Idayari yokukhulelwa, incwadi emnandi yokufunda amabhinqa akhulelweyo

Ndithenge lejenali kwakamsinya nje ndakufumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe.

Kukho ulwazi lwemihla ngemihla malunga nokukhula komntwana wam, ulwazi ngesondlo, iinyani ezimnandi malunga nokuzala kunye nokuba ngumzali kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, iikowuti ezincinci emazantsi ephepha ngalinye.

Ekuphela kwento andiyithandiyo malunga nombhali kukuba unoluvo olungqongqo kakhulu xa kuziwa kwinto yokuba umntu okhulelweyo angenza ntoni kwaye angenakwenza ntoni. Ndiyaqonda ukuba ezi zizinto ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni kodwa ngamanye amaxesha zivusa uloyiko kunye nokuziva unetyala koomama bangomso.

Ndiye ndacelwa ukuba ndidwelise ezo zinto ndifuna ukuziqaqambisa kule ncwadi, ke ngoku ndiyaya. Ndingathanda ukuqaqambisa ezi zinto zili-9.

1) Umbhali ubonakalisa umhla wokukhulelwa kosana. Kwafuneka ndilwe nomnqweno wokufunda kwiintsuku ezilandelayo.

2) Kukho iindawo onokubhala kuzo uluvo lwakho oluzenzekelayo, iingcinga, njl.

I-3) Indenze ndaziva ndisondele ngakumbi kwinto encinci ekhula esiswini sam.

4) Ngokuqinisekileyo ungalufumana olu lwazi kwiiwebhusayithi ezahlukeneyo kodwa eli phephancwadi likunika ukubhalwa kwendlela oziva ngayo kwaye oko kuyakwenza inkumbulo enkulu ngenye imini.

5) Kumnandi kakhulu ukuvuka kwaye ufumanise ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni ngomntwana wakho ngala mini.

6) Ndimele nditsho ukuba ngamanye amaxesha umbhali wandicaphukisa. Ngokutsho kwakhe, kuyabonakala ukuba ekuphela kwento emelwe kukutya ngabafazi abakhulelweyo ziilentile kunye nesipinatshi.

7) Yincwadi emnandi yokufunda kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi umbhali ukunika intetho.

8) Yonke imihla inekholamu yokubhaliweyo ekunika ulwazi kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo: ukukhula komntwana, impilo kamama, isondlo, ukuzala kwezinye iinkcubeko, ngamanye amaxesha ezinye iingcebiso zokuzilolonga okanye ukukhulula iimpawu ezinjengeentlungu zomqolo.

9) Olu lwazi lufutshane kwaye lufutshane, kodwa likunika iinkcukacha malunga nomhla wokuqalwa kwamehlo omntwana, njl.

ISIQINISEKISO

Ndifumene esi sikhokelo siluncedo kakhulu. Isebenza njengesixhobo esikhulu kunye neqabane elindwendweleyo kugqirha wam. Ikwavumela ukuba ndibhale phantsi loo maxesha abalulekileyo okukhulelwa kwam endifuna ukuwakhumbula.

Yincwadi entle kakhulu!

Maialen Espinosa, ukufunda iincwadi yinto endiyithandayo endiyithandayo ukusukela ndisengumntwana.