Mhlawumbi ungumntu oneentloni okanye unokuphila ngendlela eyenza ukuba udibane nabantu abambalwa kwiintsuku zakho. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, kunokwenzeka ukuba uye wacinga ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye nesibini ukuba ufuna ukudibana nabantu kodwa ungazi ukuba ungayenza njani. Awuwedwa kule nto, baninzi abantu abakwimeko efanayo.
Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubukwitheko, ukuba kukho umntu ohleli ekoneni engathethi namntu, uyafana kodwa kwelinye ikona. Akukho namnye kubo onobuganga bokuthatha inyathelo lokuqalisa incoko kwaye ngamnye uya ekhaya elusizi ukuba ebenokuhlwa okuphoxayo. Kodwa ngoku, Khawufane ucinge xa usondela kuloo mntu kwaye uqalise incoko, yonke into iyatshintsha!
Ukudibana nabantu: amaqhosha okwenza kube lula
Okulandelayo siza kuthetha nawe malunga nezinye izinto onokuzenza ukudibana nabantu kwaye zenze kube lula kuwe. Ngale misebenzi uyakuqonda ukuba ukudibana nabantu kulula kunokuba ucinga kwaye ukusukela ngoku, uya kuba nabantu abaninzi ebomini bakho!
I intanethi
Kule mihla, ngokuhamba-hamba ekuhlaleni, ukudibana nabantu kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ngesi sizathu, iinethiwekhi zentlalo zinokuba sisiseko sakho sokuqala incoko nabanye abantu. Kulula ukuba neentloni kuba ngasemva kwescreen, kodwa hayi kuba kulula kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo.
Kuya kufuneka ugxeke abantu ofuna ukuba nencoko nabo, ingabi nguye wonke umntu. Ayisiyombono intle ukwamkela zonke izicelo zabahlobo eziza kwinethiwekhi yakho, kwaye akulunganga ukuba ungeze abantu ngaphandle kwemigaqo.
Ngokufanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka ujonge amaqela kwinethiwekhi yoluntu okanye ujonge iiprofayili zabantu abaneengcinga okanye abanomdla ofana nowakho. Ngale ndlela uya kuba nento oza kuqala ngayo incoko enomdla nomnye umntu. Enye into enokubaluleka yindawo akuyo loo mntu. Ke ukuba ubudlelwane abukho nje kuphela, eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba ujonge abantu abasondele kuwe, ke xa ukuvalelwa kunye nokudlula ekuhlaleni kudlula, ungadibana naloo mhlobo mtsha kwaye udibane naye ngobuqu.
Ukuba livolontiya
Xa uvolontiya ukunceda abanye abantu ungadibana nabantu abaninzi abanceda abanye ukuze wenze into entle eluntwini. Lo msebenzi alithandabuzeki inyathelo elifanelekileyo ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokwenza. Maninzi amathuba onokuwenza ukuvolontiya kumaqela amakhulu abantu ababa sisizwe.
Awunyanzelekanga nokuba ube livolontiya ukunceda abanye abantu, ungavolontiya ukunceda izilwanyana ukuba ukhetha njalo. Khetha umsebenzi onokuziva ungcono ngokuzithandela kuwo kwaye wenze nje.
Ukuba unexesha namandla, jonga kwindawo okuyo malunga nendlela onokuqala ngayo ngokuzithandela kunye nokunceda abanye. Ngale ndlela, phantse ungazi, uya kuqala ukudibana nabantu abaninzi kwaye ube nethuba lokwenza abahlobo abaninzi.
Thetha nabamelwane bakho ukudibana nabantu
Ngamanye amaxesha sinokubanabo bantu abaza kuba ngabahlobo bethu kwixa elizayo. kwaye singaqondi nokuba basondele kuthi. Ukuba uhlala kwindawo yabamelwane, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubuhlobo bakho busondele ngakumbi kunokuba kude. Ngaba sele uqhagamshelene nabamelwane bakho mva nje?
Ukuba ubona ummelwane wakho esenza into eluntwini, fikelela kuncedo lwakho. Yenza i-snack encinci kwaye unike abamelwane ocinga ukuba unokuvana nabo. Unokwenza iicokies kwaye ubadlulisele abo bamelwane ocinga ukuba bafuna ulwalamano olongezelelekileyo nabo.
Ngokwenza la manyathelo alula kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba ungadibana nabantu abahle kwaye eyona nto intle kukuba babesondele kuwe kunokuba ungacinga. Ke, Cinga kuqala ukuba ngabaphi na kubamelwane bakho onokuthi ubamkele ukuze ubazise ebomini bakho.
Ukuhamba ngenja
Ukuba nenja lithuba elihle lokudibana nabantu abanenja yezilwanyana kwaye baphume uhambo. Ukubuza imibuzo malunga nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya kungena kancinci kwaye kukuvumela ukuba uqalise incoko ngokulula.
Ukuthatha inja uhambe kunika abantu abatsha isizathu sokuma bathethe nawe. Ezinye izinja ziya kuba nomdla ngokwendalo kwaye ziya kutsala abanini bazo ukuba bababulise (ngolwimi lwenkcubeko). Ukuba kukho ipaka yenja kwindawo yakho, bamba ibhola okanye iFrisbee kwaye yiya kuhambo kunye nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyabazi abantu abazithandayo izinja.
Kwiimeko ezikhoyo ngoku apho ukuhamba kwezentlalo kulungelelwaniso losuku, ungaqala incoko nabanye abantu abazithandayo izinja, kodwa uhlala ukhusela umgama ofanelekileyo wentlalo ukunqanda ukosuleleka.
Funda izinto ezintsha ukudibana nabantu
Yiba zifundo ze-intanethi, ubuso ngobuso, ukufunda ukupheka, ukwenza i-yoga okanye nasiphi na esinye isihloko esikuthandayo, unokufumana iindlela zokufunda izinto ezintsha kunye nokujoyina iqela elenza olu hlobo lomsebenzi. Yindlela yokufumana abantu ababelana ngezinto onomdla kuzo kwaye, abantu abafuna ukuthetha nawe kuba nabo bayabona ukuba unomdla ofana nowabo.
Ngumbono omangalisayo kwaye uya kwandisa ulwazi lwakho ngezihloko ozithandayo. Phantse ngaphandle kokuyiqonda, uya kudibana nabantu abafana nawe. Okanye ubuncinci, ungadibana nabantu abatsha kwicandelo elahlukileyo.
Le yeminye yemisebenzi yokuhlangana nabantu abatsha efanelekileyo ngakumbi kubantu abaneentloni ngakumbi okanye abanalo ixesha elincinci lokuzikhathaza ngolonwabo. Ukuba uhlala ucinga ukuba ufuna ukudibana nabantu abatsha ebomini bakho kodwa ungazange uthathe inyathelo ngaphambili, ngoku lixesha lokwenza njalo. Khetha enye yeendlela zokudibana nabantu abatsha esisandula ukukuchazela. Ngale ndlela kuphela uyakuqonda ukuba ukudibana nabanye kulula kakhulu kunokuba ucinga kwaye uya kuba nakho ukufumana aba bantu bamangalisayo ubulinde ixesha elide.