Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bukhona ngamanye awona maxesha mahle kwimbali yoluntu. Xa uMartin Luther King wazisa ngephupha lakhe, wakhetha ulwimi olwashukumisa iintliziyo zabaphulaphuli bakhe. Umyalezo onjalo okhangayo ufuna ukubanakho ukuqonda, ukuqonda, nokulawula iimvakalelo. UMartin Luther King ubonise ubuchule obumangalisayo bokulawula iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye naye wakwazi ukonwabisa abaphulaphuli bakhe.
Enye yeenkokheli ezazinempembelelo kwinkulungwane yama-20 yawaqonda amandla eemvakalelo kwaye yafunda iimpembelelo zeemvakalelo kulwimi lomzimba wayo. Oku kwamvumela ukuba abe sisithethi esidlangalaleni esinomdla. Igama lakhe yayingu Adolf Hitler.
Ukusukela ukupapashwa kweyona nto ithengiswayo ngo-1995 Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo NguDaniel Goleman, le meko yobukrelekrele ijongwe ngoosopolitiki kunye nootitshala njengesisombululo kuluhlu olubanzi lweengxaki zentlalo. Ukuba singafundisa abantwana bethu ukuba baphathe iimvakalelo baya kuba nentlalontle ngakumbi. Ukuba sinokuhlakulela ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo phakathi kweenkokheli kunye noogqirha, siya kuba noluntu olukhathalayo ngakumbi kunye nononophelo lwempilo olunemfesane.
Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bubalulekile kodwa bunecala elimnyama. Xa abantu bephucula izakhono zabo zeemvakalelo, baye babe nobuchule bokusebenzisa kakubi abanye. Xa ulungile ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, unokuzifihla iimvakalelo zakho zokwenyani. Xa uyazi ukuba baziva njani abanye, ungabakhuphela iintliziyo zabo kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba benze ngokuchasene nabo.
Oososayensi bezentlalo baqalisile ukubhala eli candelo limnyama lobukrelekrele bemvakalelo. Uphando ibonise ukuba xa inkokeli inika intetho ehlaselwe ngokweemvakalelo, abaphulaphuli bakhumbula kancinci kumxholo wentetho. Ababhali bayibiza njalo ukusebenza kukothuka ('Iziphumo ezothusayo').
Ukunyanzelwa kukaHitler kwakusekwe kwisakhono sakhe sokukrazula iintliziyo zabaphulaphuli. kwaye lwaphelisa naluphi na uhlobo lokucinga okunzulu ngokuchasene nentetho yakhe.
Iinkokeli ezilawula iimvakalelo zinokusiphanga amandla ethu okuqiqa. Ukuba amaxabiso abo aphambene nawethu, iziphumo zinokuba zibi. Xa abantu beneenjongo zokuzingca, ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo buba sisixhobo sokukhohlisa abanye.
Ewe kunjalo, abantu abasoloko besebenzisa ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo ngeenjongo ezingathandekiyo. Basebenzisa izakhono zabo zeemvakalelo njengesixhobo sezixhobo ekufezekiseni iinjongo. Eli candelo lilungileyo lobukrelekrele bemvakalelo yile nto kufuneka ifundiswe ezikolweni ngendlela elawulwayo.
Inqaku elinika umdla, nangakumbi umbono wokuyazisa njengesifundo ezikolweni, ngale nto siza kuba nezizukulwana ezizayo zingqina, sonwabile kwaye siqinisekile ukuba siza kuhamba kwindlela eya kubazisela ulwaneliseko lobuqu kunye nobungcali.