Ngaba ingaba yi iincwadi zokuziphucula okungenampilo okanye ukukhula komntu kwabanye abantu?
Abanye bacinga njalo. Khawufane ucinge ngomntu ofunde ukuphila ubomi babo ngendlela eyanelisayo kwaye ngequbuliso ethatha isigqibo sokuqhubeka Uqala ukuphupha iinjongo ezinkulu kwaye uqala ukuzikhuthaza ukuba uzifezekise. Ngenxa yoku, uthatha isigqibo sokuthatha umngcipheko othile kwaye aqale ukutshintsha indlela aphila ngayo. Unokujamelana nelahleko kunye nokudana okujongela phantsi ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye uthathe uxinzelelo lwengqondo.
Kukho abantu abacinga ukuba iincwadi kwi ukuziphucula banokwenza imimangaliso embalwa. Nangona kunjalo, zinokubangela ilahleko, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kwabanye abaninzi.
Iincwadi malunga nokuziphucula ziluncedo
Abanye bacinga ukuba abantu abalandela iinjongo zabo ngaphandle kwenkolelo yokuba bazokuzifezekisa ngabo abagqibela ngokwenza izigqibo ezimbi nezonakalisayo. Kukungabikho kolweyiseko.
Kukho abantu abazimisele ngokungummangaliso ukuba baphumelele kwaye bayenze yonke loo nto. Abafuni ukuchitha iminyaka engama-60 bebalisa amabali malunga "ngendibe sisityebi ukuba bendine ..."
Ukuba wenza into kuba umntu esithi uyenze okanye uyacetyiswa kuwe, endaweni yokuziqonda ngokwakho, kunokuba "yingozi."
Ucinga lonto kubhetele ukuzisola ngento oyenzileyo kunento ongakhange uyenze. Kwakhona, ukuqonda okuqinisekileyo kuyaqhubeka nokudlala indima enkulu ekwetyisweni kweencwadi ezinjalo. Ingxaki kuphela apha kukuba "Ingqondo eqhelekileyo ayiqhelekanga njengoko yayiqhelekile."
Ke izidenge zinokubonakalisa ubomi bazo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ndisenza into kwaye ndisoyika, ndithi kum, 'Yeyiphi eyona nto imbi inokwenzeka? Ngaba ndingafela ukuyenza? Akunjalo? Ke ndiza kuyenza ukuba inzuzo endinokuyenza inkulu ngokwaneleyo. Kufuneka uzithembe kwaye uyazi ukuba yonke ingxaki inesisombululo.
Umntu makazame yenza izinto ezintsha ngobulumko obuncinci.
Umntu ngamnye wahlukile, eneetalente ezahlukeneyo, iinjongo, ubuntu kunye namava. Akulunganga ukuba "yikopi" engaboniyo yomnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uhlengahlengisa iinjongo zakho ukuze ulingane ngokwahluka kwakho, isantya, indlela ophila ngayo, kunye neendlela, ungaphumelela kakhulu. Kuyinyani ukuba abantu bahlukile kwaye into esebenzele umntu inakho okanye ingasebenzi kwabanye. Umntu ngamnye kufuneka athathe isigqibo sokuba ingaba buhlungu okanye buyamnceda na.
Awunakho ukulahla lonke ingcebiso oyifumana kwiincwadi zokuzinceda. Iincwadi zokuziphucula azisosiphelo. Ziziqalo nje zokutshintsha ubomi bakho. Intoni Jim Rohn Ndingathi, iincwadi lulwazi olo. Ziyindawo yokuqala.
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