, ukhuthaze kwaye uzibandakanye ekufundeni kubalulekile kubantwana bakuba nje beqalile ukufunda.
Inokunceda kwakhona ukuba bayasiqonda isizathu sokuba bafunde okuthile. Njengokuba umntwana wakho ekhula, uyakonwabela ukuthatha uxanduva ngakumbi ekufundeni nasekuthatheni inxaxheba ekwenzeni izigqibo malunga nokufunda nokulungiselela imisebenzi.
Indima yabazali kwimfundo yabantwana
Nokuba ucinga ukuba awazi kangako ngokufunda nokufundisa, umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka nokufunda kuwe kule minyaka idlulileyo. Xa umntwana wakho esiya kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi emva koko esiya kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ungamnceda ukuba abe nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ngokufunda, ngokuba nethemba ngokwakho. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuxhasa ukufunda nemfundo yomntwana wakho kukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nesikolo kunye nokunxibelelana rhoqo nootitshala.
Abantwana bahamba ngokwamanqanaba ahlukeneyo okufunda
Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, banokuhamba ngokwamanqanaba ahlukeneyo okufunda, oku kulandelayo kufanelekile ukuba kuqatshelwe:
- Usana lufunda ngehlabathi ngeemvakalelo.
- Ukusukela kwiminyaka emibini ukuya kwesixhenxe ubudala, umntwana uqala ukukhula ukukwazi ukuqiqa nokucinga, kodwa usazingca.
- Emva kweminyaka esixhenxe, umntwana ngokubanzi uye azicingele kwaye angajongwa ngaphandle. Ngeminyaka eli-12, uninzi lwabantwana banokuqiqa kwaye bavavanye izimvo zabo malunga nehlabathi.
Oku kuthetha ukuba ngabantwana abancinci kufuneka senze ubuqu kwaye sinike imizekelo enxulumene nabo, ngelixa abantwana abadala bedinga uncedo ukuze baqonde umhlaba obangqongileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantwana kufuneka babe kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo lokufunda. UmzekeloAbantwana abancinci bakulungele ukufunda ngamanani, imibala, kunye neemilo, kodwa abakakulungeli ukuthobela imithetho yegrama.
Ukufunda kumabanga aphantsi
Abantwana bafunda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo
Abanye bafunda ngokubukela, abanye ngokumamela, abanye ngokufunda, abanye ngokwenza. Kwaye kweli nqanaba, abantwana bafunda ngokudlala. Ukuphulukana nokudlala simahla okungacwangciswanga kunceda ukulinganisela izifundo ezisesikweni esikolweni. Ikwanika abantwana ithuba lokuphumla emva kweendlela kunye nemigaqo yeklasi.
Abantwana bafunda ngokusebenzisa izinto ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Xa umntwana wakho ezama, ephonononga, kwaye esenza ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo, ufunda ngokusombulula iingxaki kwiimeko apho kungekho mpendulo zibekiweyo okanye zilungile.
Abantwana abazalwanga benobuchule bokuhlala
Bamele ukuba bafunde, njengokuba kufuneka bafunde ukufunda nokubhala. Ukunika umntwana wakho ithuba lokudlala nabanye abantwana yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphucula izakhono azidingayo ukuze aqhubeke nabanye.
Unxibelelwano loluntu lomntwana wakho lunokunikezela ngamava axabisekileyo okufunda. Umzekelo, ukutyelela iivenkile zasekuhlaleni, iipaki, amabala okudlala, kunye neelayibrari, okanye ukuhamba ujikeleze ubumelwane kunceda umntwana wakho aqonde ukuba uluntu lusebenza njani.
Ukuba usapho lwakho luthetha olunye ulwimi ngaphandle kolwimi lweenkobe ekhaya, oku kunokuba yindlela elungileyo yokuba umntwana wakho akhule njengomfundi olwimi-mbini. Ukufunda iilwimi ezimbini okanye nangaphezulu akuyongozi okanye kulibazise ekukhuleni kwabantwana. Ngapha koko, ukuba ngumntwana olwimi-mbini kunokuba nezinto ezininzi eziluncedo, umzekelo, ubuchule bokufunda nokubhala obungcono.
Xa uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho ufunda njani ngcono, ungamnceda ngazo zonke iinkalo zokufunda. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala efunda ngcono ngokubona nokwenza, kodwa kufuneka abhale ibali lesikolo, Ndingenza umtya wokuhlekisa ukukunceda uququzelele izimvo zakho.
Iingcebiso ngokufunda kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo zokunceda umntwana wakho wesikolo sabaqalayo ukuba afunde:
- Bonisa umdla kwinto eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho kunye nokufunda ngokuthetha ngesikolo.
- Dlala imidlalo enemvano-zandi, imidlalo yoonobumba, nemilo kunye nenombolo yemidlalo nomntwana wakho, kunye nokuziqhelanisa nokutshintshana kwimidlalo nakwizinto ezenziwayo.
- Sebenzisa ulwimi olulula kwaye udlale ngamagama kunye neentsingiselo zamagama, umzekelo, ungabetha izandla ngamalungu amagama okanye udlale imidlalo yokudibanisa amagama.
- Qhubeka ufundela umntwana wakho naxa efunda yedwa.
- Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba eve kwaye abone amagama amaninzi amatsha ezincwadini, kumabonwakude, okanye kwincoko ngokubanzi, kwaye uthethe ngentsingiselo yamagama.
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unexesha lokudlala engacwangciswanga.
- Nceda umntwana wakho abone ukuba yintoni elungileyo ngokumkhuthaza ukuba azame imisebenzi emininzi eyahlukeneyo.
Ukufunda kumabanga aphantsi nasesekondari
Umntwana wakho uya kuzimela ngakumbi njengoko ekhula. Kungabonakala ngathi ufuna ukuba ube nolwazi oluncinci malunga nokufunda kwakhe, kodwa usadinga ukuthatha inxaxheba kunye nenkuthazo, ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Nangona umntwana wakho ekwabelana nawe ngolwazi oluncinci, unokumazisa ukuba unomdla kwinto ayifundayo ngokumamela xa efuna ukuthetha. Oku kuthumela umyalezo wokuba ukufunda kwabo kubalulekile kuwe kwaye uyafumaneka ukubanceda.
Iingcebiso ngokuFunda kwiSikolo esiPhakamileyo nakwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo zokunceda umntwana wakho omdala ukuba afunde:
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba azame izinto ezintsha, enze iimpazamo, kwaye afunde ukuba ungubani na ngamava amatsha.
- Bonisa umdla kwimisebenzi yomntwana wakho.
- Bukela iindaba kunye kwaye nithethe ngento eqhubekayo emhlabeni.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho unomsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, mkhuthaze ukuba awenze ngexesha elifanayo yonke imihla nakwindawo ethile, kude neziphazamiso ezifana nomabonwakude okanye iselfowuni.
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unexesha lokuphumla nokudlala.
- Nceda umntwana wakho abe nokulala kakuhle.
- Xa esokola kwezinye iindawo, yiba novelwano kuyo kwaye usebenzise uvelwano.
- Mthembe uucucuyo womntwana wakho, umamkele ngenxa yento ayiyo.
- Phendula kwiimvakalelo zabo kwaye ukhumbule amava akho okufunda ukuze uqonde umntwana wakho.