Ukwazi ukuba yintoni esishukumisayo kuyasinceda ukuba sizibekele iinjongo zethu
Inkuthazo yiyo eyenza ukuba kufumaneke kwaye kusete iinjongo zokuziphatha kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni iqhubeka okanye umzamo ushiywe. Ukwazi izizathu zakho kwenza ukuba ingqondo isasazeke kancinci kwaye ijolise ekusombululeni iingxaki ezenza kube nzima ukufezekisa iinjongo ezibekiweyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha unokuba nesizathu esomeleleyo kwaye uninzi alunazinjongo zinzulu kangako. Eyona yomeleleyo ikwangoyena uphembelela indlela umntu aziphethe ngayo kwaye leyo ikwaziyo ukuzinyanzela kwabanye xa zingenakwenziwa zonke ngaxeshanye.
Nangona kunjalo, ukomelela kweenjongo kunokutshintsha ngokuxhomekeke kumzuzu kunye nokuhamba kwexesha.
Abo bazama ukuqonda ukuba yeyiphi inkuthazo kwindalo iphela, baseke iindidi zehlabathi ezinje ngebhayiloji, intlalo, ukuzithemba, impumelelo, iimfuno zokukhula komntu ... ezintsonkothileyo ziyenziwa zisebenze.
Amanyathelo ama-4 okufumanisa izizathu zakho
1) Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezikwenza uzive ulungile
Faka kuyo zombini iintshukumo okanye iimeko ezikwanelisayo kwixesha elifutshane kunye nezo zikuvuza emva komzamo ophakathi okanye wexesha elide.
Ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi ezikhuthaza kakhulu, ungazama ngandlela thile "ukulinganisa" ulwaneliseko abakunika lona.
2) Phonononga yonke into oyenzileyo kangange veki kwaye ubone ukuba ulinike ixesha elingakanani kumsebenzi ngamnye.
3) Ujongene nobunzima, cinga ungaziva njani xa unokumphepha kwaye ujongane njani naye. Zibuze ukuba, ngokwakho, umgudu ufanelekile.
4) Hlalutya isigqibo ngasinye osenzayo ngemini. Ngokubanzi, abantu banokukhetha phakathi kweendlela ezininzi zokuziphatha kwaye bakhethe ngokungqinelana nezizathu zabo ezingaphezulu okanye ezingaphantsi.
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