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Wamkelekile kulo msebenzi wesithathu womceli mngeni wokuba "ngumntu ongcono" endiwenza ngo-Agasti. Ungayibona inkcazo yalo mngeni kweli nqaku: Ngaba uyafuna ukuba ngumntu ongcono?
Ukuba ufuna ukulandela lo mngeni, kuya kufuneka wongeze imeyile yakho apha: Fumana amanqaku asimahla ngeposi yakho.
Kumsebenzi wesi-2 sijonga kwiimpawu ezimbi zobuntu bethu. Sifumene ukuqonda ukuba kutheni sinazo ezo mpawu kwaye kutheni sifuna ukutshintsha ezo zinto zethu. Sichonga amanyathelo amancinci ngendlela esinokuqala ngayo ukusebenza kwangoko.
Umsebenzi nº3: fumana isiqu sakho esifanelekileyo.
Umsebenzi wanamhlanje wasekhaya uza kuthatha malunga nemizuzu engama-20.
Wakhe wacinga ukuba "umntu wakho" unokuba njani? Ungathanda ukuba njani?
1) Uvuya, ungakhathali, uhlala uncumile kwaye wonwabile?
2) uhlala usasaza uvuyo nothando kubo bonke abantu abakungqongileyo?
3) Ukulangazelela ngobomi, ukuqhutywa nokuqhutywa yindlala kunye nokunxanelwa ukuphucuka?
4) Ngaba ulukhuni, uzimisele, uyazingisa, kwaye awusoze urhoxe kwimiceli mngeni?
5) Ugcwele amandla kunye nesibindi, kwaye ukulungele ukufezekisa amaphupha akho kunye neenjongo?
6) Uqinile kwaye awoyiki ukukhusela oko ucinga kufanelekile?
7) intle, intle kwaye izele kukukhanya?
8) Ukuthetha ngokutyibilikayo, okunontlalontle kunye nokukwazi ukuzithetha ngokukhululekileyo ngaphandle kwemida?
Zibone ngeempawu ozifunayo kwaye ngekhe ukwazi ukunceda kodwa uncume. Uya kungena kwimeko yoxolo noxolo.
Umsebenzi: fumanisa isiqu sakho esifanelekileyo.
Thatha incwadana uze uphendule le mibuzo ilandelayo:
1) Unjani "umntu ofanelekileyo"? Yenza inkcazo eneenkcukacha. Nanga amanye amanqaku anokukunceda ukuba uvuse umfanekiso wesiqu sakho esifanelekileyo:
- Ziimpawu zini ezinazo?
- Athini amaxabiso akho ebomini bakho? Eli nqaku linokukunceda: ufumane amaxabiso akho.
2) Athini amanyathelo amathathu Yintoni onokunika ngayo ukuze uqale ngokuphila "ngokugqibeleleyo" kwakho?