Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeentwala

Iphupha malunga neentwala Inokuba nenani elikhulu leentsingiselo, kodwa ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulihlalutye iphupha elo kwaye ufumanise ukuba iinkcukacha nganye ziya kuba sisitshixo sokwenza utoliko oluchanekileyo. Oko kukuthi, asizukujonga iphupha ngokwendlela ngokubanzi, kodwa siya kuzama nzulu kwaye sivavanye izinto ezinokuthi zihambelane nentsingiselo kwaye nge-subconscious yethu izama ukuhambisa kuthi.

Ukuphupha iintwala ngokwembono ngokubanzi

Njengoko besitshilo, kukho umbono wehlabathi malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neentwala, kodwa kuhlala kubalulekile ukuba siqhubeke, kuba kukho izinto ezininzi eza kusinceda siqonde ngcono intsingiselo yephupha elithile.

Iintwala zidla ngokuba ebonisa ukuba kukho abantu abanetyhefu abasingqongileyo oko kunokuba yingozi kuthi okanye kwikamva lethu, kunye nakwabo bangabahlobo bethu bokwenene. Ngokubanzi ngabantu abanomdla ababone into kuthi kwaye bazimisele ukusicinezela kwaye bafumane isibonelelo nokuba kuya kufuneka basenzakalise ngokuthe ngqo.

Kwelinye icala, ukuphupha malunga neentwala kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nomona, inzondo, inzondo, ukuziphindezela kunye nangalo lonke uhlobo ukucinga kakubi, nokuba kuthiwe sivela kubantu besithathu okanye kubantu besithathu kuthi, ke kubalulekile ukuba sikuxabise ukulala kwaye sihlalutye esinokukwenza ukuphucula imeko yethu.

Oku kunokuba yintsingiselo ngokubanzi, kodwa siza kuchaza ezinye ze amaxesha amaninzi amaphupha eentwala.

Iphupha apho ndibulala iintwala

Si Ndiphupha ndibulala iintwala sinokufumana nokutolika okwahlukileyo. Kwimeko apho sibulala iintwala ezisemizimbeni yethu, nokuba kuyintloko yethu okanye naliphi na elinye ilungu, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho iingxaki kwindalo esingqongileyo esizaziyo kwaye sizimisele okanye senza konke okusemandleni ukuzisombulula.

Njengoko besitshilo ekuqaleni, ezi ngxaki kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba zisekwe abantu abasenzakalisayo, kwaye isisombululo kukuzibekela ecaleni kwaye uphelise into ebangela ingxaki.

Ukuba into esiyaziyo ngokuchaseneyo kukuba sinjalo ukubulala iintwala zomnye umntu Lowo simaziyo, kwimeko leyo intsingiselo iyafana, kodwa endaweni yokuba sibe sithi abazimilise kule ngxaki, ngumntu osondele kakhulu kuthi, onjengomhlobo olungileyo okanye umntu omthandayo.

Ngale ndlela, into esweleyo ukuyazi kuthi yile yokuba lo mhlobo unathi kukunceda usombulule nakuphi na ukuphazamiseka okunokuvela, kodwa kunjalo kubalulekile ukuba sibe nobuchule, kuba amaxesha amaninzi kukho abantu abanetyhefu ekusenokwenzeka ukuba sibabonile kodwa abahlobo bethu banokungavumi ukuyibona loo tyhefu okanye abakwazanga ukuluqonda uhlobo lwabantu ekuthethwa ngabo.

Ukuba ngaba sinalo eli phupha kodwa asikwazi ukumchonga umntu, kunokuthetha ukuba kukho umntu omtsha oza kungena ebomini bethu onokuba nobungozi kakhulu, ke kufuneka silumke kakhulu.

Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngokubulala iintwala kuthetha ukuba, nokuba singabo okanye singabahlobo ababalulekileyo, sizifumana sikwimeko ekufuneka siyisombulule, kwaye ngenxa yoku kuya kufuneka senze konke okusemandleni ukuze lahla umntu oyena mntu unegalelo kobo butyhefu.

Ngenxa yeso sizathu kufuneka silumke kwaye sikulumkele ukunqanda ukungaqondani okanye iingxoxo kwiqela.

Ukuphupha iintwala entloko

Ukusuka kumbono oqhelekileyo, kumaphupha apho Iintwala zifumaneka entloko, ngokubanzi kuthetha ukuba kukho into esichaphazelayo kodwa kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuyicombulula.

Kuyenzeka ukuba, umzekelo, umntu afune ukusenzakalisa kodwa angakwazi ukuyenza, nangona ekwiindawo esingqongileyo, nokuba sifuna kangakanani, usenobukho obuthile, kwaye nangona engenako ukonakalisa umfanekiso wethu okanye Umntu wethu, siyacaphukisa ukuba naye.

Ukuphupha ukuba sileqa iintwala

Enye into enokwenzeka kukuba siphupha oko sileqa iintwala, ezinokuvela kwiincinanana ukuya kwezincinci.

Ngokubanzi kule meko kuyenzeka ukuba sibe nengxaki ethile, ihlala isebenza okanye inxulumene nezifundo, esingasombululiyo, kwaye ukuba asenzi nto kusenokwenzeka ukuba siza kuba neengxaki ezinkulu kwakamsinya.

Ubungakanani obukhulu beentwala, kokukhona kuya kubakho ubunzima ekusombululeni imeko, ke ngandlela thile, eli phupha liyindlela apho i-subconscious yethu izama ukuhambisa kuthi sikwimeko yoxinzelelo esekwe kwingxaki esingenakufumana sisombululo kuyo.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukho umntu emsebenzini wethu ozama ukwenza ukuba ubomi bube nzima kuthi, kwaye kungenxa yaloo mntu sinokuthi siphele sijongeka kakubi umzekelo phambi kwabaphathi bethu okanye abaphathi, nto leyo ngokucacileyo kulungile, kodwa sinenkxalabo yokuba kunjalo ichaphazela ikamva lethu lobungcali.

Ukuphupha indlu ingenwe ziintwala

Okokugqibela sinethuba loku siphupha indlu yethu igcwele iintwalaKwimeko apho singatolika ukuba ingxaki esiyibona ikwikhaya lethu, ukuze kuthi kanti umntu uhlala nathi okanye nokuba iqabane lethu okanye omnye wabantwana bethu okanye izihlobo ezithe ngqo zikwinqanaba elibi kwaye sibanga ukwenza inzuzo ngeendleko zethu.

Isenokuthetha ukuba iingxaki zivela ngaphandle, oko kukuthi, kukho inani lamahemuhemu anokuchaphazela uzinzo kwikhaya lethu. Ngokusisiseko, eli phupha lisixelela ukuba kukho ezinye umngcipheko osongela eyona ndawo yosapho ngqo.

La ngawona maphupha aphambili esinokuthi siwadibanise neentwala kunye notoliko lwazo oluphambili, kodwa siyaphinda-phinda ukuba kuyathakazelisa ukuba singene ukuxabisa inkcukacha nganye kangangoko, kuba kusenokubakho utshintsho olukhulu kuxhomekeke kuzo.