Kukho abantu abacinga ukuba ikamva sele libhaliwe xa sizalwa. Ukuba izinto ezenzekayo kungenxa yokuba kufuneka zenzeke, ubomi bunomyalelo ongalawulwa mntu. Akukho zigqibo zingasekhoyo ngandlela thile, zilungiselelwe kwangaphambili kwikamva. Yonke into iyenzeka ngento ethile…
Nangona kwelinye icala, Kukwakho nabo bacinga ukuba ubomi buxakekile kwaye ngenxa yoko abunakulindeleka. Oku kuthetha ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo yenzeke ngengozi, ukuba izigqibo esizenzayo zezona zisishukumisayo ebomini.
Ikamva
Ukuya phambili yindawo apho siya khona ebomini, ngaphandle kokukhetha. Ingathi ikamva sele libhaliwe okanye liphawulwe luhlobo oluthile lwamandla angaphezu kwendalo. Ke inyathelo ebomini lomntu ngamnye kukulinda nje ukuba loo ndawo aya kuyo ifike.
Ngaphakathi kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo, kukho abo bacinga ukuba ngumntu owakhayo yonke imihla, kunye nezenzo kunye nolwalathiso oluthathwayo. Izigqibo zisikhokelela kwindlela esiyikhethileyo kwisiphelo sethu.
Ithuba
Endaweni yoko, ubuzaza yinto eyenzeka ngamabona-ndenzile. Ukuba uyokujonga umntakwenu endlwini yakhe ngabom kodwa ukuba umfumene esenza ivenkile evenkileni yinto eyenzekileyo. Ithuba lidibaniso elililo loko kwenzekayo kunye neemeko. Ukuyiqonda ngcono: ukuba udibene neqabane lakho kwivenkile yokutyela, intlanganiso ibiyinto ebangela umdla kodwa ukulambela ukuya kutya kwindawo yokutyela ziimeko ezinjalo.
Amabinzana okumiselwa okanye amathuba
Okulandelayo siza kukubonisa amabinzana ohlukeneyo okumiselwa kwangaphambili okanye ithuba lokuba ngale ndlela, uzazi ngakumbi ezi ngcinga zobomi. Ngaba ungomnye wabo bacinga ukuba ikamva sele libhaliwe okanye elo thuba kunye nezigqibo ngokwabo zezona zinto zenza ubomi babani?
Ngapha kokoInto ecacileyo yeyokuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala ngoku, bonwabele ubomi ngoku kuba ngekhe wazi (okanye ubuncinci asazi) ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni ngomso. Nokuba ikamva libhaliwe okanye akunjalo, ubomi benziwa ukuba buphilwe!
- Isiphelo sibhalwa nguwe kunye nokhetho lwakho.
- Andikholelwa kwilishwa. Ndiyakholelwa kwimiqondiso.
- Indawo ekuphela kwayo esiqiniseke ngayo kukufa.
- Ngamanye amaxesha uyifumana xa ungakhange uyikhangele.
- Kukho abo bakholelwa ukuba ikamva lixhomekeke emadolweni oothixo, kodwa inyani kukuba iyasebenza, njengomceli mngeni ovuthayo, kwizazela zabantu.
- Akukho nto yenzekayo ngamabona-ndenzile. Ngumcimbi wokuqokelela ulwazi kunye namava.
- Ithuba sisiphumo, kodwa hayi ingcaciso.
- Ulwabiwo lweetalente lwalusoloko lungqongqo, akukho namnye owanikwa ukhetho.
- Inzululwazi ayinomdla kum. Ungalihoyi iphupha, ithuba, ukuhleka, ukuziva nokuphikisana, izinto ezixabisekileyo kum.
- Qinisa intambo eyahlula ithuba kwishwangusha.
- Ukuba awuyifumani indlela yakho, yenza oko kuwe.
- Iinkolelo zakho ziba ziingcinga zakho, iingcinga zakho ziba ngamazwi akho, amazwi akho abe zizenzo zakho, izenzo zakho zibe imikhwa yakho, imikhwa yakho ibe yimilinganiselo yakho, amaxabiso akho abe lilungelo lakho.
- Andikholelwa kwilishwa, kum isiphelo asikho, ndiyakholelwa kwinto engenakuphepheka kodwa hayi kwinto abayibiza ngokuba sisiphelo, ayinakuba yiyo yonke into endiyenzayo ngumdlalo ongenaxhala wamathuba.
- Xa singakulindelanga kangako, ubomi busicelomngeni ekuvavanyeni isibindi kunye nokuzimisela ukutshintsha; Ngelo xesha, akukho sizathu sokwenza ngathi akukho nto yenzekileyo okanye sithi asikakulungeli okwangoku. Umceli mngeni awuzukulinda. Ubomi abubheki emva. Iveki ingaphezulu kwexesha elaneleyo lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ingaba siyalamkela na ikamva lethu.
- Isiphelo asibhalwanga, uyandinceda ukuba sibhale kwaye uyandinceda ukuba ndiyigqibe.
- Izigqibo ozithathayo usiba obhala ngalo ikamva lakho.
- Ezona zibini zibini zingoozwilakhe emhlabeni: ithuba kunye nexesha.
- Uthando oluninzi luyantshula ngamabona-ndenzile; soloko ulungile umlobothi wakho, kwaye kwindawo apho ungalindelanga ukuba uyakufumana iintlanzi.
- Ukuba awulindelanga okungalindelekanga, ngekhe uyiqonde xa ifika.
- Uthando alunakuphepheka, lubuhlungu kwaye alunasifo.
- Sonke silapha ngamathuba; hleka konke onokukwenza.
- Andikholelwa kumathuba okanye kwimfuneko. Intando yam ikamva.
- Kuninzi okunokwenzeka ebomini bethu, kuba siphila ngengozi.
- Kwakungenakuphepheka: ivumba leeamangile ezikrakra lihlala limkhumbuza ngekamva lothando olungqubanayo.
- Kungamaxesha esigqibo apho ikamva lakho liyenziwa.
- Umntu kufuneka akhethe, angalamkeli ikamva lakhe.
- Ikamva lakho likuwe, hayi ngegama lakho.
- Ebomini, ikamva liphantse lihlale lahlukile: abo baqondayo ayingabo abahlulayo, kwaye abo basebenzayo abaqondi.
- Khumbula oku: akukho nto ibhaliweyo ezinkwenkwezini. Akukho kwezi okanye komnye umntu. Akukho mntu ulawula ikamva labo.
- Indoda nganye inesiphelo sayo: ekuphela kwesinyanzelo kukuyilandela, ukuyamkela, nokuba ikhokelela phi.
- Soloko kufuneka uthathe umngcipheko. Yiyo leyo ikamva lethu.
- Kuya kufuneka uthembe into: ithuku lakho, ikamva lakho, ubomi, ikarma, nantoni na. Le mbono ayizange indiphoxe, kwaye yenze wonke umahluko ebomini bam.
- Ikamva ayisiyonto yamathuba. Ngumcimbi wokukhetha. Ayisiyonto elindelweyo, yinto enokuphunyezwa.
- Kuphela kungovuyo nentlungu apho umntu azi okuthile ngaye kunye nekamva lakhe. Bafunda ukuba mabenze ntoni kwaye baphephe ntoni.
- Simiselwe ukuba siyile ikamva lethu, kungabikho thuba lesibini. Yiyo loo nto amadoda esenza iimpazamo kwaye asiphoxe, kwaye senza ububi, kodwa kwakhona, enkosi kuloo nto, sinokubuguqula ubomi bethu, siyile imixholo yayo.
- Oko sikubonakalisayo kuphambi kwethu; singabayili bekamva lethu. Nokuba kungenjongo okanye ukungazi, impumelelo kunye nokusilela kwethu kubangelwe kungomnye ngaphandle kwethu.
- Kuyaziwa ukuba ubomi abumiselwanga kwangaphambili kwaye onke amabali ngothotho lweziganeko.
- Ithuba alincume kulowo ulifunayo, kodwa kulowo ulifaneleyo.
- Igama ithuba alinantsingiselo, kwaye layilwa ukubonisa ukungaqondi kwabantu ngezinto ezithile. Ubomi, ekukhuleni kwabo okuqhubela phambili, kutyhila uyilo olukrelekrele.
- Oko sikubiza ngokuba lithuba akukho nto ngaphandle kokungazi imithetho yendalo.