Iimpawu ezintle zabantu zisenza ukuba bangobani. Basenza ukuba sicinge kwaye siphinde siqwalasele ebomini, sibe neengcinga ezithile kunye neentlobo zezenzo ezisichazayo. Iimpawu ezintle zinokusetyenzwa kubuntu bakho ukuphucula nokukhula kuzo zonke iinkalo.
Okulandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ezintle zomntu kwaye zeziphi eziqhelekileyo ukuze, ukuba ucinga kufanelekile, ungaqala ukusebenza kuwe kwaye fumana ngale ndlela, phucula ubudlelwane kunye nawe kunye nabanye.
Zeziphi izinto ezilungileyo
Xa sithetha ngokulunga, sibhekisa kwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha kwabantu. Umntu onesimilo esigqibeleleyo uya kuba nesimilo esenziwe ngeempawu ezintle ezixabiseke njengezintle kwinqanaba lomntu kunye noluntu.
Abantu abaneempawu ezintle bahlala bethembekile, benembeko, abantu abakhaliphileyo, bayakwazi ukuxolela, bahlala benobubele kubo nakwabanye, kwaye bade, njl. Zininzi izinto ezintle njengoko kukho abantu emhlabeni, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba nangayiphi na imeko, uyazi ukuba zeziphi ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuze ube nazo ngaphakathi kuwe. Abantu abaneempawu ezintle benza into elungileyo nokuba yeyiphi enye into, abayikhathalelanga "into abazakuyithetha", izenzo zayo zihambelana nemithetho-siseko yazo kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni.
Kukho abo baya kucinga ukuba izidalwa ezintle zizelwe ebantwini, kodwa akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani ... zinokulinywa ukuze wenze ebomini bakho ngokwexabiso elifanelekileyo. Abaweli kwiminqweno okanye kwiminqweno. Bahamba phambili ebomini babo kwaye benza ngokuzihlonipha bona kunye nabanye. Ngale ndlela, bafumana ulonwabo.
Ziqhelise nokuziphatha okuhle ebomini bakho
Iimpawu ezintle yinto enokufundwa ngumntu wonke kwaye enyanisweni, ziimpawu eziza kukuzisela impilo-ntle. Xa ufuna ukusebenzisa izidima ebomini bakho kwaye uziphucule kancinci kancinci, ekugqibeleni kunye nexesha elingaphezulu, ziya kuphelela ekubeni yinxalenye yomlinganiswa wakho. Uya kuba nobudlelwane obusempilweni nabanye abantu kwaye uyakuqonda indlela obubaluleke ngayo ubomi.
Ngapha koko, ukuba awukaze ume ucinge ngezi zinto zilungileyo okanye uzenze, kungangabi lula kuwe ekuqaleni. Sonke siyazi ukuba ukufezekisa iinjongo kufuneka unyamezelo kunye nokuzingisa kwaye nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kufezekiswa.
Kodwa ubuhle buya kuhlala buzisa izinto ezintle, ngakumbi kuwe. Umzekelo, ukuba uyabaxolela abanye ngento embi abayenzileyo kuwe, awubakhululi kubutyala ... uzikhulula kwiimvakalelo ezingakhiyo ezinokuthi ziphele zichaphazela impilo yakho okanye ubomi bakho ngokubanzi.
Iimpawu ezilungileyo onokuziqhelanisa
Iimpawu ezintle onokuziqhelanisa nobomi bakho zininzi, kodwa kuya kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo kwezona zibalulekileyo. Ngoba? Kuba ukuziqhelanisa kuya kukunceda uzive ungcono ngawe kunye nabanye, kananjalo kuya kukunceda uqonde ukuba izenzo zakho ziya kuhlala zineziphumo ezahlukileyo ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwesenzo osikhethayo. Kule meko, Kungcono ukuba zizenzo ezizisa izinto ezilungileyo kuwe! Okanye hayi?
Ungaphuthelwa zezinye zeempawu ezintle onokuthi uqalise ukuzisebenzisa ebomini bakho ngoku, uyakuqonda ukuba ubomi buqala ukutshintsha bube ngcono!
- Uqeqesho La ingqeqesho ivumela umntu ukuba akwazi ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo. Umzekelo ukugqiba ikhondo lomsebenzi, ukugqiba iprojekthi, ukwenza imithambo yomzimba ekuvumela ukuba ugcine impilo esempilweni, njl.
- Ububele. Ububele buyimfuneko kubudlelwane boluntu, kodwa nakwisiqu sakho! Ububele bunokutshintsha imeko yakho, kunye neyabanye!
- Indalo Ukuyila kubalulekile ebomini, yiyo eya kukunceda ufumane isisombululo seengxaki. Ingqondo enengqondo ifuna idosi eyongezelelweyo yoyilo.
- Ithemba Buyintoni ubudlelwane ngaphandle kokuthembana? Kuya kufuneka uhlakulele ukuthembela kwisiqu sakho kodwa nakwabanye, kungoko kuphela apho uya kufezekisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Ewe ungathembi wonke umntu ... kuphela ngabo bafanelwe kukuthenjwa nguwe.
- Umbulelo. Kuhle ukuzalwa unombulelo! Kwanawona maxesha abalulekileyo ebomini bakho, umbulelo unokukwenza uzive ungcono kwaye utshintshe umbono wakho. Unokufumana into elungileyo kwizinto ezingalunganga kwaye, ukuzibulela kunye nabanye kuya kuhlala kuyenza intliziyo yakho ikhanye ngakumbi.
- Iluncedo. Ukuba luncedo kwabanye kuya kukunceda ukuba ube ngumntu olunge ngakumbi kwabanye kwaye uya kuziva ungcono ngawe. Nangona kule ngqondo, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukuze ube luncedo kwabanye kufuneka ufune ukukwenza ... ngaphandle kwesibophelelo ngaphandle kokushiya intliziyo yokwenza njalo, ayisosenzo siluncedo.
Ngaba ndingangumntu onesidima?
Kunjalo! Sonke sinezinto ezintle kwisimilo sethu, kuphela ngamanye amaxesha asisoloko sikubona. Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele konke okulungileyo onakho kwaye okunokukufezekisa ebomini bakho nakwabanye. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uswele ubuhle, Kuya kufuneka uye phantsi emsebenzini kwaye uqalise ukuziqhelanisa nazo ngakumbi!
Uyazi ukuba uneempawu ezintle kwimini yakho ngokujonga nje indlela abanye abantu abaphendula ngayo kwizenzo ozithathayo. Abahlobo bakho, usapho, abantu osebenza nabo kunye nabamelwane bakho baya kwazi ukuba ungumntu olungileyo, baya kukuthemba kwaye bazokwazi ukuba xa befuna into baya kukuxelela kuphela. Ukongeza, baya kuziva ukuba xa ufuna into, banokuhlala ecaleni kwakho ukwenza into oyifunayo, kuba Uyizuzile ngokuba ungumntu onesidima.
Abantu baya kufuna ukusondela kuwe kuba baya kuziva kamnandi xa bekufutshane nawe. Uya kuba yinkuthazo kwabaninzi kwaye baya kukuqonda njengomntu onesimilo esihle kwaye soloko unentliziyo entle kuba uyayazi indlela yokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo nanini na.
Ukuziqhelanisa nokulunga kwimihla yakho kuya kukuvumela ukuba uphucule amandla akho apheleleyo kwaye uphile ubomi obungcono obunenjongo ezingcono. Awuyi kuba nobomi obuqhelekileyo, ubomi bakho buya kuba obungaqhelekanga!